Couple on Fire – For couples that want to take their faith, family, and future to the next level

Growth is a natural part of life, but sometimes that growth means outgrowing certain people, relationships, or environments. In this episode, Fertilizer, NOT Weedkiller , we talk about the hard truth: it's OK to change the people around you as you grow. We’ll explore how outgrowing people doesn’t mean you’re tearing others down; it means you’re choosing to plant yourself in healthier soil that fos...

The holiday season often brings joy, but it can also bring stress, pressure, and distractions that pull us away from what really matters. In this episode, we’re taking a moment to refocus and remind ourselves of the true reason for the season: Jesus. Join us as we dive into the importance of letting go of the stressors, to-do lists, and expectations that tend to weigh us down—not just during Chris...

Whether you're part of a nuclear family or a blended one, seasons of life bring new dynamics that often require rethinking cherished routines. We’ll dive into the importance of honoring your past traditions while creating space for new ones that reflect your current season of life. From shifting holiday schedules to blending traditions across families, this conversation is packed with practical in...

Thanksgiving is all about gratitude, family, and, of course, great food—but sometimes the holiday table can feel more like a battleground. In this episode, we’re tackling how to navigate those tricky family dynamics that can bubble up during the holidays. Whether it’s a heated debate over politics or a disagreement about the stuffing recipe, we share practical tips for avoiding confrontation and t...

Ever felt like you were doing everything right, hoping that nothing bad would happen, only to find yourself facing unexpected challenges? In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the trap of practicing faith out of fear rather than genuine desire. We explore the misconception that if we check all the boxes, God will shield us from all hardships. Join us as we uncover how this mindset can hinder...

Have you ever faced an unexpected job loss or a sudden health issue that left you questioning your path? In this enlightening episode, we explore how life's unexpected challenges might be more than just setbacks—they could be divine redirections guiding you toward God's intended path. Join us as we share inspiring stories and biblical insights that reveal how what seems like a detour may actually...

Ever wondered what it takes to successfully work alongside your spouse without letting work (or relationship tensions) take over? In this episode, we’re sharing the honest, practical ways to make a partnership at work just as strong as one at home. From setting boundaries to creating healthy communication habits, we’ll break down the most common challenges couples face when they combine business a...

NEW PODCAST FORMAT: In this new, bite-sized episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast , we’re opening up about the major changes happening in our lives. Kristy has been permanently laid off from her job, which was a huge part of our family’s income. Now, we’re stepping into the world of content creation full-time, trusting God to guide us through this season of uncertainty. It’s a time of faith, adjus...

In this rerun episode, we're diving into an essential topic for anyone starting a new chapter or pursuing a fresh goal: "Don’t Let Haters Change Your Path." As you step forward, it's common to face resistance or negativity, but how do you stay focused? We’ll explore how to maintain your direction, stay grounded in your faith, and surround yourself with positive influences. With inspiration from 2...

Are arguments with your spouse leaving you feeling hurt and disconnected? In this enlightening episode, we reveal how to transform disagreements into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. We delve into three vital strategies: Establishing effective communication guidelines Focusing on the issue using "I" statements Working towards resolution and compromise Through real-life examples and...

Welcome back to "The Couple on Fire Podcast"! In tonight's special rerun episode, we're tackling a sensitive yet vital topic: how to rejuvenate your marriage when it feels like you're the only one trying. We know that relationships can face uphill battles, but what steps can you take to make a positive change on your own? Join us as we share 4 powerful, faith-driven strategie...

Welcome back to The Couple on Fire Podcast ! In this special episode, Kristy and I revisit the timeless journey of navigating marriage through its various life stages. From the exhilarating days of newlywed bliss to the transformative middle years and into the wisdom-filled later stages, we explore the unique challenges and joys each phase brings. Join us as we share heartfelt stories, practical a...

Do you ever feel like your relationship could use a little spark? In this episode, we dive into the real secret to building a stronger, more connected marriage—encouragement. From cheering on your spouse's dreams to offering words of affirmation when they need it most, we're breaking down how simple acts of support can create huge changes in your relationship. Join us as we explore why lif...

🎉 Throwback Episode Alert! 🎉 🕰️ We're bringing back one of our all-time favorites with Marriage experts and edutainers, Jay & Laura Laffoon! 💑 In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of Putting Your Spouse First and why it's the foundation for a thriving marriage. 🔥 Plus, we're sharing some EXCITING opportunities on the horizon you won't want to miss! ✨ Mark your...

In this episode of "The Couple on Fire Podcast," my wife Kristy and I delve into the profound significance of marriage and why it holds the utmost importance in our lives. Drawing from our Christian beliefs, we explore how marriage has been a transformative force in our personal growth, spiritual unity, and family foundations. Join us as we discuss how marriage aligns with God's desi...

We're bringing back one of our most popular episodes where we dive deep into a topic that hits close to home— Unrealistic Expectations in Marriage . 🌟 In this eye-opening episode, we explore how those idealistic standards we often set can create hidden challenges in our relationships. From the myth of the perfect partner to the pressure of keeping up a picture-perfect union, we uncover the re...

In this special re-run, we dive into the core message of 'The Couple on Fire' Podcast: the importance of taking that first step and just starting. 🔥 Reflecting on our journey, we explore the challenges and triumphs of initiating something new and meaningful. From our initial steps in ministry to the evolution of our podcast, we share our personal experiences as recovering alcoholics, our...

In this episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast, we're diving into what it really means to live a healthy life. We'll break down the misconceptions and share practical tips to help you achieve true wellness. Join us as we explore: Less is More (Balance) - Discover how finding balance in all areas of life can lead to better health and well-being. We'll discuss why sometimes doing less can...

Join us on this episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast as we welcome Eloy and Stephanie Martinez to share their insights on playing the “long game” in relationships. Drawing from their own experiences and biblical wisdom, Eloy and Stephanie discuss how making thoughtful, long-term choices can pave the way for a stronger, more resilient relationship. Tune in to hear practical advice on balancing imm...

In this episode of "The Couple on Fire Podcast," we dive into the delicate balance between humor and harm in marriage. While laughter is often called the best medicine, it's crucial to recognize when jokes can cross the line and cause unintended pain. Join us as we explore the potential dangers of poking fun at your spouse and offer insights on how to keep humor healthy and uplifting...

Join us for a replay of one of our favorite episodes as we dive into "The Best Relationship Advice for Couples." In this episode, we explore the key to a thriving relationship through the lens of the five love languages, as popularized by Gary Chapman. We discuss how understanding and utilizing these love languages can transform your marriage, making it stronger and more fulfilling. We s...

Arguments are inevitable in any relationship, but handling them with care and respect can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth. Join us as we explore four essential rules for healthy arguing: Stay Respectful: Discover how maintaining respect and focusing on the issue can lead to constructive outcomes. Use Safe Words: Learn the power of a safe word to pause heated discussions and keep...

Join us as we dive into Pixar's latest hit, "Inside Out 2," and explore its newest character, Anxiety. Voiced by Maya Hawke, Anxiety reflects the complex emotions that come with adolescence and offers a unique perspective on mental health. In this episode, we break down four key points: Understanding Anxiety Through Riley's Eyes : We discuss how the character of Anxiety is portra...

In this episode of 'The Couple on Fire,' my wife Kristy and I dive deep into a topic that impacts every couple - household chores. It might sound mundane, but hear us out. We've discovered that chores can be a hidden battleground or a powerful tool to strengthen your marriage, depending on how you approach them. From scrubbing dishes to laundry, cleaning the house to cooking meals, we...

Certainly! Here's a podcast description for your episode: Episode Title: Disengagement: The Silent Killer In this powerful episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast, we dive deep into the silent epidemic of disengagement. Whether it's in our marriages, workplaces, or family dynamics, disengagement can creep in and wreak havoc on our lives. Join us as we uncover the subtle signs of disengagemen...