Cat & Nat Unfiltered

In this repeat episode we are questioning whether the digital world is quietly reshaping our kids’ mental health. TikTok and Instagram have become more than just apps—they’re spaces where our kids compare themselves, perform for others, and figure out who they are. What they see and how they engage with that content can affect everything from anxiety and self-worth to sleep and overall well-being....

In this repeat episode, we dive into the unspoken battles that come with parenting, relationships, and trying to keep your family life from completely taking over. From subtle power struggles over parenting styles and school choices to the pressure of sports, schedules, and the never-ending demands of family life, we unpack how the little things can slowly turn into much bigger issues. We talk abo...

This week, we’re basically our own therapists. We’re talking about that weird stage of motherhood where your kids are growing up and the life you pictured doesn’t quite exist anymore. One of us is feeling completely under stimulated, bored, and desperate to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, while the other is trying to figure out if the answer is more plans, more travel, or simply accepting that the old summe...

In this repeat episode we are talking about the real reasons our kids are glued to their phones (hint: dopamine addiction, not FOMO) and how to rewire their brains for satisfaction in real life, not just social media scrolls. We break down the science behind purpose, confidence, and responsibility with practical hacks like Saturday team chores, meaningful responsibilities, and how to teach kids co...

In this wild, emotional, and very real repeat episode, we pull back the curtain on our postpartum experiences — the good, the bad, the hilarious, and the moments where you’re just trying to survive on mini Oreos and zero sleep. From delivery room surprises and questionable wardrobe planning to the pressure to “bounce back” and somehow have it all figured out, we’re talking about the things no one...

In this repeat episode we're talking about the emotional rollercoaster of raising adult children: watching them leave home, letting go of the need to fix everything, and realizing that your role as a parent is constantly evolving. We get honest about the grief that comes with watching your kids become independent, the unexpected moments that catch you off guard, and why "it gets easier" isn't alwa...

School isn't built for every kid... so why do we keep expecting every child to fit the same mold? We weren't kids who needed to "try harder"—we just needed to learn differently. We struggled through school, and now we're raising kids with different learning styles of their own. Looking back, we realize that "try harder" was some of the worst advice we ever received. This conversation is about shif...

Are year-round sports making our kids stronger? We are talking about the wild world of competitive youth sports—from 5 a.m. hockey practices and travel teams to reclassing kids for a competitive edge and wondering when enough is enough. We unpack the pressure parents feel to keep up, whether kids are chasing their own dreams or ours, and what happens when sports become less about fun and more abou...

In this repeat episode we are talking all about midlife. Midlife isn't halfway to death—it's when you stop pretending. Your energy changes. Your body changes. Your parents start aging. Your kids need you in completely different ways. The things that once felt so important suddenly don't matter nearly as much. Caring for aging parents has a way of changing you. It gives you perspective, whether you...

We are diving into one of the biggest parenting questions of our time: are we helping our kids... or accidentally holding them back? From making orthodontist appointments and surviving camp without a proper towel, to why jobs, sports, awkward moments, and even a little discomfort might be exactly what kids need to become capable adults, this conversation goes deep. We unpack the impact of parentin...

We are bringing you back one of your favourite Friday episodes! Remember when dating was simple? You had a crush, ran in the same friend group, maybe shared a few drinks, made out once or twice, and suddenly you were together. If you were talking to someone, you were dating them. Fast forward to today, and we genuinely have no idea what the rules are anymore. If we were single and dating a man our...

Summer is somehow half over, one of our daughters is moving away to university in six weeks...why does it feel like we’re already grieving a life that hasn’t even changed yet? What is this weird in-between stage of parenting where your kids are still home… but not really?? We’re packing for residence, cleaning out bedrooms, pretending we’re not emotional, and trying to convince ourselves that Face...

In this repeat episode we get into how parenting teens feels like uncharted territory. It doesn't get easier—it just changes. One of the hardest parts is figuring out how to help our kids launch. What used to feel like a natural step toward independence now seems to require a whole lot more from us. We love that they still want to be close, but does that closeness help them grow—or quietly hold th...

We are talking about the unspoken rules of youth hockey and sharing everything we wish we'd known before our kids started moving teams. Why do so many parents feel like they're navigating a world with rules that no one is actually willing to explain? This episode isn't just about hockey—it's about parenting. We talk about trusting your instincts, asking the uncomfortable questions, choosing coache...

Summer is supposed to be relaxing, so why does it feel like we're working harder than ever? We're talking about the chaos that starts the minute school ends—from packing for vacations and keeping everyone healthy, to realizing moms somehow become the family's travel coordinator, logistics manager, and nurse all at once. Because without fail, someone always gets sick. It's basically a vacation rule...

In this repeat episode we talk about what defines good parenting—and how do you know if you’re actually doing it right? In those first ten years, we felt like we were getting an A+: the routines, the structure, the feeling that we were showing up and doing everything we could. Even though it was physically and mentally exhausting, there was a sense of control and purpose. But parenting evolves as...

In this repeat episode we’re talking about desire — where it comes from, where it goes, and why it seems to change so much over the years. Has our definition of sexual desire evolved as we’ve gotten older, or did the chaos of life, parenting, and the endless mental load slowly push it to the back burner? Nat used to be a full-on walking horndog, but somewhere between motherhood, exhaustion, and ke...

Three years ago Cat's daughter Olivia got a concussion... and it changed everything. What we thought would be a 10-day recovery turned into a year-long journey through chronic headaches, dizziness, vision problems, panic, endless appointments, and lots of questions unanswered. Today Olivia joins Cat to share what happened—from the moment she hit her head to what recovery actually looked like. We t...

It is officially summer so that means we are bringing you back some of YOUR favourite episodes!! There is a shift in parenting older kids. The roles, the routines, even the purpose. Do we need a club? Hobbies? A retirement home for people our age? We ask ourselves the three questions every mom should ask. Weigh in and let us know your answers! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inform...

We are bringing you a repeat this holiday weekend! This episode isn’t just about sports—it’s about confidence, resilience, and rethinking what winning really means. We get into the pressure parents put on kids, the entitlement that can creep into youth sports, and why sometimes the biggest lessons happen off the field. And because we can never leave well enough alone, we dream up our latest millio...

We are a little all over the place this week! We get into a very real conversation about perimenopause, unpredictable periods, navigating women's healthcare, and why getting answers shouldn't be harder than booking Botox. We also chat about sports nutrition, the pressure social media puts on feeding our kids "the right way," and why girls love hanging out in their rooms while boys disappear to the...

Today we’re joined by career coach, recruiter, content creator, public speaker and author Emily Durham for a conversation every parent of a teen or young adult needs to hear. Emily's longtime expertise in hiring and recruitment has made her a trusted voice on modern hiring, Gen Z careers, and the evolving world of work. We get into the reality of today’s job market, why getting hired feels harder...

We’re talking hockey drafts, hockey agents, hockey reality shows, hockey WAGs and the absolutely wild world of youth sports where kids seem to need highlight reels, social media managers, and future plans before they can even drive. We debate whether young athletes really need agents, if social media is helping or hurting kids chasing big dreams, and whether talent alone is still enough to get not...

We are deep in the weeds over here with graduations, ceremonies, and all the end-of-year chaos that comes with having seven kids! So this week, we're bringing back one of your favourite episodes. We're talking about one of the biggest conversations happening right now: bodies, aging, weight, and the growing buzz around GLP-1 medications. With celebrities like Oprah and Serena Williams making headl...

We're talking about the great teen summer job debate: Are jobs really impossible to find, or have our kids become a little too selective? We get into a conversation about chores, responsibility, and why we're still cleaning up after our teenagers who somehow have time for their phones but not the dishwasher. If you're raising teens, trying to teach responsibility, or wondering if you're the only o...