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i love a good concert. the music, the performance, the deeper meaning of the songs, the artist, the person they are and all of it. concerts have always had a huge impact on me. music has always been something that i lean on in all parts of my life. go to a concert with your friend listen and feel the music.

talking with my sc about school, post grad, jobs, life, relationships and so much more

reminding yourself to celebrate something you wanted and now you have it and you dont celebrate it anymore. bring yourself back to the time where you hoped and prayed for this opportunity and how happy you were when you get there. also remember its okay to not want what you wanted 2 years ago now.

update on my life, highs and lows of life, friends, relationships, dating, all of it????

in a city with over 1.6 million people, how could you feel alone? it's easy people stay in their phones when walking the streets ot riding the bus. i challenge you to talk to one person when ride the bus (with caution haha) and i challenge you to smile at a person on the street or say hello and to have a good day. itll make you feel good. last challenge i give to you in join a club or do an activi...

be your true authentic self will help you align with where you should be in your life.  stop having regrets because those 'regrets' helped you get where you are today and maybe those things happened for a reason.  you do not have control over anything and i know i have talked about this before but just ride the wave and sit back and see where life takes you.

just be nice. easier said than done but challenge yourself to have empathy for others around you and kill it with kindness.  be the person that turns a bad day around for someone. understanding that everyone is going to through something and be mindful of it.

- put boundaries up with work, friends and everything. maintain those boundaries - dont put yourself in a position to have to be like 'claire why did i do that' - truly put yourself first and put yourself in the center - you can say no sometimes

making decisions can be extremely difficult when you think about all the down-steams it's going to effect but why complicate things. just trust yourself and make the decisions purely on what you think is best. step back and think about those things for yourself, what will make you happiest? if you don't know maybe its not time for you to be making those decisions.

have you been wanting to do that one thing but no one will do it with you or its too hard to plan it? i've been wanting to go to a bagel shop for such a long time bt it was like i was waiting for someone to come with me...why? cause its better to have a friend to do things with? i mean yes but also why couldn't i go to this bagel shop alone and make a little morning out of it. hang with yourself a...

starting your morning right.

living a more minimalist lifestyle encourages you be more intentional when buying things. it helps you appreciate the things you have which adds ore value to you your things and your life. think about it next time you are buying something that you like but you also have thoughts of you dont really need it. 

with so many people out there sharing their everyday its very hard not to compare yourself what you're doing or not doing with the people on social media. social media has created a perfect environment for people to mostly share the highlights are their lives. at the end of the day everyone has their bad days, their dark thoughts and struggles. we are all human

why hang with people that make you feel like shit. surround yourself around people that make you feel good, support you, love you and most importantly challenge you even if it is annoying. you will learn so much about yourself, others, and life in general.

its that time of year!! what do you get your secret santa, family or friends? i hopefully have you covered and hope this is helpful.

sunday scaries, everyone has them. all we need to do is sit down get ready for the week. do your laundry, go grocery shopping, do a little self care and get to bed at a decent hour. give yourself a moment to reflect on your weekend and be grateful that you have another week ahead of you.

anyone else? working from home everyday or at least the majority of the week is extremely hard. its great at time dont get me wrong but as a human we need to be around other humans to feel connected and to feel engaged with the world. in this episode  i am going to talk about how working from home makes me feel extremely isolated and what we can try to do to make sure that doesnt happen. so here w...

corporate america

post grad thoughts from a new grad, who is looking for a job, who is going through the weird transitions of college to real adulthood. my cousin colin, my bestie friend since birth. listen to hear his thoughts of how post grad is for him being a construction management major and a retired student athlete.

why can i not relax on my pto?

recap the girls and i were at Rehoboth beach, Delaware for a girls trip! we talk about our difference experiences of post grad! we are all in a different place but we all have the weird feelings and struggles of post grad. go follow https://www.tiktok.com/@emilys.playlists?_t=8VLVECBlni6&_r=1

sitting in my brand new apartment with literally my bed, my desk, my dresser and that is it. feeling lonely. but honestly glad im here and ive been waiting for this moment to be alone in my own space for a awhile now. so we are going to enjoy being lonely cause being lonely is not always a bad thing. it gives us a time to grow, to understand ourselves on a deeper level. it gives us a chance to ent...

fav clothes right now are very minimum. which i think is better, the more staples/basics you have the more outfits you have! it's summer so there's a lot less clothing to be worn. i strictly wear biker shorts with a big tshirt or a cropped tank top. if im going out with the girls i wear a classic 501 levi jean with a minimal cute top with a nice basic heel or cool fun sneaker depending on the mood...

recap of life lately. my poppi's 90th bday party the ups and downs. trip to philly, apartment FINDING. truly letting things just happen in life will save us so much stress. being patient, kind, loving and gentle with yourself through this life.

mom is home from colarado! missed her, i scheduled pto! and im excited for some trips! figuring out friendships and i feel at peace with where im at right now but still learning.