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Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express identity, desires, and boundaries. Originating in the underground scenes of the 1970s, flagging has evolved from the traditional hanky codes to include contemporary...

Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, interviews, and unexpected adventures from one of the hottest lifestyle events of the year. From vibrant theme nights like Pop Culture and Dirty Disney to intimate...

This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold behind the sauna’s discreet doors. From flirtatious encounters to unexpected connections, Bradford reveals the exhilarating experiences and playful escapades tha...

This week on By the Bi, join Angela and special guest Spanky as they delve into the vibrant and often misunderstood world of being a single lady in the lifestyle community. From navigating social dynamics to embracing personal empowerment, this episode offers a candid look at the challenges and triumphs faced by single women in a scene often dominated by couples. Spanky and Angela share their pers...

Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit a hot favorite on By the Bi—packing for a sexy vacation! This episode isn’t just about what to bring; it’s a full-on preparation guide for the upcoming Xcape to the Tropics 2024, featuring tantalizing new themes like Pop Culture and Dirty Dizney. Dive into the essentials of sexy vacation packing, ensuring you’re not only ready but perfectly attired for each...

Dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with Angela and Bradford in this enlightening episode of By the Bi as they tackle common urban myths about open relationships, kink, and sex. From the misconception that open relationships lack love, to the idea that they’re just about sex, this episode aims to dismantle the stereotypes and reveal the true complexities and richness of open relational dynami...

Step behind the velvet rope with Angela and Spanky in this titillating episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating night at The Erotic Ball. Known for its daring displays and uninhibited atmosphere, The Erotic Ball serves as the perfect backdrop for exploring themes of freedom, fantasy, and the art of erotic expression. Join our hosts as they share their personal experiences, from the...

Dive into the fluid journey of sexual identity with Angela and Bradford in this profound episode of By the Bi. We explore how sexual identity can transform from childhood through old age, influenced by personal experiences, societal changes, and shifting cultural norms. Join us as we discuss our stages of sexual identity development, the impact of life events like relationships, and the challenges...

This week, By the Bi takes a deep dive into the cutting-edge world of sextech, starting with an exclusive interview with the creator of the innovative FirmTech cock ring, Doctor Elliot Justin. Discover the science and inspiration behind this revolutionary device designed to enhance pleasure and performance. Angela and Bradford explore the broader landscape of sextech, examining how technology is t...

This week on By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they channel their inner MST3K to poke fun at their past selves while unraveling the often overlooked costs of the swinging lifestyle. Swinging isn’t just a social endeavor; it can also be a costly one. From exclusive club memberships to the travel and attire that accompany the glamorous events, the expenses can quickly mount. In this lighthearte...

Ho ho ho—it’s Christmas in July on this week’s episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they bring the holiday cheer to the heat of summer with a visit to Between Friends for their Christmas in July Party. This isn’t your typical holiday gathering; instead of snowflakes and sleigh bells, think sexy lingerie and Santa hats! Dive into the fun as they dig deep into Santa’s sack, uncovering w...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal growth, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being. Join us as we explore different therapeutic approaches and coaching methods that help folks navigate challenge...

This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy. Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachurch he experienced the dizzying heights of Christian celebrity, and the lonely lows of being cast aside, all whilst keeping a desperate secret. Scott is quee...

Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself, or do you “volcano,” erupting with a bold declaration of identity? Both approaches are valid and deserve space and understanding. In this episode, we explore the...

Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of their shared love and commitment. Does the proverbial seven-year itch apply in the poly world? They tackle this question head-on, sharing insights and experienc...

Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap. This electrifying game will...

Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where costumes, role-play, and the spirit of adventure create a playground for the senses. From the lush allu...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation. Join us as we discuss the importance of education in STI management. We’ll also share personal stori...

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmosphere of Friday’s Newbie night to the heightened anticipation and wild abandon of Saturday’s 10th Birthday Party, they’ll give you an all-access pass to the thri...

Dive into a night of discovery and excitement with us on By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and a very special guest, Jen, embark on an unforgettable journey to Our Secret Spot for a “Newbie’s Night.” Jen, who has never stepped foot in a swingers club before, offers a fresh and exhilarating perspective on the anticipation, nerves, and thrills that come with exploring the unknown. Join us as we naviga...

🎉 Welcome to the monumental 400th episode of By the Bi! 🎉 Angela and Bradford are here to take you on a spectacular journey through the milestones, memories, and magical moments that have defined our podcast. In this landmark celebration, we dive into the essence of discovery, connection, and the boundless conversations that have ignited curiosity and sparked joy in our community. But that’s not...

Just when anticipation for Episode 400 reached its peak, we’re taking a momentous step back… to where it all began. In this special interlude episode, Angela and Bradford invite you on a nostalgic journey back to the origins of By the Bi, re-releasing our very first and our 31st episodes. It’s a unique opportunity to see how far we’ve come, revisiting the conversations, laughter, and insights that...

Join Angela, Bradford, and guests, Coby & Judy, this week on By the Bi for a deep dive into the intriguing world of Pornhub in 2023. Together, we’ll uncover the platform’s most surprising facts, from the year’s top searches to unexpected user trends, revealing what these statistics illuminate about contemporary desires and the shifting dynamics of adult entertainment. This candid discussion go...

Dive deep into the heart of polyamory with us on this engaging episode of By the Bi. Join Angela, Bradford, and their dear friends Coby and Judy as they unravel the complexities and joys of living a polyamorous life. From managing schedules to navigating emotions, this conversation shines a light on the logistics behind loving more than one person. Together, we explore the practicalities and chall...