BUT, Mind You...

Episode 4 of BUT, Mind You… dives into the messy reality of “spinning the block” — revisiting old love, old feelings, and old mistakes. From wild reunion stories to deeper conversations about heartbreak, attachment, intuition, and knowing when to finally let go, Rian-Louis and Donnie Love unpack the emotional cycles that keep us stuck. Sometimes spinning the block is closure… and sometimes it’s th...

This week on BUT, Mind You… , we tap into vulnerability, healing, and emotional growth through the lens of Trying Not to Think About It by JoJo. As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, we unpack the hidden stages of healing, the weight of anxiety...Especially for Black queer men and what it really means to grow emotionally. This episode also introduces a recurring segment where we revisit albums...

🎙️ BUT, Mind You… We’re Not As Close As You Think. In Episode 2 of the BUT, Mind You… Podcast , Rian-Louis and Donnie Love get real about the friendships that aren’t as tight as they seem. You know the ones — where the history is there, the love might be there… but the closeness? Questionable. This episode dives into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of emotional distance, one-sided effort, and...

Most friendships aren’t this honest — or this hilarious. Meet Rian-Louis, the reserved Scorpio, and Donnie Love, the unfiltered Cancer — two unapologetic Black gay men in their thirties spilling the tea on love, life, and everything in between. In the first episode of the BUT, Mind You Podcast, “BUT, Mind You… We’re New!”, they dive into the messy realities of dating, friendships, and self-growth...

It started as conversations that were never supposed to leave the chat… now we’re saying it out loud. Unfiltered. Unapologetic. A little messy. Where the tea is hot, the honesty is hotter… and growth is always in the room. 👀 You might feel seen… or a little called out. BUT, Mind You… it’s always real. Coming 4/21/2026📲