Broken for Better

In this episode, Joe and Alice share their raw and inspiring story of overcoming decades of trauma, mental health struggles all through faith, counseling, and perseverance. Whether you're facing similar challenges or seeking encouragement for a long-lasting marriage, their testimony offers hope and practical wisdom. Topics this episode: ✅ The impact of childhood trauma on a marriage ✅ Recogn...

In this insightful interview, Dr. Lee Baucom shares his 35 years of expertise on how couples can unpause their marriages, rebuild connection, and navigate common relationship challenges. Discover practical tools, the concept of relationship judo, and the innovative Unpause app to help your marriage thrive. In this episode we cover: ✅ The concept of the pause button in marriage and how to unpause...

Do you and your spouse love each other… but feel more like roommates lately? If physical intimacy has slowed down (or disappeared), this episode is for you. Because most of the time, intimacy doesn’t die first… connection does. In this conversation, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette Schaer talk about how emotional closeness creates the safety, warmth, and pursuit that makes intimacy possible again...

Does your home feel too loud emotionally, mentally, or relationally? In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette Schaer talk about the hidden “crazy cycle” many couples live in: two ships passing in the night, running a household but not building a marriage… and calling it “just a season.” You’ll learn how to stop the slow erosion that drains intimacy over time and replace reactive rhythms...

If you’re tired of the same arguments, the same tone, the same shutdown… you’re not alone. In this episode of Broken for Better, Kurt & Denette Schaer share the simple communication reset that helps couples stop reacting fast, create emotional safety, and build new rhythms that turn chaos into calm. You’ll learn:✅ Why conflict keeps repeating✅ The “I’m overwhelmed” phrase that changes everyt...

In this conversation, Kurt and Denette discuss the importance of not carrying past wounds into new seasons of life, particularly in relationships. They explore how unresolved issues can linger and affect emotional intimacy, emphasizing the need for open communication and intentional healing. The discussion highlights practical tools for addressing pain points, the significance of scheduled repair...

Can a marriage really change… or do couples just learn to cope? In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette unpack what real change looks like over time and why it’s usually not one big moment, but small, consistent choices made with humility and intentionality. You’ll hear practical tools you can start using right away especially if you feel stuck in the same arguments, discouraged by slow...

In this episode, Kurt and Denette Schaer discusses the power of marriage coaching, sharing personal experiences and insights into how coaching can help couples navigate various stages of their relationship. From addressing fears and misconceptions about coaching to exploring the benefits of having a supportive guide, Kurt and Denette chat about the importance of investing in relationships before r...

Join Kurt and Denette as they share their deeply personal journey through infidelity, broken trust, emotional healing and what it looked like to get there. Discover how they navigated one the darkest chapters of their marriage before child loss, to find hope and redemption. This candid conversation offers insights and tools for couples facing similar challenges. All the links - stay in touch: http...

What really lights him up in marriage—and what shuts him down completely? In this eye-opening episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to hygiene and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you're...

What really lights her up in marriage—and what shuts her down completely? In this eye-opening episode on the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to playfulness and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you...

In this episode, we’re going beyond the hashtag and digging into what real relationship goals actually look like... the kind you can’t capture in a cute photo or a viral post. We talk about the deep work of building a relationship rooted in patience, respect, trust, and true friendship. If you're tired of the highlight reel and ready for the real thing, this one's for you.

In this episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, Kurt and Denette Schaer share 10 powerful, practical ways that transformed and strengthened their marriage over their 28 years together. 💍Whether you're newly married, facing challenges, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, these game-changing tips will equip you with real, everyday tools to love and serve your spouse better. Marriage...

In this episode, we’re diving into how to create meaningful family memories without breaking the bank. As marriage coaches—and parents ourselves—we know that some of the best moments don’t come from big spending, but from intentional time together. Whether you’re saving for the future or just want to simplify, we’re sharing our favorite budget-friendly traditions, creative ideas for family fun, an...

Parenting changes everything—your schedule, your priorities, and sometimes even your connection with your spouse. In this episode of Broken for Better, we’re diving into the challenges and joys of maintaining a healthy intimate life while raising kids. From navigating exhaustion to keeping the spark alive, we share real talk, practical tips, and encouragement for couples in the trenches of parenti...

In this week's episode of we dive into the powerful role parents play in shaping the future of their children by teaching them how to dream big. Parenting isn't just about providing for your child's needs—it’s about equipping them to believe in their potential, face challenges with resilience, and set their sights high. Join us as we explore practical tips and heartfelt advice on nurturing big dre...

Parenting can be one of the most rewarding and yet most difficult things we will ever do. It was an honor to have Tim Couet of Prodigal Man be with us for this very important and timely conversation. Join Kurt and Tim as they talk about all things fatherhood and give real life tools and applications to challenge and encourage you to be the father you always wanted to be! Want to give financially?h...

Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, ins...

Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, ins...

Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, ins...

Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, ins...

Is it hard to manage the holidays? Does it take a toll on your marriage or enhance your marriage? What are some of the things you would change if you could when it comes to one of the busiest times of the year? Join Kurt and Denette as they talk about how the HOLIDAYS and how to face them in a healthy way. Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch...

Is it really beneficial? We love each other and don't see the point. What does pre-marital counseling/coaching actually look like? Join Kurt and Denette they talk about the why behind the process and what they have seen work (and not work). Want to give financially?https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcm...

Do you have any stress in your marriage? If you are married then the answer is YES. Stressors happen in every relationship and are a normal part of building a life together. So, let's talk about it. Join Kurt and Denette as they discuss what this looks like in a healthy way. Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbet...

What are healthy expectations? What do we do when our expectations and our reality don't line up? Join Kurt and Denette as they give some real time tools on the hard topic of "expectations in marriage". Want to give financially?https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch:https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmO...