BLUNTS & Roses

Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how coffee dates are less than the bare minimum and should never be acceptable when looking for a romantic partner. Coffee dates required no effort and many times guys will set you up for coffee dates just so that they can see where your standards are. If you have no standards, immediately find some! FOLLOW ME ON Instagram bluntsandroses_podcast .

In this episode, I talk about how raising your standards will only be beneficial to you. Are you tired of the same jokes/men? Well, the good news is that you don’t have to settle and you don’t have to put up with anything that you don’t want to put up with anymore. Life is continuously evolving, and every month will give us different challenges and people will come BACK into our lives, or into our...

In this episode, I talk about having a plan when you let a man back into your life. As I emphasized in past episodes boundaries are super important because they allow you to understand what you will, and will not allow with anyone new or old. When it comes to people from our past, we tend to forget the bad times we had with them, and only remember the good and that’s why we allow them to enter our...

Most of us have been here, time, and time again, because we have not learned our lesson. As most of you know, life will keep throwing the same lesson at you if you don’t learn to evolve and grow from your past and that includes the same man that you are allowing to lower your standards as well as your value. I’ll say this again men will say anything to you to just see how far they can get with you...

As much as I emphasize, valuing yourself and loving yourself, I also want to emphasize that the moment that you allow anyone especially a man to treat you less than you are, you have lost because you cannot take that image away ever again. The amount of times that I’ve allowed myself to devalue myself in front of a man has been the times where I lost myself the most. It cost me so much time and he...

In this short episode, I talk about how over explaining to a man or just anyone how to treat you is always going to go against you. There’s no reason why you need to ask someone why they are treating you the way that they are or deal with someone when you see the way that they are handling you. You are a precious cargo and you should never allow anyone to mistreat you or treat you any way they fee...

In this episode, I talk about how valuing yourself is essential for the way that others ( especially the man you’re dating ) will treat you. When you vibrate on a higher frequency it is noticed. Energy is always felt whether we know it or not. The way that we treat ourselves is the way that others will treat us the moment that you allow someone to disrespect you and get away with it they will cont...

Hi girls, in this episode, I talk about how you have to be fed up in order for you to make a change. Change comes within, I have always said that, but sometimes it is forced out of us, because we are tired of the same end result, and our own behavior. Life is short, and if the people that you were interested in are not showing you interest, remove them. Life takes a toll on us and we change for th...

Hi girlies, in this episode, I talk about how I gave a lot of me and changed myself, including my appearance to satisfy men who didn’t deserve me. It’s hard to be a single women and it’s hard to date, and it’s hard to believe that you deserve love, but you deserve everything 💕You have to give yourself grace and understand that you make mistakes but you will learn from them hopefully. I have made...

PEP TALK SHAWTY 🗣️💕 Hi girls, in this episode I explain how loving yourself and taking care of yourself not only lets others notice that you are radiating and glowing but you too will feel better and have a greater outlook on life. The saying goes if you work on yourself the rest will follow and I am a firm believer in thinking and understanding that the universe and God is always listening. In o...

Hey, we’re back in the car again, I promise I’m going to start doing regular episodes, but right now I feel like doing these on the spot episodes have been really helping a lot of you ladies. In this episode, I talk about how you should never reach out to a man no matter how you guys left off whether it was good or bad, the man is always supposed to do the initial contact and pursuing so if he’s n...

In this episode, I talk about how a lot of us are in the situation we are in with certain people/men because we do not take accountability for the shit we let slide. I said it numerous times you have to set the tone with men and people because people/men only treat you as good as you allow them to, and will only treat you as bad as you allow them to. You need to learn how to stop scratching the it...

As healing has become more popular, some don’t understand the magnitude of pain that comes with it. Healing is a beautiful journey, but it is also a very painful one. Throughout the years, you can hurt yourself more than you know from the actions that you take and the excuses that you make for others who hurt you. But you cannot blame yourself for the things that you didn’t know which would change...

Say goodbye to the old you, and say hello to the new you. There’s no doubt that some men are weird as fuck, and they will do things to trigger you or give you less than the bare minimum and think they are the prize. When it comes to men distance is key and predictability is not. In this episode, I talk about how giving a man distance will cause him to humble himself, but also keeping you in his mi...

HAPPY NEW YEAR ! In this episode, I talk about a personal experience of mine, and also understanding and now implementing a lot of what I already know, but have yet to do in the past. Im DONE with my old unhealthy, unhealed habits and I decided A long time ago I wouldn’t settle for anyone no matter what. As 2022 comes to an end I have grown so much and I’ve come to the realization that my worth is...

We in the Car again SHAWTY !! Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how settling for the wrong person or things will have you paying for your mental and emotional health later and during ! At the end of the day a lot of us settle, because we are afraid to miss out on some thing that can get better not understanding that there’s a lot of resistance in forcing things to stay together or work (You...

WE IN THE CAR SHAWTY! Hi everyone this is another unedited car episode, I’m keeping it real as always and authentic, in this episode I talk about how knowing your worth will have you feeling very lonely, and when someone walks away from you and hurts you it’s so easy to want them and want to be with them but its because when you lose access to someone or someone doesn’t show interest in you it mak...

In the Car EPISODE!!!! In this episode I talk about how controlling your emotions is essential to not only yourself but others around you. A lot of the times when you show your emotions too soon and your vulnerability men usually will take you for granted or take advantage of you. I also give you tips on how to adjust yourself to the way that life is very cutthroat and it’s not very fair especiall...

Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how forgiving yourself is very essential just like forgiving others is essential, we must remember that we are humans too and we make mistakes. At the end of the day we are spiritual beings living a human experience and we should enjoy the ride because we cannot live this life twice. I also talk about how I was dating this guy and he made me catch so mu...

Another PEP TALK SHAWTY!!! HI BABES 😍, in this episode I talk about how men only treat you as good as you allow them to, stop treating yourself like shit and men will follow your lead. I think the problem with a lot of us nice girls/lover girls is that we see the good in these men and a lot of the time men take advantage of the good women that we are and also how naïve we are. When you raise your...

PEP TALK SHAWTY . Aloha 🌺 everyone i’m currently in Hawaii celebrating my birthday but I still made time for you all. In this episode I talk about what it’s like being in a situationship that did not work out, you could be blocked, on bad terms, or the relationship just ended and you don’t know where it went wrong , so I give you some brief tips and advice on why the relationship could have gone...

PEP TALK SHAWTY!!!! In this episode I talk about how vulnerability is a beautiful thing but just make sure that you take your time before you become vulnerable with him. It is true that in order for you to be loved you have to be vulnerable but when you give a man vulnerability way too soon he often takes advantage of it and you become an option. Follow me on instagram bluntsandroses_podcast

PEP TALK SHAWTY ! hi everyone, and this episode I talk about detaching yourself from people and the outcome of things. When you detach yourself from things everything comes to you. I talk about how I used to hold a tight grip on some people I loved and cared for but I’ve quickly found out that when you keep grips on people and in life it pushes everything and everyone away. Let it flow and let it...

In this episode I talk about the power of letting go but also how much we live in nostalgia and in a fantasy world where our reality isn’t actually happening, after whatever we wanted ended. So we hold onto the past in hopes that things will come together but not understanding that when we let go, everything comes together. Having FAITH is what keeps us moving and living. FOLLOW ME ON IG : NEW USE...

Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how you allowing others to treat you a certain way will eventually cause a ripple affect of causing you to lower your higher self if it DOESN’T ALLIGN WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF 🧘‍♀️✨. People only treat as good as you let them and they also treat you as bad as you allow them to. CHANGE THAT SHIT ! FOLLOW ME ON IG : NEW USER IG NAME bluntsandroses_podcast ....