Beyond Your Number

In this special solo episode, Damon tackles holiday stress through the lens of the Enneagram. Learn how each type typically handles seasonal pressures and get practical tips for a more relaxed holiday experience. From assertive Nines to perfectionistic Ones, discover strategies to make the most of your celebrations while staying true to your type. Plus, get a sneak peek of what's coming next!...

In this Thanksgiving episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly explore the topic of gratitude through the lens of the Enneagram. They discuss what each Enneagram type brings to the world that we can be grateful for, as well as how a lack of gratitude might manifest negatively for each type. The hosts offer practical suggestions for how each Enneagram type can cultivate more gratitude in their l...

In this episode, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome back sisters Valerie and Vanessa to discuss how the Enneagram has impacted their sibling relationship. As an Enneagram 8 and 2 respectively, Valerie and Vanessa share insights on understanding each other's personalities, navigating conflict, and growing individually and together through self-awareness. The sisters offer a candid and often humorou...

In this special siblings edition of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly are joined by Kelly's children Madison and Micah. The family discusses how the Enneagram has shaped their relationships and understanding of each other. Madison (a 9) and Micah (a 7) share insights into their personality types, how they celebrate as a family, and navigate conflicts. This candid conversation offers a unique...

In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome special guests Tanner and Madi, a married couple with an Enneagram 8 and 5 pairing. The Careys share insights into their relationship dynamics, communication styles, and how understanding the Enneagram has helped them navigate challenges and celebrate their differences.  Topics discussed include: - How an Enneagram 8 and 5 complement eac...

In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome Rod and Christina, a married couple with Enneagram types Two and Four. They share insights into how their different Enneagram types complement and challenge each other in their 25-year marriage. They discuss the strengths and struggles of their personality pairing, how the Enneagram has helped their relationship, and offer advice for oth...

In this heartwarming episode, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome Brock and Christy, a married couple who are both Enneagram Type 2s. They share their unique love story and discuss the joys and challenges of being two 'Helpers' in a relationship. They offer insights into how their shared personality type impacts their marriage, from their superpower of 'mind-reading' to navigating co...

In this special couples edition of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome their first guest couple - Ronnie and Liz Lee. Married for 21 years, Ronnie (an Enneagram 9) and Liz (an Enneagram 1) share insights into how their different personality types complement and challenge each other in their relationship. They discuss the strengths and growth areas of 9s and 1s, how understanding the Enneagra...

In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome back financial expert Kimberly to discuss how the Heart Triad (Types 2, 3, and 4) interact with money. They explore the unique financial challenges and strengths of each type, offering practical advice on budgeting, spending, and maintaining healthy boundaries. Learn how Twos can balance their generous nature, Threes can celebrate financ...

In this episode of Enneagramu, hosts Damon and Kelly wrap up their series on Relationships and the Enneagram by exploring the Nine's relationship with God. They discuss how Nines may find it natural to trust and have faith, but can struggle with deepening their spiritual journey and asserting their individual path. The hosts share insights on how Nines can practice assertiveness as a spiritua...

In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome a special guest - Kelly's cousin Jeremy, who is an Enneagram Type 9.  Jeremy shares his journey of discovering he's a Nine, including how he initially thought he might be a Seven. The hosts explore what it's like to be on the healthy and unhealthy sides of a Nine, discussing topics like conflict avoidance, decision-making...

n this episode of Enneagramu, hosts Kelly and Damon dive deep into exploring the Enneagram Type 9, known as "The Peacemaker." They discuss key traits of Nines, including their desire for harmony, struggle with assertiveness, and tendency to "merge" with others. The hosts offer insights on how Nines can practice using their voice, dealing with conflict in healthy ways, and prior...

This week on EnneagramU, Damon and Kelly discuss the relationship between Enneagram Type 8 personalities and their faith. They explore the challenges Eights may face in surrendering control and trusting in a higher power. Kelly shares personal anecdotes from her own faith journey as an Eight, including her initial resistance to religious pressure as a child. The hosts discuss how Eights can find m...

In this enlightening episode, hosts Damon and Kelly are joined by special guest Valerie to explore the complex world of Enneagram Type 8s. Two female Eights share their personal experiences, discussing the challenges of vulnerability, the strength in directness, and the misconceptions surrounding this intense personality type. Learn about the healthy and unhealthy traits of Eights, how they naviga...

In this episode of Enneagramu, Damon and Kelly dive deep into the world of Enneagram Type 8, known as "The Challenger" or "The Protector." They explore the intense energy, directness, and protective nature of Eights, discussing both their strengths and potential pitfalls. Kelly, an Eight herself, offers personal insights into the Eight's struggle with vulnerability and the...

This episode of EnneagramU features hosts Damon and Kelly along with recurring guest Kimberly discussing how the Enneagram gut triad types (8, 9, and 1) handle money and finances.  Key points covered: - Type 8: Tend to be "stockpilers", using money for protection and control. Can be generous but may need to be more open to other financial perspectives. - Type 9: Often passive about money...

In this episode of Enneagram U, hosts Damon and Kelly conclude their three-part series on Enneagram compatibility. They discuss the most compatible and challenging relationships for Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9. The hosts explore why certain type pairings work well together or face difficulties, providing insights into how different Enneagram types interact in various relationships, including frien...

This episode continues the discussion on Enneagram compatibility, focusing on types 4, 5, and 6. The Damon and Kelly explore which types are most and least compatible with each of these numbers, explaining the dynamics that make certain pairings work well or struggle. They emphasize that while some combinations may be naturally easier, any pairing can work with self-awareness and effort. The episo...

This podcast episode discusses Enneagram relationship compatibility.  Damon and Kelly, introduce the topic and explain their approach to categorizing compatibility between different Enneagram types. They cover compatibility for Enneagram types One, Two, and Three, noting which types are very compatible, which can be compatible with work, and which should be avoided unless both individuals are heal...

Join hosts Damon and Kelly on EnneagramU as they explore the complex world of emotions through the lens of the Enneagram.  In this episode, they dive into the challenges of identifying and managing emotions, particularly for Type Nines and Eights. The conversation ranges from personal experiences to broader discussions about faith, work-life balance, and the unique struggles of different Enneagram...

Ever wondered how handling a malfunctioning speaker can spark a deeper understanding of personality growth? Damon kicks off this episode with tales from his weekend as a sound guy for a  band, navigating the highs and lows of live sound management. Meanwhile, Kelly reflects on a serene Fourth of July at the lake, and we're introduced to her husband, Hartley, an exuberant Enneagram Seven, who...

Ever felt the invigorating pull of adventure and the soothing calm of nature? Join Damon and Kelly on Enneagram U as they recount their weekend escapades—Damon's thrilling yet exhausting hike and Kelly's serene lakeside getaway with her life group. These stories set the perfect backdrop for an in-depth exploration of the adventurous and dynamic spirit of Enneagram Type Sevens, known for...

Enneagram & Money: How Head Triad Types (5, 6, & 7) Achieve Financial Freedom (Ft. Kimberly Ernest) Unlock the secrets of financial success through the lens of the Enneagram with our special guest, Kimberly Ernest, in this milestone episode of Enneagram U! Join us as Kimberly, a renowned financial wellness expert, unpacks how the head triad—types five, six, and seven—navigate their financi...

In this episode of Enneagram U, hosts Damon and Kelly discuss how Sixes can develop a strong relationship with God. They talk about the importance of Sixes feeling safe to doubt, question, and explore their faith. Damon and Kelly share how finding security in God can help Sixes overcome their core fear. They suggest spiritual practices like lectio divina, worship music, and scripture memory to hel...

On this week's episode of Enneagram U, hosts Damon and Kelly are joined by guest Lauren, a Six on the Enneagram, to discuss how understanding her personality type has helped her manage fear and anxiety.  Lauren shares how she first learned about the Enneagram from her mom and how it's changed her life by providing a framework for her innate tendencies. She opens up about how she responds...