Allow It

This week, Lish and D are unpacking the hustle culture we’ve all been sold. Everyone’s juggling multiple jobs, chasing side hustles, or trying to build new streams of income, but at what cost? Should we be doubling down on one solid job to cover the bills, or is the hustle mentality just the new survival mode? Because let’s be real, you can’t live off one income anymore…not when food prices are wi...

This week, Lish and D get real about the weight we all carry loss, change, and how the hell we’re supposed to cope when life throws the unthinkable at us. From the messy reality of dealing with grief to the everyday ways we try to survive in a world that feels like it’s constantly breaking, nothing is off the table. We’re talking coping mechanisms (the healthy ones and the not so healthy ones), th...

This week, Lish and D are joined by our producer Mimi as we wrap up summer 2025 with some much needed girl chat. 🌸 We’re spilling all the tea on Love is Blind UK, getting into the madness of Snapped, and breaking down what’s really going on between men and women right now 👀. Trust us, you don’t want to miss this one. Oh! And it was Mimi’s birthday 🎉 so make sure you show her some love in the co...

This week, Lish and D catch up with the incredibly talented singer and songwriter Nyasha David, who joined us for a chat during his UK tour. We dive into all things music, hustle, and the independent artist grind. Is it enough to pursue your dream as a side hustle, or do you have to go all in? Nyasha shares his journey; the wins, the setbacks, and the real talk about what it takes to turn passion...

This week, Lish is hanging with our producer Mimi, and we’re diving into a hot topic: Is blood really thicker than water? Lately, there’s been this trend of people cutting off their family members, and we want to talk about it. When is it okay to put a loved one on ice and decide they’re no longer family? Is it worth it to protect your peace? We wanna know: Have you ever had to disown a family mem...

This week, Lish and D dive into the concept of the  Biblical wife . When are we misinterpreting scripture, and when are women doing too much, allowing men to cross boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed? Plus, women are exhausted can you truly "have it all" and still be okay? Join us as we unpack these hot topics and explore the latest threads. And of course, we couldn’t ignore the Met Gala were y’a...

This week, Lish and D are joined by our good friend and life coach, Rian! In this episode, we tackle the anxieties of modern life. Social media often pushes us to compare ourselves to others, their achievements, their families, and society’s idea of what life "should" be leaving us wondering, Am I doing life right? But here’s the twist: life coaching starts with looking inward. It’s about realisin...

This week, Lish and D are joined by producer Mimi to dive into the topic of ageism. Is "acting your age" really a thing? Should age dictate your involvement in pop culture discussions? Tune in as the ladies tackle these questions and more. Plus, they share some hot takes you won’t want to miss: Can therapy ever be  too much ? Join the conversation, have a laugh, and share your thoughts on this wee...

This week, Lish and D are getting into all the feels! First up: Would you ever hit up your ex on your wedding day? Is closure from the past really that deep, or are we just doing too much? And what’s the deal with side pieces, are they necessary? Why don’t people know how to move in silence anymore? Would you leave your significant other if you found out about a side piece? Then, for our “Allow It...

This week, Lish and D dive into back to back pregnancies, Irish twins, anyone? We're talking about a mom to be who got pregnant just four weeks after giving birth. Wahhh! We’re also sharing our thoughts on the situation with Onijah and what’s going down in Pakistan. Would you move your son away if an older woman came from abroad to marry him? 🤔 Plus, we’ve got an  "Allow It With The Advi...

This week, Lish and D are talking about accepting the season you’re in and what does that look like for you, and do public opinions really matter? We’re also diving into scams that women often fall for. From sneaky tactics to outright fraud, we’re breaking it all down. We took the conversation to Threads and shared some of our favorites. Can you relate? Have you ever fallen for any of these scams?...

This week Lish and D are getting real about how people change in relationships. Has something happened to bring out this new side of them? Or were they always like this, and you’re just now seeing it? We’re also diving into blended families, how do you handle it if your stepkids don’t vibe with you? Tap into this episode and let us know what you think. Video Clip - https://www.instagram.com/p/DElH...

Imagine this: you’re pregnant out of wedlock, and your pastor forces you to apologize to the congregation. What would you do? This week, Lish and D dive into a viral clip of a young woman being made to apologize for her pregnancy. Doesn't it take two to tango? We’re also talking about  Young, Famous, and African —the styling, the makeup, the lace fronts, and more. Tap in to join the conversation a...

This week, Lish and D dive into the chaos of love and relationships! A husband claims he didn’t marry his wife for her looks, another admits he doesn’t love his wife of eight years—both clips have social media buzzing. We share our takes on the drama! Plus, a viral video shows a woman thrilled about buying a designer bag, but instead of support, the internet calls her "tacky" and claims her excite...

This week, Lish and D are discussing hobosexuality! Is he in love, or is he homeless? We need to know. They end up in your apartment, and they don’t leave. Also, is the secret to a successful marriage having separate homes? We want to find out! We’ve also added a new segment called Get to Know Lish and D. In this episode, you’ll see that D doesn’t know Lish at all! lol Make sure you tune in, and p...

This week, Lish and D are celebrating one year of  Allow It ! 🎉 We’re reflecting on why we started the podcast, sharing our plans for its second year, and talking about the motivation that keeps us going. Most importantly, we’re taking a moment to express how thankful and grateful we are for all the love and support from our listeners and viewers. Thank you, thank you—we couldn’t have done it wit...

In this episode, Lish and D dive into how they wrapped up 2024 and celebrated the New Year. They reflect on what 2025 means to them, share the trends they’re ready to leave behind, and open up about their hopes and goals for the year ahead. From personal aspirations to big-picture dreams, this conversation is all about stepping into the future with intention. Tap in and join the conversation and l...

It’s New Year’s Eve, and we’re diving into all things money—spending it, avoiding envy, raising kids with expensive taste, and yes, confessing some wild truths... like being in love with my best friend’s father. 👀 Join us for this special final episode of 2024 as we reflect, celebrate, and look ahead. Thank you for rocking with us this year! Don’t forget to subscribe, save, and stay locked in wit...

'Twas the night before Christmas, and Lish and D are feeling the holiday vibes! In this short but sweet episode. Whether you’re wrapping up those last-minute tasks on Christmas Eve or just soaking in time with loved ones, be sure to join the convo. And if Christmas isn’t your thing, we hope you’re enjoying a moment of love and rest. Merry Christmas from  Allow It! Make sure to save, like, and beco...

Sick kids, antibiotics, and trash TV!  This week, Lish and D catch up on the chaos in their lives, from sick days to their current TV obsessions. They dive into  The Ultimatum  and ask: Is it ever okay to give your partner a relationship ultimatum? Have you been on the receiving end of one? Tap in as they share their thoughts and join the convo! Make sure to save, like, and become a part of our Al...

This week, Lish and D are reflecting on the year—the highs, the lows, and what to look forward to in 2025. We’re also close to celebrating the 1-year anniversary of the  Allow It  podcast! What was 2024 like for you? Any exciting plans for the new year? Tune in, reflect with us, and join the conversation! Make sure to save, like, and become a part of our  Allow It  family! Subscribe to our YouTube...

This week, Lish and D are wrapping up November with a chat about soul food—what was on your plate for Thanksgiving? Lish also spent all her money on Black Friday (and is now returning everything, haha). Oh, and we moved! Not in together, but at the same time—funny coincidence, right? Join us as we catch up and chit-chat. Don’t forget to tune in and subscribe! Subscribe to our YouTube channel : ⁠⁠...

This week, Lish and D dive into the wild world of  Sweet Bobby ! Ever been catfished? Is meeting people online just getting riskier? 👀 Plus, we’re bringing you an “Allow It With The Advice": what should you do if he doesn’t look like his pics? And—PSA—we’re on the hunt for new friends for Dionne, so drop a comment if you’re up for the challenge! 😂 💬  Join the conversation  and share your though...

In this episode, Lish and D dive into their thoughts on the presidential election results, reflect on why life seemed simpler in the past, and explore why anxiety always seems to be lurking in the background. Also why do we need to delete menstruation apps? Join us this week for some girl talk, and don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments! Subscribe to our YouTube channel: ⁠ https://www...

In this episode, Lish and D dive into friendships, relationships, and some wild scenarios that can come up within them. Plus, what do you consider a sign of low intelligence? We’re also allowing it with the advice, so make sure you tune in and join the conversation! And for our U.S. listeners—it's Election Day! Make sure you get out and VOTE! Subscribe to our YouTube channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https...