According to Will

In todays episode, will is going to be talking about the grief we don't really discuss. The grief we silently sit with and hold. That's the grief of mourning where we are right now and where we think we should be.

In this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith shares his personal journey of navigating divorce, moving to Charlotte, and the emotional challenges of communicating these changes to his children. He emphasizes the importance of self-care and the resilience of his kids, ultimately realizing that they will be fine as he chooses to prioritize his own happiness.

n this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith discusses the importance of choosing oneself without guilt and the psychological implications of others' discomfort with personal decisions. He explores the concept of psychological projection, where others' reactions to your choices often reflect their own fears and insecurities. Will emphasizes the significance of autonomy in pers...

In this episode of According to Will, Will Smith discusses the importance of emotional intelligence in relationships, particularly for men. He emphasizes the need for men to grow emotionally, understand the complexities of women, and unlearn toxic masculinity. Will shares personal experiences, the role of ego in communication, and practical steps for better understanding and supporting women. He c...

In this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith delves into the complexities of social media, exploring its illusory impact on our perceptions of reality. He discusses how social media creates a highlight reel of life, often masking the struggles and challenges that individuals face. Will emphasizes the importance of staying grounded and offers practical tips for navigating the digital...

In this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith discusses the cultural perception of the term 'simp' and redefines it to mean 'secure in my partnership'. He explores the insecurities that lead men to mock emotional intelligence and loyalty, challenges traditional gender roles in relationships, and emphasizes the importance of emotional maturity. Will provides practical a...

In this conversation, Will Smith delves into the complexities of personal development, emphasizing how our environment and family history shapes our triggers, responses, and coping mechanisms. He highlights the importance of acknowledging them and confronting them so we can heal

In this conversation, Will Smith discusses his experiences in therapy, focusing on the lessons learned about human imperfection and the impact of parental decisions on personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that parents are human and make choices based on their circumstances.

In this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith shares his personal journey of transformation as he approaches 50. He reflects on his past, including his marriage, therapy experiences, and the lessons learned from pain and sacrifice. Will emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the power of choosing oneself. He discusses the unexpected joy of finding lov...

In this episode of 'According to Will', Will Smith discusses the concept of 'default settings' in men, which are automatic emotional and behavioral responses shaped by past experiences and societal expectations. He identifies common default settings such as shutting down, anger, fix-it mode, emotional avoidance, self-sacrifice, and hiding needs. Will emphasizes the importance of ac...

In this conversation, Will Smith discusses the detrimental effects of workplace abuse and the responsibilities of leadership in fostering a healthy work environment. He emphasizes that no one should endure abuse from supervisors and highlights the importance of respectful communication and empathy in leadership roles.takeaways No one deserves to be abused in any form. Workplace abuse can stem from...

In this conversation, Will Smith discusses the concept of blind spots in life, drawing parallels to driving and the importance of awareness. He emphasizes that just as drivers must check their mirrors to avoid accidents, individuals must reflect on their lives to identify unseen dangers and areas for growth. The discussion highlights the significance of self-awareness and reflection in navigating...

Summary In this episode of 'According to Will', Will addresses the feelings of inadequacy that many men, particularly black men, experience despite their hard work and achievements. He explores the cultural and personal pressures that contribute to this sense of not being enough, emphasizing the importance of healing, community, and redefining success. Will encourages listeners to recogniz...

Summary In this conversation, the speaker delves into the complex relationship between masculinity and softness, challenging traditional societal norms that equate masculinity with toughness and emotional suppression. The discussion highlights personal experiences and broader cultural implications, advocating for a redefinition of masculinity that embraces vulnerability and emotional expression as...

A few days ago, I made a TikTok video explaining how nothing challenges you more in a healthy relationship than being triggered. In this episode, I am expounding more on that video. Welcome to According to WIll!

We have all heard the phrase "failure is not an option". This is used to motivate others. However, is failure an option or is it a part of the success process. Join me as I answer this question. Let's get into it!

Hey family thank you for listening. Tap in and listen to why I have decided to step away from ministry. That's right....I am no longer preaching and I am perfectly ok.

This is a very brief episode came from introspective moment I was having thinking about how experiences in ministry will sometimes cause us to change our “why”.

There’s so much foolishness I’ve been seeing and hearing within the context of church and ministry. I was sitting here and began recording to get some of this frustration off my chest. Put on your AirPods and listen.

This a rough draft and I would appreciate your critique and feedback

Motivation

Pastor Rod Parsley of World Harvest Church in Columbus,Ohio has struck a nerve with many African Americans with his tone deaf message on race. He has dubbed himself as the “silent no more preacher” Parsley has grown his following among black folks by appropriating our culture and hiring our singers and musicians. In today’s climate evangelical pastors like Parsley are being called on the carpet fo...

George Floyd was murdered by 4 Minneapolis Police Officers over an alleged bad check. The officers lynched a black man who posed no threat. How much longer must we endure this?

Lately there’s been talk about Lil Boosie paying for an adult female to perform sex acts on his underage son. In this episode I attempt to unpack some issues and bring to light that this is not a phenomenon. This has been going on for decades and even centuries. It’s time to discuss things in proper context. If you’re ready....press play!

“All Lives Matter” sure that sounds great and ideal. However, we all know that is not true. If this in fact was a true statement black people and people of color wouldn’t have to fight for freedom and equality in America.