Accidental Swingers

Accidental and unexpected. Myrina's relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms.   Tristan and Myrina meet a new la...

Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their "bucket" list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer?   Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina's first real solo "date" with a single guy in the lifestyle. Tristan talks about how he felt, waiting at home, watc...

It was going to be awesome; until it wasn't. We've all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. Myrina and Tristan share stories of dates that did not go as planned and learn a very valuable lesson in managing their own expectations for relationships they are building wit...

"How do I get my partner into swinging?". This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book "Tell Me What You Want" to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your fantasies, how to listen (and react) when your partner tells you their fantasies, and how to move forward and act on...

Our first four-way!!!  Podcast, that is!  Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance.  Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners.  The guys talk about the common reasons they experience p...

We spent 5 days at the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what our life as swingers would look like.  We met amazing people, ate fantastic food, had lots of sexy & hot play time, and learned even more about ourselves.   Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and wh...

The adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series:  The sparks fly when we meet the most amazing couple! Wonderful conversati...

Two newbie swingers travel to "the largest open-relationship lifestyle" event in the US in New Orleans.   We didn't know what to expect or what we were doing.   The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like.  Join us as we share our hot and sexy stories about our trip to Naughty in N'awlins (NiN), the event that helped build the foundation of...

Even savvy Swingers can't always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say "when" can help keep you from stepping on landmines and getting caught up in some drama. But, we're the Accidental Swingers and, as usual, we learned these lessons the hard way.    We talk about three back to back d...

We start dating a new couple!  After meeting them and having a great dinner date, we decide to have a play date at a new venue.  And Tristan finally gets his "turn" at some hot action!  We also begin to understand and explore our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners.  We dubbed it Social Swinging vs. Sexual Swinging.  Sexual swinging is more about the physical s...

Our swinging adventures really start to take off in this episode!  We visit a local nudist resort that embraces the lifestyle community.  We go on a date with a new couple and end up at an on-premise sex club!  Find out how we were setting up and going on lots of meet & greet dates and then listen to the hysterical details about a meet & greet date with a new single guy that did not go quite as we...

After months of reviewing profiles, messaging people and having meet & greets with potential playmates - we finally f*ck!!!  In this episode, we talk about our first MFM as well as the first swinger event we ever attended (held at an area nudist resort/ community!).  You'll hear portions of the original audio that we recorded two years ago on our way home from the event as well as a segment from t...

Since our introduction into swinging wasn't planned, when we accidentally entered the lifestyle we didn't know anything about the basics of swinging.  We weren't familiar with some of the common terms that swingers and lifestylers use and we had no idea how the swinger social websites worked.  We also did not know how to find other swingers and resources for swingers in our area.  In this episode...

It's "the date" that started our lifestyle journey! We had three weeks between our accidental swinger date (when we realized our friends were swingers and wanted us to join them) and our play date.  We talk about what we did to prepare for our very first swinger experience and laugh about what happened and what we did when things didn't quite go exactly as we planned!   Read our most recent blog p...

Our initial podcast episode introduces Myrina and Tristan, describes the purpose of this podcast, and where the idea and the name came from. Read our most recent blog post here: Our Adventures Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twit...