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What happens when conflict in ministry goes unresolved for years? In this powerful and honest episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, Michelle Pexa is joined by former missionary, Children's Minister and clinical mental health counselor Kelly Hallahan for Part One of an important conversation about unresolved conflict, leadership, communication and reconciliation in Christian ministry. Kelly shares her...

Could the way you communicate be contributing to workplace conflict? Communication is at the centre of almost everything we do at work—from emails and meetings to feedback, expectations, difficult conversations, and everyday interactions with coworkers and leaders. But sometimes workplace conflict isn't caused simply by what someone says. It can be influenced by how, when, where, and through what...

Leadership conflict can be complicated. Behind every difficult workplace decision, there may be pressures, responsibilities, financial considerations, staffing challenges, and competing priorities that employees never see. At the same time, employees may have legitimate questions and concerns when they don't understand why decisions are being made. So how can leaders navigate workplace conflict wh...

Workplace conflict doesn't always begin with a major disagreement. Often, it's the everyday tensions—unclear expectations, communication breakdowns, small issues left unaddressed, or perceived inequity—that slowly create frustration and division. In Part One of my conversation with Nadine Torgerson, Canadian businesswoman and marketplace leader, we explore how Christian leaders can navigate these...

Change in the workplace can create more than organizational disruption—it can create workplace conflict, stress, misunderstanding and tension between people. A new leader. Restructuring. Changing responsibilities. Staffing shortages. New systems. Unclear expectations. Communication gaps. Even when change is necessary or positive, these circumstances can leave employees wondering: Will I still have...

Have you ever felt disrespected, overlooked, dismissed, or unfairly treated at work? Maybe a coworker takes credit for your work. Maybe you're constantly interrupted in meetings. Maybe expectations seem to apply to you but not everyone else. Maybe your manager appears to favour someone else. Or maybe you've simply had one too many interactions where you thought, “I cannot believe they treated me t...

Does your work matter to God? And what does a biblical understanding of work have to do with workplace conflict and relationships? In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, Michelle Pexa explores the Bible's surprisingly positive view of work and why understanding God's purpose for work can change the way Christian women approach their careers, leadership and workplace relationships. You'll disco...

What if the workplace conflict you're experiencing isn't really about the person—or the situation—you think it is? Maybe you're dealing with a coworker who misunderstands you, unclear expectations, personality differences, feeling overlooked or the pressure of a stressful workplace. And sometimes, what starts as a small frustration can quickly become workplace conflict that feels deeply personal....

What happens when expectations collide, communication breaks down, and you find yourself stuck in conflict with the person you love? In Part 2 of my conversation with my husband, Fred, we continue our honest discussion about marriage, conflict resolution, communication, expectations, listening, and peacemaking—drawing from our 46 years of marriage and more than 35 years of serving together in mini...

What happens when a Conflict Management Consultant sits down with her husband of 46 years to talk honestly about marriage and conflict? In this special two-part conversation, Michelle Pexa welcomes her husband, Fred Pexa, to PeaceMaking on Purpose for a candid conversation about marriage, communication, conflict resolution, and the misunderstandings that can happen between husbands and wives. Fred...

Why do so many women avoid difficult conversations? It's often not because they lack courage or communication skills. It's because conflict creates emotional stress that can overwhelm the brain and nervous system. In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore why conflict feels so emotionally draining, what's happening in your brain under stress, AND practical strategies for staying calm w...

Have you ever NOTICED what happens to your voice in tense conversations? Maybe you stay quiet to avoid conflict. Maybe you finally speak—but your emotions take over, and you leave feeling misunderstood or wishing you'd handled the conversation differently. In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we'll explore why so many women struggle to find their voice and how emotional intelligence can help...

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why do I keep reacting this way?" Whether you become defensive, shut down, avoid difficult conversations, or replay conflict long after it's over, your reactions may be revealing something much deeper than the disagreement itself. In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore why our emotional responses are often connected to hidden fears, unmet needs, commun...

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation on Emotional Intelligence, I continue my discussion with Jackie MacLeod, Certified Canadian Counsellor, founder of Restore Counselling Services, and expert in emotional health and personal growth. If you've ever struggled with emotional reactions, recurring conflict patterns, negative thought cycles, or understanding what your emotions are trying to communic...

  In this special episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, I sit down with Jackie MacLeod, Certified Canadian Counsellor and Founder of Restore Counselling Services, to discuss one of the most important—and often overlooked—skills for healthy relationships: Emotional Intelligence. Many women have been taught to ignore, suppress, spiritualize, or simply push past their emotions. But what if our emotions...

Honour gives weight to the things God values.  Authenticity moves us towards being truthful and willing to grow in Self-Awareness.  Intentionality moves us to action and ultimately TRANSFORMATION. In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore why being INTENTIONAL to growing as a PeaceMaker is essential for healthy relationships. Many women invest in their careers, families, ministries, an...

Last week, we explored what it means to honour the things God honours—including relationships, peace, and reconciliation. But before we can grow in conflict resolution and biblical peacemaking, we must first embrace authenticity. In this episode, we dive into Psalm 51:6, where David declares that God desires truth in our innermost being. Together we'll explore how self-awareness, emotional intelli...

Why does God care so much about reconciliation? And what does learning Conflict Resolution have to do with spiritual growth? In this episode of Conflict Resolution for Women, we explore God's heart for relationships and why developing peacemaking skills is one practical way to Honor what God honors. Scripture reveals a God who values Reconciliation, restoration, and healthy relationships—and calls...

How should the Church handle conflict in a way that honours Christ? In Part 2 of this conversation with Rene McIntyre, Senior Pastor and Apostolic Overseer of Trumpet of Truth Ministries, we explore the importance of conflict resolution, biblical peacemaking, and church unity. We discuss how gossip, unresolved offences, and misunderstandings about Grace can create division within the Body of Chris...

What is God’s heart for conflict resolution in the Church? And why are so many Pastors and Christian leaders avoiding Difficult Conversations in the name of “Unity”? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa is joined by Rene McIntyre, Apostolic Founder and leader of Trumpet of Truth Christian Ministries, for an honest and biblically grounded...

In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa unpacks a practical and eye-opening framework for understanding people types and difficult personalities in everyday life. Whether in your family, workplace, friendships, or leadership roles, conflict often arises not just from disagreement—but from misunderstanding how people are wired differently. Th...

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation with Sarah Wall on family estrangement, conflict resolution, and healing broken relationships, we discuss one of the most painful experiences a mother can face: hearing an estranged or prodigal adult child say, “You hurt me” or “You were a bad parent.” How do you respond without becoming defensive, overwhelmed with guilt, or trapped in shame? How do you use...

What happens when your child becomes distant—and every conversation feels like conflict, misunderstanding, stress, or even silence? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore one of the most painful and complex relationship challenges women face: estrangement from a child. Joined by Sarah Wall, Podcast host of Praying Moms of Estranged Children, we talk about how conflict resol...

Do your conversations ever leave you feeling confused or stuck in conflict?  In Part Two of this active listening series, we move beyond simply being present and teach you the practical skills that create real resolution and connection. In this episode, you’ll learn two powerful tools for conflict resolution: ✨ Reflecting – showing others you truly heard what they said ✨ Reframing – uncovering w...

Have you had conversations break down before they ever got resolved? In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we focus on two powerful, practical communication skills that can completely change the direction of conflict: attending skills and open-ended questions. If you’ve ever been told “you’re not listening”—or you’ve walked away from a conversation feeling frustrated, or shut down—this episod...