Let's Dig into That

Why is it so hard to talk about money, the taboo topic that can often make or break a relationship? Combining finances…sign of "healthy love" or a suicide mission? No matter your financial personality (the frugal saver who fell for the generous shopaholic ), it’s best to get the conversation started – sooner rather than later – because one thing is for sure: cash will come up . Join J.T. (the fina...

Jordan views jealousy in a partner as a threat to her independence, “possessive, controlling, and a total buzz kill.” J.T. sees his jealousy as “healthy,” a protective response to some combination of anger, anxiety, fear, and insecurity. In this episode, discover: - Distinction between jealousy and envy - How Jordan and J.T. used compassion to set boundaries, allowing for a shift in mindset - Sign...

Growing up, it was never a question of if - but how many. Children were the guarantee that came with the partner and picket fence. It was the assumption – and so they tried. Why did J.T. and Jordan attempt to procreate with others and ultimately decide to live child-free together? In this episode: - J.T. discusses his journey from painting a nursery to a premature, medically advised vasectomy at a...

“Kindness is seeing the best in others when they cannot see it in themselves.” November is KINDNESS month. Jordan and J.T. explore what it means to be kind to yourself and its impact on the greater good. - Jordan describes her intentional efforts to be kind as a practice of anticipating needs. - J.T.’s habit of starting his workday with an awareness pause and his belief that small gestures can pos...

Self-deception is how many of us get through the day: “I’ll start my diet tomorrow,” or the flattering angles reflected in a “skinny mirror.” What about the lies we tell to protect our image - the lies that could snowball into an identity we don’t recognize? Jordan (the compulsive exaggerator/plan canceller) and J.T. (the shapeshifter) share the biggest lie they told themselves. In this episode, d...

- J.T. shares his envy surrounding complex female friendships and his confusion about why he cannot participate using the same language. - Jordan discusses how she stays connected with her close circle and offers tools for J.T. to cultivate a stronger support system. - Do friendships with the opposite sex require different boundaries?

“My body is a reflection of my mindset. I sense collusion.” – Jordan, Cellulite Owner Past, present, and…hopeful. Whether we see ourselves accurately or in the fun house mirror of self-shame, body image hits the Let’s Dig into That sweet spot – it’s a topic nobody really wants to discuss. Join us as J.T. divulges his calorie-restrictive career in athletics and how his self-image was not found in t...

“Hope and fear cannot occupy the same space. Invite one to stay.” – Maya Angelou, American Poet, Memoirist, and Civil Rights Activist While fear is essential and universal, it can also be torture. Jordan and J.T. share personal milestone moments impacted by fear, discuss the relationship between fear and alcohol as two recovering people-pleasers, and share ideas on how to combat the fear-based sta...

“…for women, 40 is the golden age – to get divorced.” - Ali Wong, American Comedian and Actor Jordan and J.T. open up about Sex After Divorce. Her ten-year relationship led to a rebellious rebound, while J.T.’s intimacy trauma caused quasi-intentional celibacy. Get to know the curious couple as they explore coitus post-breakup: - Self-esteem: I've still got it! Or do I? - Authenticity on the rebou...