The Uncommon Man Project

EPISODE DESCRIPTION - Ready to publish Burnout, blended family pressure, and “doing the thing” collide in this raw conversation about what actually makes men stronger. Nick Perry reveals how fatherhood, a premature birth, and life on the road forced him to stop hacking at life and start leading with clarity, structure, and presence. Josh pushes the conversation deeper, from the hidden cost of avoi...

The conversation delves into the concept of the knowing-doing gap and the importance of taking action. It explores the idea of emptying oneself to learn and grow, the significance of structure and high-priority tasks, and the impact of overwhelm and busyness on productivity. The conversation also touches on the role of ego, the collapse of limiting beliefs, and the value of being a perpetual stude...

The podcast features a conversation with Kala Evans, a massage therapist and bodyworker, who shares her journey from a troubled past to personal growth and healing. The discussion delves into her experiences, challenges, and transformation, offering insights into the power of radical ownership and the importance of healing mind, body, and spirit. The conversation delves into the complexities of mo...

Travis Million, a utility CEO from Alaska, shares insights into the world of electric cooperatives and the people-centric approach to leadership. He discusses the unique culture and decision-making process of a co-op, emphasizing the value of community engagement and open feedback. Travis also reflects on the transition from a competitive mindset to a more open and people-centric leadership style....

The conversation delves into the impact of 'Dad Life' and the emotional resonance it holds, followed by a discussion on the power of laughter, tears, and reflection. The theme of legacy and fatherhood is explored, along with resilience, emotional awareness, navigating conflict, and overcoming challenges. The conversation concludes with a focus on the divine plan and overcoming adversity. The conve...

The conversation covers topics related to family offices and their investment strategies, the business model of success fees in event curation, risk mitigation, and business experience, as well as a comparison between venture capital and hedge funds. The conversation covers the importance of numeracy, the trap of working on small deals, the impact of communication on deal size, the role of relatio...

The conversation delves into the power of embodiment and the impact of living in the head on relationships. It explores the influence of validation and conditioning, the struggle for validation and shame, the impact on relationships, the journey to transformation, recognizing early signs of conflict, the path to healing and growth, and the art of riding the juiciness of tension. The conversation d...

You’re building, pushing, achieving  but at what cost? In this raw conversation, Nick and Gareth dive into what happens when the grind breaks you open, how heartbreak and burnout can become doorways to deeper purpose, and why true leadership starts at home. Gareth shares his journey from heartbreak to building a thriving business while doing the inner work, offering wisdom on fatherhood, legacy, a...

You’re running fast, building, grinding, making things happen. But somewhere deep in your bones, you know there’s more than just the material world. This episode is a journey into that space between the dirt under your fingernails and the cosmos above your head. Ryan isn’t your average guest. He runs a thriving family business, oversees organic vineyards, and works the land with his father—while a...

Welcome to another episode of The Uncommon Man Project — the space where men stop performing and start remembering who they really are. This isn’t about hacks or hustle. It’s about grit, integrity, and the long road back to wholeness when everything collapses. Because for the high-achieving man, it’s not success that breaks you — it’s the disconnection from your soul on the way there. Today’s epis...

Most men won’t say it out loud—but they feel it. That gnawing gap between external success and internal peace. In this powerful episode, the Uncommon Man team goes deep into the hidden shame many high-achieving men carry. From overworking to win approval to sabotaging intimacy at home, we explore how unconscious wounds shape our identities and keep us chasing the next “win” that never satisfies. F...

In this raw and reflective episode, we sit down with Brennan Hopkins—creative, coach, and former husband—as he unpacks the quiet compromises, unspoken resentments, and misplaced identity that slowly eroded his marriage. What began as a pursuit of being the “steady rock” turned into a cautionary tale of self-abandonment masked as maturity. Together, we explore the evolving definition of modern masc...

In this powerful episode of The Uncommon Man Podcast , we dive deep into one of the most overlooked, yet vital elements of modern masculinity: the path of initiation. Joined by Michael Cooper, Harry Orr, and Nick Vonpitt, we explore how the lack of true rites of passage has left many men operating from boy psychology in adult bodies—and how reclaiming the path of initiation can radically change a...

In this episode of the Uncommon Man Project Podcast, hosts Josh, Nick, and Harry dive into why high-achieving men often thrive in business yet feel stuck in their personal lives. They discuss how the very discipline and systems that drive professional success often fail to translate into health, relationships, and overall life satisfaction. Through real client stories and personal examples, they r...

In this episode of the Uncommon Man Podcast, Harry and Nick dive deep into what they call Sustainable Success —a powerful perspective for achieving high-level success without sacrificing your health, relationships, and personal values. They share personal anecdotes about reaching “summits” that weren’t truly theirs and how living in constant pursuit can drain your energy, erode your fulfillment, a...

In this episode, the Uncommon Team kick off 2025 by exposing the pitfalls of the “always-hustle” mindset, revealing why many top performers—despite outward triumphs—feel empty or disconnected. They discuss the power of focusing on value creation over clocking hours, point out how more free time can provoke internal angst if you lack personal clarity, and underscore the need to align business strat...

Welcome to the final episode of 2024 on The Uncommon Man Project Podcast , where we empower men to redefine their lives. In this reflective episode, hosts Harry Orr and Nick Vonpitt delve into personal growth, resilience, and balancing family, career, and personal well-being. The duo shares their wins, challenges, and strategies to enter 2025 with clarity and purpose. They offer actionable advice...

In this episode of The Uncommon Man Project , we’re tackling a silent yet pervasive struggle—what happens when a man becomes his own worst enemy. It starts with ambition but spirals into burnout, disconnection, and an endless chase for validation. Many men unknowingly tie their self-worth to their work, suppress their emotions, and wear a mask of strength that isolates them from their true selves....

In Episode 22 of the Uncommon Man Project Podcast , hosts Harry Orr and Nick Vonpitt tackle one of the most paralyzing challenges faced by high-performing men: indecision. They explore how decision-making fatigue and overthinking lead to burnout and stagnation, while offering a structured system—The Decision Matrix—to overcome these barriers. Drawing from personal experiences and coaching hundreds...

In this episode, the team tackles “The Hidden Stresses of High-Performing Men.” From the subtle signs of chronic stress that creep into relationships and health to the mental traps that hinder progress, Joshua, Harry, and Nick provide a hard-hitting look at what’s really holding high achievers back. With stories from their coaching experience, they highlight how acute, episodic, and chronic stress...

In this episode of The Uncommon Man Project Podcast , host Josh speaks with Paul Holland, a seasoned crypto investor, marketer, and entrepreneur with a wealth of life experience. Paul shares his journey of financial highs and lows, offering listeners insights into building true financial sovereignty through crypto and the mindset shifts required to succeed in this rapidly evolving space. They disc...

In this powerful episode of The Uncommon Man Project , we sit down with Roscoe Patterson, a master of efficiency and process design, to uncover how business owners can reclaim their time and energy. Roscoe shares his journey from tech enthusiast to efficiency expert, guiding entrepreneurs in reducing overwhelming tasks and reclaiming their purpose in both work and life. Listen in as we explore how...

Welcome to The Uncommon Man Project , where we challenge modern men to rise above mediocrity and break free from the distractions that dilute their potential. Dive deep into the conversations that matter – mental resilience, emotional intelligence, leadership, and creating impact in every facet of life. Our episodes explore the evolving roles of men in the 21st century, tackling issues of purpose,...

In this episode of The Uncommon Man Project Podcast , hosts Harry Orr and Nick Vonpitt dig deep into the uncomfortable space of mediocrity—the place where life isn’t terrible, but it’s not as good as it could be. They share their personal stories of facing financial rock bottom, personal disappointments, and the lies men tell themselves to stay in their comfort zones. Discover how to break free fr...

Welcome to "The Uncommon Man Project," where we guide men to crush burnout, overcome challenges, and become the greatest versions of themselves. In this special episode, the team dives deep into the real issues men face, sharing raw stories, quirky listener questions, and hard-earned lessons over the last 6 months.  Join us as we break down barriers, explore uncharted territories, and provide prac...