The Modern Man Podcast

Pat Barber trained everyone from beginners to elite CrossFit Games athletes for 20+ years — and none of it prepared him for the real work of raising four boys. He joins Ted Phaeton on The Modern Man Podcast to unpack the family motto that became his brand, the co-regulation truth every dad needs to hear, and why fathers don't need more motivation or information — they need action.   Pat is a longt...

Joel Gandara fled Cuba on an overcrowded boat at age 4, grew up in poverty, and built and sold a multi-million-dollar men's apparel company — without ever having a master plan. He joins Ted Phaeton on The Modern Man Podcast to unpack the arc, the tactics, and the brotherhood he now runs for men who want more.   Joel is a Cuban refugee, a former apparel entrepreneur (he acquired 13 of 14 businesses...

Daryl Williams Jr. was called a "detriment to student safety" his first year teaching. Two years later he was Teacher of the Year. He did it twice. On The Modern Man Podcast, Daryl sits down with Ted Phaeton to break down the transformation, the ceiling moment that made him walk away from his dream job, and the 3 Drivers of New Teacher Retention that any leader (in any industry) can steal.   Daryl...

I wasted 15 years of my sex life. Alex Grendi, former professional soccer player turned certified men's sex coach, joins Ted Phaeton on The Modern Man Podcast to talk about the silent battle 20 to 30 percent of men face — performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, ED — and the 4-step method he uses to fix it.   Alex spent 15 years battling this himself while competing at the elite athletic level,...

Ex-Special Forces commando Tim Thomas on why elite soldiers break — and the 10 minutes a day that fix every exhausted man. From down under, Tim joins Ted Phaeton on The Modern Man Podcast to unpack the Performance Pyramid, the Two Golden 5-Minute Windows, and the warfare tactic he learned in Afghanistan that maps directly to how modern men are burning themselves out.   Tim served with Australian S...

Ted's testosterone was almost 200 — 198 to be exact — and he looked healthy on the outside. Muscle, working out, doing the podcast. On the inside his hormone floor was gone. Then he did the work Mark Holman coaches men through, and now he's at 800. No TRT. All natural.   Mark Holman is a mental/physical health and testosterone optimization coach. Creator of the Unchained program (formerly Revival)...

He was terminated twice. He filed for divorce. He gained 60 pounds and drank on the highs AND the lows. Then May 5, 2018, he walked out of an AA meeting and hasn't touched alcohol since.   Nick Jonsson is a licensed specialized counselor, best-selling author of Executive Loneliness (the book coined a term that now has its own dedicated Wikipedia page), leads one of Asia's largest networks of senio...

I was having affairs on my wife. We filed for divorce. I woke up one night and God was showing me what I was about to wreck.   Jonathan Berryhill left home at 15 with no foundation under him. He found structure in the Army infantry, adrenaline in law enforcement narcotics and undercover work, and then success across real estate, healthcare, and government contracting — multiple seven- and eight-fi...

You're not going to lose your job to AI. You'll lose it to somebody who understands it. Chris Sowa has been inside the boardrooms where the AI conversation is theater. Senior tech executive at Accenture, IBM, and Oracle. Co-founder of Redacture, an AI security startup. He's also a Wim Hof Method instructor who walks into the Atlantic Ocean before most men are awake. He's a father of two sons. He b...

One day six men are going to carry your casket. Do you have those six men identified now?   Joe Moffett has logged over 45,000 peak-performance coaching calls. He holds a master's in performance psychology, spent nearly a decade with Tony Robbins, served five years in the Marine Corps, and is now Chief Development Officer at Millionaire Man Cave. In December of 2024 he buried his father, and he wa...

He built one of the largest men's fitness movements online. He still can't feel joy. Dean Pohlman is the founder of Man Flow Yoga — a community that has helped over 100,000 men reduce pain, build functional strength, and reclaim their bodies. He's also the host of the Better Man podcast. On paper, he's the kind of high-performing man this show is built for. In this conversation, he opens up about...

Tim Rexius went from sleeping in his car and eating ketchup packets to building 5 companies across 16 countries and ~60,000 retail locations — with zero outside investment. In this episode, he breaks down why he FIRED his own AI agent (98% response rate vs AI's 5%), how he's hit rock bottom 4 times and gotten more efficient each time, and how his protein popcorn brand beat the Kardashians. This on...

Why do modern men have everything they ever wanted, yet still feel isolated, overworked, and unfulfilled?  In this unfiltered episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaëton sits down with ultra-endurance athlete, health coach, and Mission 22 advocate Marcus Farris to dissect masculine psychology, extreme physical resilience, and the painful transition from the "Young Warrior" to the "Wise Kin...

Most ambitious men are accidentally building a "Job-Trap," a life that looks successful on paper but is structurally broken. Today, we perform a clinical audit on legacy with the man who built an indestructible brand: Dave Munson of Saddleback Leather. Dave transitioned from a barefoot youth pastor in Mexico to the CEO of a global empire with a 100-year warranty. In this diagnostic deep-dive, we i...

Stop acting "drunk" at your desk. Dr. Dan Pardi reveals the 2026 blueprint to master your biological source code and reverse executive burnout in 5.5 months. Ambition without a biological roadmap leads to internal decay. In this episode, cognitive neuroscientist Dr. Dan Pardi (Stanford/Leiden) provides a scientific forecast for high-performing men who are currently "chained to their operations." W...

Jack Daniel's is only a numbing agent. It doesn't fix the pain; it just gives you a headache in the morning while the problem remains. Most high-performing men are "white-knuckling" their way through life, relying on a brand of strength that has no spiritual depth. They are mission-driven and overworked, yet secretly isolated. In this forensic identity audit, Ted Phaëton sits down with Chris Grain...

Most ambitious men are quietly dying in a "comfortable" trap. In this forensic breakdown, combat veteran and former police officer Garrett Pastor exposes why the words "I'm fine" are the most dangerous signal of a soul-killing plateau. If you feel isolated, overworked, or unfulfilled despite your success, this episode is your diagnostic tool to escape "The Drift."  Ted Phaëton sits down with Garre...

Most men today are living "clogged" lives—overweight, distracted, and disconnected from their divine guidance systems. In this episode, Ted Phaëton sits down with Donovan Owens, founder of "Life is Reps," to diagnose the systemic failure of the modern man. Donovan reveals the harrowing moment he was seconds away from pulling the trigger on his own life and the one word that saved him. We break dow...

Performance Coach Zach Blakeney reveals the "Field Architecture" required to transition from an overworked operator to a sovereign leader. Learn why your anxiety is actually a biological "compression" and the 16 diagnostics to prove if you are truly in alignment. Most high-performing men are "Chief Everything Officers" trapped in a job they built. They feel a silent dissatisfaction that they've be...

Most ambitious men are playing a high-stakes game of "Performance Masking" until the storm hits. They ignore the disrupted sleep, the short fuse, and the internal slippage because they are mission-driven—until the check engine light doesn't just flash; it explodes. In this forensic identity audit, Ted Phaeton sits down with former Green Beret and 160th SOAR Special Forces Pilot Nick O'Kelly. Nick...

Are you a high-performer who is "successful" on paper but secretly running on empty? Most ambitious men are chasing a future that doesn't exist while their current reality, their health, their marriages, and their leadership deteriorate in the background. In this forensic breakdown, Ted Phaëton sits down with Calvin Corelli, the CEO of Simplero (a multi-million dollar software empire). Calvin reve...

Are you successful but unfulfilled? Former $2B Pharmaceutical Executive Mitch Matthews reveals why most high-achieving men reach a "career plateau" and how to bridge your current authority into a legacy-worthy brand without blowing up your life. Mitch Matthews is an elite success coach who has worked with organizations like NASA, Disney, and Nike. He is the creator of the Authority Bridge™, a prov...

Are you allowing a "Stagnation Tax" to define your future based on your past failures? Eric Kennedy (Founder of Recovery Vow) reveals the clinical truth about reclaiming masculine identity and rebuilding a marriage after 15 years of addiction. This isn't a motivational talk; it is an identity audit for the modern man. In this episode of The Modern Man, we deconstruct the 15-year trajectory of Eric...

Most men are playing defense. They are waiting for the world to validate them before they move. In this forensic breakdown, Ted Phaeton and transformation expert Jerrid Sebesta (former TV Meteorologist) deconstruct the "Life Undeferred" framework. This isn't about motivational grit—it's about the Sovereign System of identity shift, collapsing time, and the "100% In" principle. If you are a high-ac...

Are you winning at work but losing at home? In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, Ted Phaeton (The Corporate Leadership Forecaster) and naturopathic expert Doc Jacque expose the "Silent Storm" of burnout, metabolic failure, and low testosterone hitting men earning $150k–$300k. Doc Jacque shares his visceral journey from a fractured skull and paralysis to becoming a "Hybrid Athlete," revealing...