Rabbi Moshe Haber

Rabbi Moshe Haber Haye Sara

About this class The mida of Busha, or shame, is a powerful tool for self-improvement, acting as an internal control that encourages individuals to behave in a refined and upright manner. This internal sense of shame, the fear of being embarrassed, motivates a person to avoid foolish or inappropriate actions, thereby fostering continuous personal growth. However, the application of Busha extends b...

bout this class Parashat Haye Sara opens with the passing of Sarah, stating that all 127 years of her life were Key pointsSarah's life, despite its many challenges, was considered Abraham's core character traits, as taught in Pirkei Avot, include a The concept of Abraham's interaction with Efron demonstrates the power of The entire family of Abraham, including Sarah, Abraham, Eliezer,...

About this class The class explores the concept of absolute trust in G-d (Bitachon) when confronted with the chaotic and often frustrating realities of modern politics and societal changes. It challenges the common "split screen" approach where individuals believe they do their part and G-d does His, arguing that true faith means understanding G-d's 1000% control over all outcomes. D...

About this class The trait of shame (busha) can be a powerful force in guiding a person's actions and character. When one feels embarrassed before others, it can prevent them from engaging in inappropriate behavior and encourage adherence to societal norms. However, relying on the fear of human judgment as a moral compass is inherently flawed and dangerous. If the community's values were t...

About this class The trait of *busha*, or shame, is a surprising yet essential positive element in a Jew's character, directly linked to wisdom and mental presence. Just as a drunk person lacks *busha* and acts inappropriately, a person with *seichel* (intellect) possesses this sense of embarrassment, which serves as a crucial internal check. This is evident in the distinction people make betw...

About this class The narrative of Hannah, as presented in Shmuel Alef, reveals profound lessons about faith and resilience. Hannah faced the torment of a co-wife, Peninah, who had many children while Hannah remained barren. Despite her husband Elkanah's love and attempts to comfort her, Hannah reached a point of utter despair, unable to eat or find solace. It was at this lowest point, when eve...

About this class In Parashat Vayera, Abraham Avinu, recovering from his circumcision, sits at the entrance of his tent on an intensely hot day, eagerly awaiting guests. G-d intentionally makes the day scorching hot to prevent travelers, yet Abraham's unwavering desire to perform kindness (hesed) is so profound that G-d sends angels disguised as people to him. This highlights a fundamental prin...

ABOUT THIS CLASS Shame (Bushah) is not merely embarrassment or a flaw, but a divinely implanted trait essential for human dignity and moral conduct. Unlike animals, who lack intellect and thus act without shame, humans are endowed with wisdom, which leads to an awareness of appropriate behavior and a sense of modesty. This class explores how shame acts as a vital internal fence, protecting individ...

About this class The class explores the profound meaning behind Abraham's name change in the previous parasha, establishing him and Sarah as leaders of the world, embodying G-d's attributes. This sets the stage for Parashat Vayera, where G-d visits Abraham after his Brit Milah, an act of Chesed that Abraham then emulates by eagerly hosting three strangers. These strangers, representing div...

About this class The class explores the profound impact of perspective on personal growth, particularly in the realm of humility. It highlights the inherent human tendency to seek validation by comparing oneself to those perceived as less successful or advanced. While this can provide a temporary sense of accomplishment, it ultimately acts as a ceiling, preventing further progress. The true path t...

About this class Humility is a cornerstone of character development, enabling individuals to refrain from judging others negatively and to foster respectful relationships. When one avoids judging, they are better able to influence and connect with people, even those who may seem less observant or knowledgeable. Judging others' flaws often stems from arrogance, as it implies a belief in one&#39...

About this class The class explores the profound impact of judging others favorably (L'kaf Zechut), emphasizing that this practice is rooted in genuine humility rather than a naive outlook. It explains that true humility involves recognizing the inherent value and potential in every individual, even when their actions or knowledge may seem lesser than one's own. The teaching draws upon the...

About this class The class explores the pervasive nature of jealousy, or Kinah, explaining how it fuels much of human endeavor and competition. It is argued that while competition can lead to progress in areas like business and technology, it often devolves into destructive jealousy when individuals desire what others have, rather than simply striving for their own needs. This fixation on others&#...

About this class The command of Lech Lecha to Avraham Avinu is presented as a multi-layered test of faith and trust. G-d instructs Avraham to leave his land, his birthplace, and his father's house, each representing a different level of comfort, reputation, and financial security. This three-stage departure signifies a complete detachment from all worldly anchors. G-d's promise of "to...

About this class The class delves into the concept of humility, defining it as a state where one does not seek or care for public attention, fame, or being perceived as a "big deal." This detachment from external validation allows an individual to live a life guided by genuine intentions rather than the desire for applause. A significant challenge arises when personal commitment to modes...

About this class Parashat Lech Lecha opens with G-d commanding Avraham to leave his land, birthplace, and father's house for an unknown destination, immediately followed by lavish promises of blessing. This class delves into three fundamental questions arising from this narrative: why G-d spoke to Avraham without appearing, why the command of Lech Lecha is considered Avraham's first test o...

About this class Humility is a powerful trait that promotes peace and prevents unnecessary conflict. A truly humble person can walk away from an argument, even when others might perceive them as being taken advantage of, because they understand that not every slight requires a response. However, there are rare and delicate situations where one must set aside personal humility and stand firm to def...

About this class Maintaining peace in relationships—whether with family, co-workers, or spouses—is a constant struggle, as situations can quickly escalate into conflict. While one might intellectually desire peace, simply believing in it is not enough when life presents challenges. The key lies in developing a system to reduce triggers and avoid unnecessary confrontations. This system is rooted in...

About this class Humility is presented as an essential virtue that facilitates a person's ability to follow G-d's ways and develop G-d-like character traits. Without humility, arrogance can impede one's capacity for patience, kindness, and other divine attributes. The class explains that humility is a prerequisite for attaining Yirat Shamayim (fear of Heaven), as it fosters a clear rec...

ABOUT THIS CLASS Tziniut, often translated as modesty, is a fundamental concept in Jewish thought that applies not only to dress but to every facet of a person's life. It is a Mitzvah, a divine commandment, that guides individuals towards a life of morality and inner peace. Beyond physical attire, Tziniut dictates how one carries oneself in public, emphasizing a demeanor that is not loud, attentio...

About this class The Torah describes the generation of the Flood as having corrupted the land and filled it with *Hamas*. This *Hamas* was not necessarily outright theft, but rather a widespread practice of taking small, seemingly insignificant items that fell below the legal threshold for prosecution. For example, individuals would take a single apple from a vendor's box, or a drop of fruit f...

About this class The class explores the nuanced application of humility and arrogance in daily life, moving beyond simplistic definitions. It addresses the "sketchy" nature of outward signs of humility, such as soft speech or simple dress, noting that these can sometimes mask underlying arrogance or be necessary for practical reasons. The core teaching emphasizes that genuine humility is...

About this class The class explores the dual interpretations of Noach's righteousness and the significance of his role as a "follower" rather than a "pioneer" like Avraham. Noach's generation was characterized by extreme selfishness, leading to widespread corruption in all aspects of creation. G-d's command to build the Tevah, a seemingly unnecessary act, was a test...

About this class The class explores the multifaceted nature of divine blessings, explaining that gifts such as wealth, wisdom, or charm can manifest as a blessing, a test, or a punishment. A true blessing is evident when one's talents are used for good, while a test arises if they lead to distraction or frustration. Conversely, using gifts for destructive purposes, like promoting ideologies th...