Forgiveness Is For YOU - Overcome Trauma Through Forgiveness

Friends, In this episode, I  delve into the psychological concept of attachment and how our early childhood experiences with caregivers influence our approach to conflict and forgiveness. I discuss the foundational work of psychologists like John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, who identified various attachment styles—secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized—and their implications for our adult rela...

Friends,  In this episode, I explore the concept of forgiveness as an area of stewardship. Drawing inspiration from biblical parables and stories, I delve into how forgiveness can be seen as a valuable gift from God that we are called to steward wisely. I reflect on the parable of the talents and the story of Joseph to illustrate the importance of using the gift of forgiveness to heal and grow spi...

Friends, In this episode, my guest Lisa Leopold, a faith-based counselor and survivor of spiritual betrayal, touches on a topic that some find taboo to discuss. Lisa shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming trauma in a fractured family, spiritual betrayal, and her struggle with forgiveness.  We discuss the impact of spiritual abuse and the role of forgiveness in healing. This episode offer...

*Content Warning*  Friends,  In this episode, I am joined by Elsa Escobedo-Lopez, an occupational therapist, mother, and wife of 35 years, who shares her powerful story of overcoming the trauma of abortion through forgiveness. Elsa opens up about her journey of post-abortive forgiveness and how she now helps others heal from the pain of abortion as a healing retreat facilitator. This is a heartfel...

*Mature Content Warning*  Friends, In this episode, I take the guest chair for Part 2 with Heather Gaffney from the Warrior Words Podcast to share my journey from Apartheid South Africa to life as an immigrant in the United States. We talk about the importance of forgiveness in the healing of political terror.  Here's the AI Summary: Dr. Carron discusses her early life in a segregated South Africa...

Friends, In the next two episodes, I am in the guest’s chair as I share my story on the Warrior Words podcast with Heather Gaffney. Heather shares stories of people who have experienced trauma and have learned how to thrive despite what happened to them. She looks for the beauty in the broken. In this episode, I talk about growing up under the political system of Apartheid in South Africa. By shar...

Friends, In this episode, my guest Justin Veazey, an IT consultant and father of seven, and I delve into the complexities of praying for oneself. Justin shares his journey of overcoming the hesitation to pray for himself and how it has deepened his trust in God. We discuss the challenges of self-love, the misconceptions around it, and the importance of recognizing one's own value. We explore how s...

Friends, In this episode, I sit down with Deanna Bartolini, an experienced Unbound Prayer Minister, to delve into the transformative power of Unbound Prayer Ministry. Through heartfelt stories and personal experiences, Deanna shares how this unique prayer practice has brought profound healing to many, including herself. We discuss the importance of forgiveness, the role of the intercessor, and how...

Friends,  In this episode, Prayer Warrior, Spiritual Director, and Mindset Coach, Kylie Hein, shares her journey with Ignatian spirituality, revealing how the spiritual exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola can guide us in healing and forgiveness. Discover the significance of contemplative and mental prayer, the practice of the daily Examen, and how imaginative prayer can place us in the Gospel scen...

Friends, During July we explored mourning loss in the forgiveness process. You heard interviews with Mama Jane, who struggled with fertility, Dr. Abby Jorgensen, who supports families experiencing perinatal loss, and Paige McLemore, whose sister was tragically murdered. Forgiveness involves loss, but it also brings hope, accessible through prayer. In August, we will delve into various forms of pra...

*Content Warning* Infant and Childbirth loss.  Friends,  In this week's episode, I delve into the delicate topic of perinatal loss with bereavement doula and sociology professor, Dr. Abby Jorgensen. Discover how Dr. Jorgensen helps families navigate the process of forgiveness, and the complex emotions that accompany such profound loss. We explore her unique role in supporting parents through the s...

Friend, This week I welcome Paige McLemore, Middle School Principal and Forgiveness Ministry Founder, who shares her remarkable journey of forgiving her sister Lee's murderer after 20 years of wrestling with hatred.  Paige opens up about her life before and after the tragedy, the immense grief and anger she faced, and how she eventually found peace and joy through her obedience to Christ. She disc...

*Content Warning* This episode contains mature content not intended for persons under the age of 18. Friends,  In this episode, I am joined by Mama Jane Snyder, a fertility awareness instructor and Catholic Mindset Coach. Together, we explore the emotional and spiritual challenges of infertility, emphasizing the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion. Jane shares her journey through seven y...

Friends, In this episode, we delve into the complex emotions surrounding forgiveness, particularly in the aftermath of betrayal and deep personal loss. My exploration is framed by personal reflections on a former colleague's shocking conviction for sexual assault on minors, a person I worked closely with for 14 years. This experience has led me to reflect deeply on grief, identity, and the forgive...

In this podcast episode, I explore the concept of revenge through scientific research and Catholic teachings. I begin by examining the contrast between a heart of stone, hardened by experiences of injustice, and a heart of flesh, capable of forgiveness and love. Drawing from the Catechism of the Catholic Church and psychological research, I discuss how revenge impacts individuals psychologically a...

**Content Warning!** This episode contains mature content.  Friends,  in today's episode, I delve into the powerful connection between gratitude and forgiveness with my special guest, Amy Latino. A devoted wife, homeschooling mom, and entrepreneur, Amy shares her compelling story of growing up with a father who struggled with his own traumas, leading to a strained relationship filled with emotiona...

In this episode, Canadian Teresa Eppich, a fifth-grade teacher and author of the book A Legacy of Love, How a Holocaust Survivor Inspired Me to Live with Greater Freedom and Purpose shares the profound impact of her decade-long friendship with Eva Olsson, a Holocaust survivor who has touched countless lives with her message of resilience, love, and forgiveness. Eva's incredible journey from surviv...

In this episode, I explore the concept of spiritual bypassing, a term coined by Clinical Psychologist John Welwood in the 1980s. I discuss how spiritual practices can sometimes be used to avoid facing unresolved emotional issues and trauma, particularly in the context of religious observance. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical references, I delve into the dangers of disordered religios...

In this episode, I celebrate the milestone of 5,000 downloads and express my deepest gratitude. The episode takes inspiration from a listener's struggle with forgiveness, expanding on a discussion that began in episode 24 with Hannah Dustman. The episode also encourages reflection on the role one may take in conflicts and the tendency to self-blame. Listener's comment: I was floored by the descrip...

In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Claudine Noel, Board-certified physician, Life Coach, Catholic convert, and the editor of the transformative book,  Sacred Wounds, Stories of Redemption, Healing, and Growth. We delve into the complex themes of family, faith, forgiveness, and the unique experiences and challenges faced by immigrants. This episode offers valuable insights into f...

This insightful episode of the "Forgiveness is for You" podcast ushers you into the intricacies of forgiveness for people with a melancholic temperament through the challenge-filled journey of Tiffany Haller, a resilient mother working through her forgiveness amidst marital separation. With Dr. Silva's guidance, uncover the unique struggles melancholics face while aiming to forgive, be it their in...

This episode features a heart-to-heart conversation with Hannah Dustman, a single woman who grapples with her phlegmatic disposition and the process of forgiving. Through Hannah's personal experiences and candid reflections, listeners are offered a glimpse into the unique path to forgiveness undertaken by a phlegmatic individual. Hannah’s story is a testament to the delicate balance between preser...

Happy Mother's Day! In this bonus episode, I share a story of my family and how Mother's Day has changed over time. I also remind moms that it's OK to make mistakes and that we are all human and forgiven.  If this podcast resonates with you, please follow, subscribe, write a review, share the link with a friend, take a screenshot, and share it on your social media. Sign up for my 5 Days to Forgive...

In this insightful podcast episode, we plunge deep into the psyche of the choleric temperament. We unravel nuances of anger and the therapeutic strength of forgiveness, through the lens of a choleric. The guest, Catherine Johnson, a Catholic Mindset Coach and mother, engages in a candid conversation about her battles with rage, mom guilt, and her path to forgiveness. The podcast emphasizes underst...

In this enlightening episode, delve deep into the sanguine temperament and its relationship with forgiveness. Explore the intrinsic qualities of Sanguines, their optimism, tendency to avoid conflict, and how these traits impact their journey towards forgiveness. Listen as our sanguine host shares her personal experiences, providing an intimate perspective on sanguine forgiveness and the challenges...