Dear Future Hubby Podcast

Have you ever watched an interview, a podcast or even a video… Then heard a word and went to go look the definition of that word up? Well, I have! This is where my current Episode stems from. I was watching an interview with Judge Faith Jenkins on yesterday. This is when I heard her say the following words, (I am paraphrasing), “I used to be cynical“. Why did this spark a full on research of the w...

Have you ever heard, “It is not what you say, it is HOW you say it”? Well, Are You Practicing Self-Care? If the answer is “Why Yes, Yes I AM”, are you Considering others during your Self-care Journey? Listen in as I speak to this very subject and provide my perspective on this. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be Encouraged!

Have you ever heard someone say, “Pay Attention to Their Fruit”? What fruit? You may ask. Well, the fruit of their actions, behavior and/or words. We can learn a lot from those things. If we take the time to simply pay closer attention. Listen in as I unpack my perspective on how to pay attention to the fruit! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

Are you surrounded by the Right People or the Wrong People? Do you have at least One Person who is Willing to hold you accountable? Are you viewing your life through hurt lenses or healed lenses? Knowing the answers to these questions may help to set you free. Emotionally, Mentally or even Physically. Now, I am not a licensed Life Coach, Therapist or Counselor. I am simply a divorced, single mothe...

As I continue to go through the process of Self- Awareness and Self-Reflection, it dawned on me that it was time to “Thank” my exes publicly. You know Who you are! And I am grateful for the growth within. Because I can express my gratitude from a place that I never truly saw manifesting. For That I am grateful too. So to each and every one of MY Exes, I wholeheartedly say, “Thank You”. I hope this...

Sometimes I wonder “Why” certain thoughts pop up in my head, but nevertheless, I choose to speak on them instead! Bars… lol. With all seriousness, today, I want to speak on “Bullying”. Why? Well, if this is a trigger for you, please stop 🛑 And do not proceed with listening to this episode because today’s subject Is Bullying. Over the years, I have learned that Bullying comes in many shapes and si...

🛑 If You are Someone who is easily triggered by certain words, such as “fear, discrimination, hate” or the like, please do not listen to this Episode🛑 I have kept silent for many days. However, no more! I wanted to address the “elephant in the room”. My question today is, “Can We Just Get Along?” Listen in as I unpack one of my biggest challenges. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encou...

When the thought crosses my mind or it is laid on my heart, I have learned the importance of Speaking Up! Which is why I recorded this very episode. One thing I know for certain, I am determined to do things differently so that I can get much better results! That is not only in my friendships, my work relationships but in my relationship too! So listen in as I unpack just how important edification...

🛑 If You are Someone who is Easily Triggered, please do not proceed with listening to this Episode🛑 Well, sometimes I wonder why certain subjects pop up for me to discuss and this one is no different! However, I want to take a moment to say this and then talk about my experience with it, “Spiritual Warfare is REAL”. I am going to be extremely transparent, I hope this helps Someone! It truly help...

When I tell you, sometimes I find myself discovering those nasty truths within and Today, I wanted to hold my Whole Self Accountable!!! Do you hear me?! So I wanted to talk about those “Gossip Babies”… The ones, if we are not careful, we will create through text messages, idle conversations, arguments, misunderstandings, misinterpretations and the like. Let me clear my throat as I confess my fault...

The other day, I listened in to a session where this young Queen was speaking on “The Ripple Effect”. I was intrigued by her perspective and in agreement to a lot of what she covered. She got me to thinking about “The Representative” versus “The Authentic You” and what the Ripple Effect becomes based upon whom you allow to show up! Whether in friendships or relationships! Listen in as I make my ow...

To GOD be ALL the Glory for the Things He has done in my Life!!! “Oh GOD I Thank You”, in my Tabitha Brown voice! I remember when my Hope of becoming a Podcaster was crushed, and I remember who crushed it! No love lost, they had no idea of how much this dream of becoming a podcaster meant to me at the time. However, I also remember the person who sowed into my vision and encouraged me to stay the...

Today’s episode is going to be just a little bit different. I wanted to talk about a Wife in the Bible that I have been reading about, Queen Vashti! As I go on this journey of singleness, I have studied various wives to gain better insight of the kind of wife I desire to be to my future Hubby! Of course it goes without saying, I desire to be the Wife he Needs, but what will that look like for me?...

Today is January 1, 2023! Happy New Year to all of my Listener’s out there in Podcast Land. As I was going through my journal, I stumbled upon a journal insert. For the sake of protecting certain identities, I have replaced the name with “This Man”. This also allows me to pray for my “True Husband”, my Future Hubby! I hope that my level of transparency will help someone to be totally and completel...

🛑 If You are Easily Triggered by the words “Death, Suicide or Murder”, please do not proceed with listening to this Episode 🛑 The death of dancer Stephen “Twitch” Boss hit many of us HARD! However, I believe when death shows up unaware, if we survive the experience of losing a loved one, we should take a moment to Reflect on the gift we call LIFE! I understand, not every person looks at Life as...

Now how many of you are willing to put your flaws on Blast?! I Am! And the truth of the matter is, is that I Talk Too Much! But in the famous words of Tabitha Brown, “That’s My Business!”. The only difference is, I am about to Share my business on this here episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Sometimes when we are facing adversity, we cannot seem to see “the forest for the trees”. However, if we look a little deeper, we can see beyond that forest altogether. Well, I have been through a few forests over the span of my life and there is one thing I have learned, “never make a permanent decision based off of a temporary circumstance.” Listen in as I unpack this. I hope this Episode encour...

Hello Everyone! I hope y’all had the most amazing Holiday with friends and family. And whether you celebrate Thanksgiving or not, I hope you truly ceased every moment to be with and around the people you love! Today, I wanted to talk about being your authentic self and what that looks like for me. Listen in as I speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

🛑 Public Service Announcement: This episode is for Mature Audiences Only! If you are someone who is easily Triggered, please do not proceed with listening to this Episode🛑. Today, I wanted to delve into knowing people by the fruit they bear. Sometimes we are so focused on people’s actions that we neglect to truly Listen to the words they speak in our presence and when we are not present. However...

This inquiring mind would like to know, if my Future Hubby is a Compassionate Man of GOD? I have head so many people talk about making a list of the qualities they desire in their Future Spouse, in their Purpose Partner. Well, one of the qualities I desire in my True Husband is “Compassion”. Listen in as I speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

I cannot speak for every generation, however, I do know of A Generation of people who do not apologize for the mistakes they have made, even if their mistakes hurt their children beyond measure. Listen in as I speak on my truth concerning this very thing. Do you agree or do you disagree that apologies are necessary? Either way, I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

It may have taken me a moment today to get to the heart of this question, but I do believe that if you stay until the very end, you will understand my Why?! A lot like my life, I have gone over the valley, under the hill, through the woods and eventually found that right path again. For some people, life may have turned out the exact way they planned it! Well, not for me!!! My life has been Messy...

I sure do hope y’all get the jist of what I was trying to say. “Have Fun!!!” Whatever that may look for you and your Boo. However, apparently multi-tasking is not my strong suit. Therefore, I hope this rather short episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

Today, I wanted to say “Thank You” from the bottom of my heart, to All of my Listeners! On October, 8, 2022, we reached ten thousand listens!!! I believe that GOD is Still on the Throne and you all are the real ‘Most Valuable Players’ (MVP’s). Thank you for your support! I also chose today to share one of my journal I inserts from an old journal. If you are someone who is a divorcée and you desire...

I must say this, there is nothing you can compare a father’s love to but what if you didn’t have the honor and privilege of experiencing a father’s love? Well, for me, I learned how to live vicariously through others concerning this but if you watched Bishop T.D. Jake’s pass the Mantle of the Final Woman Thou Art Loosed Conference to Pastor Sarah Jake’s Robert’s, (get ready, get ready, get ready f...