Dear Future Hubby Podcast

Where is the Grace in Relationships to be completely honest, open and RAW - Real and Wise?! Are you someone who feels the pressure from all that is going on in this world? Do you have a person who you can truly Confide in? No Judgement?! Where you can be vulnerable and you don’t have to Worry about it being Used against you Later? There is Liberty in that you know? Well, if you are someone I can c...

What does Perfect Peace look like for you as you weather a storm? For some, it’s the sun before the storm, for others, it’s the smell of the rain to come. And for others it’s the thunder and the lightning. It’s true, Peace looks different to different people. However, have you stopped long enough to center yourself after the storm? Or do you remain on autopilot, silently bracing yourself for the n...

I’m sure by the title you are most likely thinking about Facial hair right now. However, proceed with caution, the content in this Episode is for Mature Audiences Only! 🚨 Trigger Alert 🚨 If you are a person who is extremely sensitive and/or easily offended. Please do not listen to this Episode! On this Episode I am RAW on a totally different Level! You have been Warned! I hope Someone is encoura...

February is the Month of Love and as I practice self-love, as well as, self-care, I couldn’t help but recognize that my Love Language consists of them all! However, as the days change, I understand that the way I minister Love to My King will too. So, Dear Future Hubby, I’m curious and would Love to know What are your Love Languages?! If you are also someone who is trying to figure out what your l...

Living your Truth takes Courage! Courage that I have noticed a lot of people don’t operate in! Instead, there are people who choose to live the Lie! But Why? In my Singleness, it is imperative that I learn How and When to Ask the Right Questions when Dating! This is not an Option, it is a Must! After all, I have my Children to Consider. Plus, asking the Right Questions could help me to avoid the W...

Today represents the Day of Love! I hope and pray that everyone who is celebrating this Holiday truly feels Loved! I also hope that those who are Single, with no Mate, also feels the Love! May this day be one of reflection where in your Singleness, you Choose You and you Choose to Love on Yourself! After all, we Teach others How to Treat Us! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Let’s see if Two is a Charm! Turns out, the original episode which I believed that I taped on 1/11 is non-existent because it didn’t successfully record. Therefore, today, is the remake. According to many, that day was the day of Manifestations. When the atmosphere shifted. Well, in honor of January 11th, please try to write down 111 things you would love to see manifest in your lifetime and anoth...

As we approach Valentines Day on Tomorrow, I wanted to take a moment to speak Life into my Future Hubby’s Life! Only time will tell what Our Love Story will look like, however, I am looking forward to our Finally! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Why is it that as a Mother, Sister, Grandmother or Aunt we can tell a child something and it doesn’t seem to stick and stay but if their Father, Brother, Grandfather or Uncle says it, they will respond and it will stick and stay? Maybe not all of the time, but I have seen this happen a lot of times. Could it be the God in You Men? That subconsciously demands respect? Whatever the reason, Men, You...

🛑 Stop! 🛑 🚨 Trigger Alert🚨 This Episode is as real as it gets! If you are easily triggered by the word “miscarriage”, this episode may not be one you want to listen to. However, if you want to know my Truth concerning My Miscarriage, please continue. I am not ashamed and if you have experienced a miscarriage or if the woman you love(d) has experienced a miscarriage, it is my hope that there wi...

I have often heard that History Repeats itself. Hopefully, this will be true when it comes to actively forgiving you! I have come such a long way in this journey we call Life. Grateful that I have learned how to walk in Forgiveness and not keep account of Wrongs like I once did! Trust me, I have not arrived! However, I am so glad that I have Grown! This is Black History Month, and I am a Black Wom...

In my opinion, generational curses were meant to be Broken not Continued. It is my prayer that each and every generational curse will end in my Lifetime! A part of being set free and being free indeed is knowing your true identity. Now I know my Identity in Christ, however, now my desire is to know my true identity on my Biological Father’s side! How about you? Do you only know Half of the Truth?...

Now That is the Question! Why is it so hard for us to pursue our purpose unapologetically at times? I’ve hear this so often, “Fear”. But isn’t the Acronym for FEAR, False Evidence Appearing Real?! If yes, why not change the Acronym to Something You can Use? Like, Fuel Every Area Right! Better yet, why not replace Fear with Faith? Create an Acronym for FAITH, I Did! Foresee An Intellectual (Incredi...

So often I have heard, “What doesn’t kill you, only makes you stronger!” Maybe. Or it could have a different effect, what doesn’t Kill You could make you Bitter! So how can you become Better? Yes, Forgiving yourself is one way to become better. However, I believe discovering the Purpose behind the Pain can open doors that no man or woman could ever shut! From Trauma to Transformation! Some of us D...

For some people, their Mask is their Security. Truth is, no one wants to be their Authentic Self and still face Rejection over and over again! So instead, some people will pretend to be someone they are not. In hopes that their Mask will draw the person they Want in due time! Well, I believe the mask needs to be removed completely, because in my opinion, people should always meet the Authentic, Be...

Well I hope our Love will Stand the Test of Time! Through the Ups and Downs of Life! I pray that our Bond will be So Solid and our Foundation so very strong, that it will Stand the Test of Time! I pray that it will not Sink under Pressure similar to that of the Titanic! I also hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

We can Try to make all the plans we want, then Hope and Pray that our plans will eventually come to pass! However, such as Life, there will always be an interruption. Death is one of those interruptions! We don’t know the Time, the Date, nor the Hour! If we are not Ready, that will not Stop this Appointment from coming up. This is One Lesson I have Learned with COVID-19. No One’s Life is Guarantee...

Too many relationships have been built on Lies! So many marriages have been entered into with deception. Way too many people are stuck with putting the pieces back together after a failed marriage because one or both persons refused to remain authentic on their journey to finding love! Life does not Have to be this way! We do Not have to Pretend to be Someone we are not! Wouldn’t it be Nice if we...

My, My, My! Well, it was only a matter of time before this subject would come up, I guess Today is That Day!!! My Past, is far from Perfect! There are so many things that I have experienced in my past that I am certainly not proud of! But I am Grateful that GOD kept me through the Process! I have trusted people I should have avoided and I have avoided people who I should have trusted! Sometimes, I...

Never will I ever! Seems to be something we have All said at least Once, right?! Well, as I am learning how to Surrender All to my Creator and just maybe this List of Nevers is something that must also be Surrendered to Him too! If you have an entire list of things you would Never do, people whom you would Never consider, maybe this Episode is just for you. Enjoy!

Wow! To Think that not Many Years Ago, “People Pleaser” could have been my middle name! There were times I did things just to feel accepted by those I thought I truly cared for and who I believed truly cared for me! Looking back over my life, I can see clearly that those individuals did not care about me at all! I am so glad I’ve grown Wiser and that Now I can handle this one Fact: Everyone who Cl...

Our Minds truly are a terrible thing to waste! The ability to explore each and every intricate part of our Authentic selves is such a Beautiful Thing and worthy of expression! Wouldn’t it be worth the journey to learn Why we Think the Way we do?! Wouldn’t it be enlightening to discover what drives our ideas? Wouldn’t it be worth it to learn what propels us to be Creative? What if we began to Thriv...

Did you know that giving someone the Silent Treatment only exposes the immature side of yourself? We are adults! Adults should be able to openly and honestly communicate with one another! Learn how to Speak Your Truth in the Midst of a Disagreement and Love through it! If you struggle with the Silent Treatment, this episode is for you! Enjoy!

When was the Last Time you expressed to those Closest to you just how Significant they are in your life? When is the Last time You looked in the Mirror and Told Yourself just how Significant You Are? It’s Sad how most of us have bought into the lie that “we Still have Time”. When the Truth is, None of us Know How much Time we truly have!!! This is Why we Must Cease Each and Every Moment to Love On...

One thing is for certain, My Worship is Not in Vain! However, it does Manifest in the Strangest of Times! I Love it Though! There is Something Glorious about Worshipping for Real! If you haven’t done so in a while, I encourage you to invest in GOD! I hope you enjoy this episode.