Come Talk with Aimee: Sex, Intimacy, and Conversations Worth Coming Back To

What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex?  In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage. We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to...

What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥 In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee , I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about brea...

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint. Connect with Angie Enger https://www.angieenger.com/ https://www.angieenger.c...

Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential? In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of  orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment . From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of  self-exploration and communication , they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it. You’ll learn: The diffe...

We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨ Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen , founder of AmorSui , to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you. We get into: Why anal play is about more tha...

Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway. In this episode, somatic sex coach  Meryl Victoria  joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the  nervous system and intimacy.  From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on. We dive into: How nervous system regulation  sets the stage  for deeper connection Why some b...

🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning? This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton —Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton . They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even...

Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth. If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes." Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck. Connect with Dakota Ramppen https://www.getrealwithdakot...

Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy? In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy —that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency , unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout. But here’s the tr...

Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged. We're breaking down shadowb...

Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone. From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose th...

What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture? In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM , a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and po...

Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve u...