Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Are you an "overcaretaker" and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself?  You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the "takers."  This week on a live  Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with y...

Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, "Yes! All the time?!" — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the c...

Welcome back to another episode of  Where Are They Now? :  Coaching with Kimmy!  In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizin g she...

Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic?  Well, then you'll definitely want to listen to this episode where you'll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy's teachings but you'll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy...

Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminat...

Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor.    EPISODE 15...

Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy addresses this burning question. Since COVID hit, many of us have been spending more time at home. Finding love might seem like the last thing that deserves your focus. Shouldn't you be working on yourself right now instead of focusi...

Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the most important things to figure out so that you can attract and design the love you deserve. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a special guest, attorney turned Purpose and Productivity Coach and host of the Imperfect Thriving Podcast, K...

Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients about where they are on their love journey and what's changed since they started working with her. If you're looking for the secret to their success, these episodes provide a roadmap for you to follow.    EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is...

Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman on the show for an eye-opening and thought provoking conversation about emotional intimacy. Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to date someone to get a deeper connection wit...

Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narc...

Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's  not  even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGES...

Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love life often feels impossible? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on an expert in helping people harness the power of focus, Debra Kasowski. Debra Kasowski is a Certified Executive Coach, a three-time bestselling author and the host of the...

Do you wonder if it's ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change?  Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fear of being seen?  These are some of the questions that Kimmy's client asked herself before she found love.   Kimmy's back with another installment of Where Are They Now? On these episodes, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who h...

Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative social isolation, perhaps you're starting to think differently and value things you didn't before. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews one of the greatest authorities on relationships between women and men, Dr. John Gray.  Back by popular demand,...

Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one …again ?  In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress o...

There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship.    EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quot...

Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks.    EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry...

Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're observing ever-shifting distancing guidelines can be daunting, but you may have a better opportunity virtually to connect with others than ever before!    EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Digital Dating Trends And Social Connectio...

We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms.  Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process.    EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast i...

This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic.   Kimmy's back with another inspirational episode of,  Where Are They Now?  On these shows, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success which will motivate and show you that finding love is possible, even during a pandemic!   EPISODE 144 of T...

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps Moving Past Grief   How do you move past loss to find love again?   Grieving and loss are inevitable parts of life but right now, you may feel unprepared or overwhelmed. Before you can move forward in your dating life, you need to have the tools to move past grief and rebound.    EPISODE 143 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is: Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to M...

How do you proceed to reopen your dating life and find love even in this new world where we continue to practice social distancing? ⁣ ⁣ As we all start talking about reopening, no matter where you are in the world there is a new normal.  And it looks quite different than the world we once knew.  ⁣ ⁣ EPISODE 142 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reopening your dating life again. A three p...

Our ideas about how the world works are based on how the world meets our own expectations.   Those expectations affect our experience - for good or bad- and can influence our reactions and responses to just about everything and everyone that we encounter.    Interview With Christy Whitman:  Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 141...

How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates.   Coaching With Kimmy:  Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 140 hosted by  Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer.   This week, Kimmy's back with another episode of Coaching with Kimmy. In this segment, Kimmy works with a caller live to cra...