Podshape

Who Even Are We?

Kids EN ↓ 971 episodes

After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?

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Podshape

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Kids

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Latest episode

7 jul 2026

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Episodes

Carrying the Mental Load 12.04.2026

As Mum's we tend to carry the mental load but is it because our brains are wired differently?? And why do we feel guilt over asking for help? In this episode we chat what we do v what we should be doing! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is Chat GPT going to replace our doctors? 07.04.2026

In this episode we chat about the jobs that could soon be taken by AI. Katie has 2 examples of using AI instead of going to the GP but Rach is NOT convinced! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Inside the Manosphere Controversy 31.03.2026

We've both watched the show and have our own takes on the controversial Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere show on Netflix! Why we think the men are nothing but salesmen and our concern for the girls. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Turning Grief into Connection with Psychic Medium Barbra Banner 29.03.2026

In this episode we are Joined from Los Angeles by Evidential / psychic / trance medium Barbra Banner to chat about connecting with spirits, the messages that come through and how to trust the signs. You can connect with Barbra at www.bannermedium.com   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Supplements, what should we take? 24.03.2026

Rach spends a lot of time researching what we do and don't need, and Katie wastes a lot of money on what she sees on Instagram that she thinks she needs. So what should we be taking that won't break the bank?? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Losing your identity 22.03.2026

In this episode we chat about jobs and Rach changing her career in her 40's. Also when you lose your job, who are you left with? We unpack identity loss, Katie’s “fallen star” moment after radio, and the harsh reality of fair-weather friends when the spotlight fades. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Broke & ashamed 17.03.2026

We’ve all had moments we don’t talk about, and in this episode Katie opens up about a time when she didn't even have the money to buy her kids school uniforms. The shame she carried and the showing up like everything was ok. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Money blocks and the anxiety we have 15.03.2026

In this episode we chat money, money, money! From comparison with others, our money blocks, anxiety, and the shame around it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jackie O: Our thoughts 10.03.2026

In this episode we address the story that's dominating Australian headlines - what's going on with Kyle & Jackie O??? After working in radio for 17 years Katie has some thoughts on what's actually going on.... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Fitness in your 40's 08.03.2026

We're a bit sick of the conflicting messages around what exactly we should be doing in terms of exercise. Cardio or no cardio? Do we have to run or can we just walk? As a personal trainer Rach has some suggestions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Make someone's day 03.03.2026

Rach has come up with an idea that she thinks will make someone's day. Pick a different person every day and lets start filling buckets! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Adoption & the abandonment trauma that goes with it 01.03.2026

In this episode Katie opens up about being adopted as a new born and all the heavy stuff that goes with it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The things we thought we'd never say 24.02.2026

When do we get to the stage where we start saying stuff that sounds like it's coming out of our parents mouths??! From 'money doesn't grow on trees' to 'it's too loud' we're there and we're owning it! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time to fill your bucket up - lets get selfish! 22.02.2026

Are we in a midlife crisis or a midlife awakening?? In this episode we are talking about how we do so much for other people, whether it be the kids, husbands, household or pets. Now we are giving you the permission and the tips on doing something for yourself. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rach's moment of shame 17.02.2026

In this bonus episode Rach tells us about something she's done that she finds disgusting and shares her moment of shame! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What's with the Low Libido? 15.02.2026

This week we’re chatting low libido and why it's a thing! We talk about what we tolerated “back in the day,” the pressure to perform, and why men can switch it on just like that, but if you dare to pack the dishwasher in the wrong way we're turned off for at least a week!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Burner phones ONLY in our house 10.02.2026

Rach is holding off on letting her girls have a phone and is standing strong with it despite Katie thinking it's not long until she will have to give in. When do we give in to the social pressure? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Alcohol: The Unhealthy Relationship we don't Talk About 08.02.2026

There's so much shame around alcohol particularly in women our age who are using it to relax, as a reward and habit after a busy day. In this episode we are VERY honest about our issues with it and the unhealthy relationship we have. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is this Aging or am I just Tired?? 03.02.2026

Yep we're all feeling it! The aches & pains, creeks and brain fog. Rach also had an interesting mammogram and has come up with a great idea for a men's version!!!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Grief: We have both experienced loss and are ready to talk about it 02.02.2026

In this episode we talk about the different stages of grief and how it shows up not just in the loss of a person but also in the end of relationships and, in Katie's case, a serious health diagnosis.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Online dating - we want more 27.01.2026

We have so many single Mum friends who are doing it tough, online dating is flawed so lets discuss....... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One week on, one week off and I can't orgasm 25.01.2026

This is a 2 parter, we hear from a single Mum friend who tells us all about doing one week on and one week off with her ex and then discuss orgasms after hearing that a lovely listener has NEVER had one. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lets be friends 20.01.2026

Making friends as a kid is easy but as we get older it's tough. We assume women our age already have 'their people' and we often lack confidence to put ourselves out there. So lets chat about it! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

READ THE ROOM BRO 18.01.2026

As we get older we've come to the realisation that there is a real lack of common sense in the world. Katie's trip to the chemist with an embarrassing issue will blow your mind and when it comes to plane etiquette we are BAFFLED! It leads us to the line we use so much..... READ THE ROOM! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lets just book in - Visiting the Brothel 13.01.2026

We found out the 'massage' place next door to the podcast studio is actually a BROTHEL so of course we have heaps of questions! And what better way to answer them than to go in and make a booking! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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