Patio Talks

Gissell and Charleston discuss the pressures of societal expectations and personal growth. They share their experiences of working long hours, financial struggles, and the challenges of single parenthood. Gissell recounts her journey of leaving a relationship, working multiple jobs, and pursuing education while raising her daughter. Charleston reflects on his own struggles with financial dependenc...

Gissell and Charleston reflect on their past struggles with self-expression and identity. Gissell, who had papillomatosis and couldn't speak until age six, now emphasizes the importance of finding and using one's voice. Charleston, who grew up on Chicago's West side, discusses the challenges or early sexual activity and the pressure to conform. Both agree on the significance of self-ac...

We said what we said. 👃🏽💬 Ever catch yourself nose-deep in your phone… and your nostrils? Yeah. This one’s for the distracted, the overstimulated, and the lowkey nose-pickers of the world. In this episode, we’re breaking down why we do the weird things we do when we think no one’s watching from scrolling in a daze to going elbow-deep mid-scroll. It’s funny, it’s awkward, it’s a little too real....

Gissell and Charleston discuss the nature of love and obsession, prompted by a listener's question about a love spell. They explore how love can feel like a force, driven by oxytocin and dopamine, and the difference between love and obsession. They debate the concept of obligation in marriage versus commitment, with Gissell preferring the latter. They also discuss the challenges of early marri...

The Prison of Perfect We all want to get it right. But when “perfect” becomes the standard, it can steal our peace. In this episode, Gissell and Charleston unpacks the highs, the harm, and the hidden weight of perfectionism and what it really takes to let go. A must-listen if you’ve ever felt like you’re never enough, no matter how hard you try. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pati...

In this first episode, we share the real story behind Patio Talks. Why we created it, what it means to us,and what you can expect from this space going forward. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/patio-talks/donations

Welcome to Patio Talks — where real stories breathe. This is a safe space to come as you are. To heal. To speak. To listen. Your voice matters here. Share your story → thepatiotalks.live Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/patio-talks/donations