Best Gabe Ever

EPISODE 69. And it’s all about sex, BABY. Okay, maybe not allll. Gaby and Allison start off by giving advice to a listener who is distraught that her father has taken a job working for a prominent Trump supporter and donor. They then break down sexuality and sex shaming with clinical sexologist Stephanie Hunter Jones. And finally, self-confidence! Where’s the line between confidence and arrogance?...

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener whose parents constantly criticize their weight and skin. How do you ignore toxic words from your parents? They’re then joined by KCRW producer, Cerise Castle, to discuss BLM protests, the treatment of the press by police and her own experience getting shot by a rubber bullet while holding her press badge. Finally, the girls discuss Biden as the democrati...

Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question regarding relationship timelines and the subsequent judgement. They then speak to Rasha Pecoraro, co-host of the podcast ‘Root of Evil,’ about her family and their involvement in The Black Dahlia / Elizabeth Short murder. Rasha’s great-grandfather was George Hodel, the main suspect in one of the most infamous “unsolved” murders of all time. They also g...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who doesn't like anyone who likes them back. They’re then joined by Dr. Rajita Sinha of the Yale Stress Center to break down the science of stress and how it affects our bodies. And finally, some tips on how to feel less lonely. Spoiler: Get a dog! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST B...

Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about whether it’s healthy to fight with her partner. Then, they talk to Jon Lovett -- Crooked Media co-founder, host of Lovett or Leave It and co-host of Pod Save America -- about the power of language and the ways political speeches can sway, comfort or incite. And to wrap it all up, they discuss the pros and cons of exposure therapy while Gaby freaks out...

Gaby and Allison tackle the conundrum of a newly married woman who realizes she does not enjoy penetrative sex. Then, they talk to comic book writer Greg Pak about indie presses vs. working for Marvel, Asian representation in comics and the collaboration between storyteller and artist. Also bucket lists! What’s on them? Why do people make them? What’s stopping us from both getting pet rabbits? Com...

Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener worried about bringing up marriage to her boyfriend who went through a nasty divorce. They then discuss anti-science sentiment with “Brain Scoop” host and museum curiosity correspondent Emily Graslie. And finally, they break down some defining childhood moments. Also, penis bones??? Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogp...

On this week’s episode, Allison and Gaby grapple with a listener’s question about self-forgiveness. They’re then joined by Hood Feminism author, Mikki Kendall, to discuss intersectionality, inequality and what it truly means to be a feminist. The girls end the episode with a lively discussion about what you need to know about a potential partner from the get go. Mainly, are they a republican who h...

Allison and Gaby try to help a listener deal with a potential new mental health diagnosis. They’re then joined by Fire Drill Fridays activist Jessica Wilson to discuss climate change and how to help during and after a pandemic. And finally, a tough discussion about the realities of unemployment. Is it a “fun” episode? Maybe not! But you’ll definitely learn something! (We hope.) Listen to Just Betw...

Allison and Gaby help a listener who wants to learn to communicate with her partner without constantly seeking reassurance. They’re then joined by Planned Parenthood’s Alexis McGill Johnson to discuss conservatives' sneaky attack on reproductive rights during the pandemic. And finally, sleep. Goodnight! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus F...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who can’t seem to find joy in Zoom Hangouts with her friends. They’re then joined by investigative journalist, Natasha Del Toro, to discuss an investigation that involved 14 women and the many people who didn't believe them. And, finally, Allison and Gaby describe their perfect lives. (It involves animals for Allison and multiple partners for Gaby. S...

Allison and Gaby start off by helping a listener decide between passion and practicality when it comes to choosing a college major. They’re then joined by writer and podcaster Nora McInerny for a frank discussion about grief and how to keep living when you lose someone you love. And later, aliens. (With a little bit of ghosts and cryptids!) This show is wild, y’all! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Fr...

How are we holding up under self-quarantine? Allison and Gaby offer (conflicting) advice to a listener about staying sane during the pandemic. They then discuss the hazards of social media and the spread of misinformation with Andrew Marantz, author of “Antisocial: Online Extremists, Techno-Utopians and the Hijacking of the American Conversation.” And later, the girls chat about sexism in politics...

Happy self-quarantine, everyone! Allison and Gaby discuss how they’re handling the coronavirus crisis (lots of games). They then offer advice to a listener whose mom won’t take their mental illness seriously. They’re also joined by writer Ashley C. Ford, who shares a heartwarming story about real love. And later, we analyze and dissect our own social skills in possibly the nerdiest way ever. Chef’...

Get ready for a special episode featuring Simone Biles and SK-II! Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question about whether she actually enjoys her feminine presentation or if she’s a victim of societal beauty pressures. They then interview the greatest gymnast of our time, Simone Biles, about SK-II’s Beauty is #NOCOMPETITION campaign, toxic beauty standards and her involvement in SK-II Studios’...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener now and forever dubbed QUEEN EMILY. No spoilers, but it’s a can’t miss International Question involving an exploding bag of chips! They’re then joined by Cathy Campbell, a University of Virginia nurse who sheds light on the much needed support for our transgender senior citizens. And later, Allison and Gaby discuss maintaining a healthy work-life balance...

Why are we SO UNCOMFORTABLE talking about money? Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener dating someone who is having a tough time with his finances. They’re then joined by Lori Gottlieb, a best-selling author and therapist, who talks about her own journey through therapy. And later, we share some of our biggest misconceptions! Hindsight is 2020! (Pun alert!) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a queer listener struggling with internalized homophobia after her brother came out. They’re then joined by host of the podcast America Dissected, Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, to talk about the dangers of supplements, wellness crazes and other untested cure-alls being sold for our health. And later, we get super personal! How do Gaby and Allison feel about having kids in th...

Some days, you’re so happily in love that you could cry. And others… you feel nothing at all. Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener struggling to make sense of her conflicting emotions after recently being diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder. They’re then joined by Craig Antico, a former debt collector who turned his life around and started a charity to help those drowning in medical debt. An...

Gaby and Allison discuss how to balance your friendships and partnership after a listener writes in to say her roommate feels neglected now that she has a girlfriend. Then, they welcome Fake The Nations’ Negin Farsad to muse on the 2020 Democratic candidates. And finally, kindness! When and where can we extend it and why it is so important to prioritize. Unless of course, someone asks you to get i...

Gaby and Allison offer some mental health alternatives to a listener who can’t afford therapy. They’re then joined by immigration lawyer, Marko Maglich, to discuss Trump’s disastrous policies and roadblocks in the American immigration system. And to round it all out, what the heck is a healthy relationship? And how do you maintain it? We definitely know! Trigger Warnings: xenophobia, racism Listen...

Allison and Gaby offer solace to a listener who has been ghosted after an international love affair. They’re then joined by The Trevor Project’s Director of Research, Dr. Amy Green, to discuss advocacy and crisis prevention tools for suicidal queer and trans youth. And finally, the girls give all the content recommendations you never asked for! Meow! (You’ll get that later.) Trigger Warning: Suici...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener wondering if they should tough it out and consume media even when it’s difficult and upsetting. (Yes? No? Maybe?) They’re then joined by Gaby’s partner, musician Mal Blum, who shares all the dirty details of Gaby’s attempts at seduction. And later, queer baiting and why we hate it! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogp...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose jealousy is out of control! They’re then joined by disability rights activist, Annie Segarra, to discuss her fight to get properly diagnosed with a rare genetic syndrome. And later, Allison opens up about her highly personal (and scary!) decision to go back to school. (OH GOD!) Trigger Warning: Medical Malpractice / Abuse Listen to Just Between Us...

Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener on how to love your body when you gain weight or experience other physical changes. They’re then joined by Gaby’s ex-girlfriend, comic book editor Shannon Watters, who reveals surprising details about their past relationship -- plus she shares a best practice guide to polyamourous relationships! And later, we’re getting real about death. SPOOKY! Trigger...