Single Mother Survival Guide

This week, I wanted to have an honest conversation about something we hear a lot as single mums - "You're so strong." While it's often meant as a compliment, I want to explore why that phrase can sometimes feel like a burden rather than support. When you're juggling work, parenting, co-parenting, emotional stress, and maybe even a hostile ex, being told "you're strong" can quietly reinforce the id...

When we go through a separation or divorce, it's not just the end of a relationship; it's the unraveling of almost every part of our lives. Our routines shift, our finances change, our plans for the future are rewritten, and our sense of identity can feel completely shaken. Everything we thought life would look like suddenly flips upside down, and the impact of that runs far deeper than most peopl...

Your 40s can be a season of transition - physically, emotionally, and hormonally.  In this episode, we talk about how to work with your body rather than against it. You'll learn why awareness is the key to navigating this stage with confidence, how to adapt your habits to support your changing body, and why prevention and self-care matter more than ever. Links mentioned in the episode:  To support...

Dating as a mum is a completely different world compared to dating before kids. It's not just about chemistry anymore; it's about compatibility, respect, and the kind of energy someone brings into your life (and potentially, your children's). In this episode, we're diving into the realities of dating as a single mum - the emotional hurdles, the practical challenges, and the powerful growth that co...

Today's episode is all about the emotional rollercoaster that comes with sending your child off to school - whether it's their very first day in kindy, their start in high school, or another big transitional year. While we're busy sorting uniforms, stationery, lunchboxes, and the endless school admin, there's a whole other layer happening quietly underneath: our emotions. For mums (especially sing...

Rebuilding confidence as a single mum after big life changes can be incredibly difficult. But here's the truth: confidence isn't something you're born with, it's something you rebuild , one small step at a time. In this episode, I share five gentle yet powerful steps to help you reconnect with your confidence and sense of self. You'll learn how to acknowledge where you really are (without pretendi...

As single mums, it's so easy to start the new year feeling like we need to do more - being more productive, achieving more, earning more... But what if your "best year yet" wasn't about doing more… but feeling more? More joy, more peace, more confidence?... In this episode, we'll take a step back and reflect before we reset. You'll be guided through gentle self-reflection questions to help you und...

This week, I'm inviting you to step out of the chaos, away from the never-ending to-do lists, court dates, and laundry piles, and to tune into that deeper part of yourself, the part that dares to want more, even after divorce or loss. In this epsiode, I talk about how to start dreaming again when survival mode has taken over, and why you're worthy of building a vision for the life you truly want....

As we welcome 2026, I want to take a moment to share from the heart what I truly wish for you this year. This isn't about setting resolutions, making lists, or creating strategies, it's simply about the hope I carry for you in the months ahead. This year doesn't need to be perfect. May you give yourself permission to make it your own, to choose yourself, and to step into the new year with gentlene...

As this year comes to a close, I've been reflecting on the lessons it's brought me, and honestly, it's been a big one. A year of growth, surrender, unexpected changes, and a lot of learning. In today's episode, I'm sharing the top ten things this year has taught me - not because I've mastered them, but because there's something powerful in pausing, looking back, and acknowledging how far we've com...

Christmas can look and feel so different for each of us. You might be waking up to squeals of excitement and wrapping paper everywhere, or you might be on your own, missing your children, holding back tears (or letting them flow). You might be somewhere in between. However this season finds you, I just want you to know that you are not alone. In this short episode, I share a gentle Christmas pep t...

The holidays can feel complicated when Christmas is split between two homes. Whether it's your first year sharing custody or your fifth, it's normal for big emotions, tricky logistics, and even guilt to creep in. You might feel torn when you can't be with your children on certain days, and they might feel the same pull between two households. In this episode, I remind you that your best is enough,...

If Christmas feels heavy this year, this episode is for you. Whether you're grieving a breakup, navigating your first holiday without your kids, mourning a loved one, processing a miscarriage, or simply feeling an ache you can't explain, know that you're not alone. The festive season can magnify both joy and pain, and it's okay if yours feels more tender than merry. I share my own experiences with...

The holiday season is often seen as a time of warmth and togetherness, but for many single mums, family gatherings can feel overwhelming. From navigating tense dynamics to addressing old conflicts, these moments can bring up anxiety or discomfort. In this episode, we'll share practical tips to help you approach holiday gatherings with grace, confidence, and strategies that prioritise your well-bei...

The holiday season is a time for giving, but it's easy to get swept up in the hustle and lose sight of its deeper meaning. In this episode, we explore how single mums can foster gratitude and generosity in their children while creating cherished holiday memories. From charity work to community service, learn practical ways to encourage giving back and instilling important values in your family. Le...

Resentment can feel heavy - like carrying around invisible baggage that weighs you down, day after day. Maybe it's anger towards an ex, frustration with family, or disappointment about how life turned out. Whatever form it takes, resentment steals your energy and blocks your joy. In this episode, we're unpacking what resentment really is, why it lingers, and how to begin releasing it - gently and...

In this episode, we dig deep into society's idealised image of family. We explore where this cookie-cutter vision comes from, how it's shaped expectations, and why it often leaves single mums and their children feeling like outsiders. And what can we do about it? It's time to shine a light on the diverse, modern families who prove daily that love, resilience, and success aren't limited to one outd...

When was the last time you truly paused and asked yourself, "How am I really doing?" As single mums, it's easy to get caught in survival mode; you're holding everything together for everyone else, while quietly ignoring how you're actually feeling. But when we suppress emotions, they don't go away - they simply pile up, turning into overwhelm, burnout, or resentment. This episode is your reminder...

In this episode, we dive into the complicated world of social media and its growing influence on our children's lives. We look at both the positives and the pitfalls of kids being online, and share why it's vital for parents to stay involved and aware. You'll get practical ideas for setting healthy boundaries, opening up honest conversations, and helping your children develop the tools they need t...

As a single mum, keeping a positive mindset can feel like a daily challenge, especially when life throws curveballs. One of the most powerful tools I've found for shifting perspective and creating inner calm is acceptance. In this episode, I share how acceptance can transform your mindset, bring more peace into your emotions, and help you let go of the weight of trying to control what you can't. A...

In this episode, I'm joined by Lindsey from the US, a courageous single mum to a beautiful baby girl. Together, we talk candidly about her journey and the turning points that shaped her path: How Lindsey met her ex-husband, the father of her child How problems in their marriage began to surface Feeling burned out and experiencing resentment in the relationship Putting her dreams on hold to support...

As a single mum, it's often family, especially grandparents, who step in, providing love, time and support during the tough moments of solo parenting. This episode explores how this network of care can be a true lifeline, making the parenting journey less lonely and much more manageable. Yet, what do you do when helpful hands begin to cross boundaries? We look at when sincere support transforms in...

This week, I'm joined by Chrissy, a resilient single mum of two from Australia. In this episode, Chrissy gets real about her journey through heartbreak, healing, and hope. She opens up about: Meeting her ex-partner and how things began Losing herself in the relationship, especially after a traumatic birth and the impact of her ex's behaviour Navigating postnatal depression, ADHD, and the unique ch...

Having my son Sebastian this year has brought back so many memories of when my daughter was a baby, and it's been surprisingly triggering at times. By the time she was five months old, I had already split from her dad, moved interstate, and was in the thick of setting up a new life as a single mum. Reflecting on that time in my life now, with the hindsight of experience, has left me wondering: wha...

In this week's episode, I'm bringing you Part 2 of my conversation with Annie, a single mum who has walked through immense challenges and come out stronger. In this instalment, Annie opens up about life as a single mum and the reinvention of herself, including the surgery that transformed her quality of life and the importance of surrounding herself with the right people. We talk about the struggl...