NatAndChat

Sometimes we just want to be saved. Rescued. For "it" to be fixed for us. Is that really a way to benefit tho?

Is how you see yourself based on what people tell you you are? Are you making your own labels? Are they accurate? Is it time to shed some labels?

Because we are all different, every relationship we have will differ. And by relationship...I mean the way we interact with one another. Don't see this as a bad thing, it's beautiful. Let it help you know who should be getting your time.

Comparison is possible on a million levels now. That doesn't mean we should be making comparisons..and we are all different anyway! Start looking at your own greatness without comparison to anything or anyone. And all the while, how you think will create who you are. We need to pay attention to that.

When Nat Chats With, it's long. Sharon and I talk about there being no right or wrong. We talk about listening to what feels good for you, and the benefits of making yourself #1and healthy. We should all do this.

We think we need to have more forgiveness, when we really need to be wise. Apply forgiveness where it's applicable. Where it's not; learn what the situation CAN benefit from. Making up stories of how you forgave someone who won't change isn't the answer. A lie to yourself is seldom the answer, compared to being emotionally healthier.

Knowing and feeling are different. You can be sensible, but experience builds conditioning. Conditioning is forced feelings that we don't choose, and that require effort to overcome.

You will have your perspective created by your life experiences. This makes it impossible for everyone to agree with you because others live a different life. Accept we can't all agree, and allow comfort in "we are all didferent", because THAT makes sense.

Honesty and lying are different. When it comes to yourself, the inability to be honest with yourself means you are only making your life harder. Honesty is healthy and actually easier.

Life keeps lifeing on us, and none of us have it easy. Writing to a friend, and sharing with him some things I've written recently that say I see you, I support you.

Do you get butterflies? Are you easily flattered? Is the modern way of meeting people helping or hindering the ability to feel attraction? Here's my take on it.