Sex and the State Podcast

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: Being, shall we say, quite familiar with both heterosexuality and pessimism, I of course had to click on “ On Heterop...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription , or just share this post! ~~~~~ Below is my first article for Psychedelic Spotlight! If you’d rather watch me read this: Professional athletes and men’s wellness gurus are turning to ps...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription , or just share this post! ~~~~~ I recently spoke to Kyle Borland, author of Third Cultured, for a queer perspective on the problems facing US native-born men. We talked about how mascul...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ Here’s the interview: I recently interviewed Elizabet...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: In news that will delight some (my family and boyfriend) and upset others, I’m taking an indefinite break from OnlyFa...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: My friend (and fe...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ Here’s the video interview: I recently interviewed Sh...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: I’ve written a fe...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: One of my favorit...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: Got a letter from...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ Welcome to the second installment of what will likely...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this post: Sorry, not s...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: Got a question fr...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’d rather watch me read this: For a long time ,...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ I got dumped Tuesday night. This now former partner,...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ If you’ve never seen my torso, you might not know tha...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ Alright gang. I’m back on my political bullshit. Get...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ This post’s title was shamelessly stolen from a sign...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I use evidence and stories to interrogate existing power structures to propose better ways of relating. To support my work, buy a guide ,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ My first published guide, 3 Steps to Better Boinking...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ I love this...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ I ran across...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ In a shockin...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ While the co...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ I flew from...

Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating. To support my work,  buy a subscription ,  follow me on OnlyFans , or just share this post! ~~~~~ A few friend...