mindset over bullshit with Kendrick Avant

MS Diary | Complications of working for the wheelchair-bound

MS Diary | So much self-care has drawbacks!

MS Diary | Jumpstarting your healing  Today is day 2 of making my mind up to start reinventing myself. I'm gonna jumpstart my healing by acting, talking, texting, blogging, videos, EVERY-THING, like I'm doing better. No more sitting here wishing and hoping that things were different. Time to quit repeating the steps that got me here. I HATE this. I hate it, hate it, hate it. It's crazy...

MS Diary | Falling in love with yourself

What's fucked up is that I overstand why a healthy person would leave a disabled person. I get it, walks, drives, dance, whatever.  Now, I'm forced to decide between staying IN the house so she and the kids can see me & help me OR leave with family that actually WANTS me This is so fucked up. I know staying here is safest decision but it hurts so fucking much to see her living her best...

What's fucked up is that I overstand why a healthy person would leave a disabled person. I get it, walks, drives, dance, whatever.  Now, I'm forced to decide between staying IN the house so she and the kids can see me & help me OR leave outta state with distant family that actually WANTS me This is so fucked up. I know staying here is safest decision but it hurts so fucking much to see...

MS Diary | How I recovered from anxiety

MS and divorce

National Tattoo Story Day Oooooo! Now, THIS is something to celebrate. Matter fact, let me open a can for THIS day. National Tattoo Story Day #blogger #blogging #blog #life #lifestyle #lifestyleblog #allaboutyou #perspective #beyou #allonyou #bethechange #keepgoing #passion #purpose #mission #message

MS Diary | Friday, the 13th

7th mindset OVER bullshit Roadhouse  When? Friday, 9/13, 6p - 8p CST Where? Private Zoom DM me or m.s.franky Why WE need a mindset OVER bullshit Roadhouse: I'm sick of being left out. I'm sick of hotels with poor accommodations. I'm sick of Airbnb's with ZERO accommodations.

Hot Cross Buns & Gratitude This Gratitude stuffworks! I am on day 1,462 of my Gratitude Challenge and I feel the difference.  When I wake up, within minutes, I’m listing what I’m grateful for. Smiling at the why stories. When I lie down for naps or bedtime, I’m listing what I’m grateful for. Judging which story is worth sharing.  Throughout the day, I’m listing what I’m grateful for and making...

MS Diary | What happens when I miss Oxybutynin

MS Diary | Gratitude, Perspective & Divorce

MS Diary | Why I lost motivation

MS Diary | New trick for more showers

MS Diary | Health update after 2x 40hr work weeks

MS Diary | Start your Gratitude Journal!

MS Diary | Medical recliner review Power Lift Recliner Signature Design by Ashley Ballister I scooped a medical recliner with BIIIIIG aspirations for treatment. After a couple days, I'm not impressed. It helps but nowhere near my lofty expectations.  One, I need the leg/foot to raise higher. I have diabetic nerve pain in the feet. It's relieved when feet are higher than waist. Two, the rec...

MS Diary | Find Your Inner Nerd Day

MS Diary | Now, THIS is heartbreak.  All my life, I've feared asking ugly questions. In my head, there was no point. People lie for a variety of reasons. (Nope, I'll blog about it but I'm not doing it here.) For years, I've felt my wife leaving, checking out. For years, she denied it but I FELT it. I have Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis. I'm disabled AF. My physical appe...

2024 is the 8th year of my MS diagnosis. It's a really emotional time for me. The reality of Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis has altered my perspective, accelerated my goals, reordered my priorities and damaged my relationships.  I admit, I have not solved this wheelchair life. I'm nowhere near solving it. But… I'm closer now than I was 8 years ago.

MS Diary | My Grade 3 wheelchair was denied This is absolutely HORRIBLE news. It's very much expected but HORRIBLE. I know my next action is starting an appeal. Hopefully, my first submission fixes this. If not, I gotta consult a lawyer. *fingers crossed*  Wish the little, disabled homie luck.

MS Diary | Roadhouse is TODAY Look, I'll admit, I NEED this. I WANT this.  Save the date and let's enjoy some drinks.  Together as Wheelchair Users.  Virtually, so we can do it with as little help as possible. 5th mindset OVER bullshit Roadhouse  When? Friday, 8/16, 6p - 8p CST Where? Private Zoom DM me

MS Diary | How I feel w/out accommodations Ooooo. This is getting rough on day 4. My accommodations give me a 30min break every 2hrs, 2hr lunch, 6hr/workday, can't work 3 consecutive days, extra time for reporting. I'm trying to do this until Dec. 7th so I can make money for medical equipment. Damn the medicines, pills, fusions, shots, etc. I'm doing this for a wheelchair, disability b...