Grace & Truth Talks

Pastors James and Tiffaney pick up where the men’s panel left off and go straight into the tension behind “I want a healed man” and “I want to be led.” They unpack why “strong” can quietly turn into control, why some men confuse a woman’s help with threat, and how God’s design for order is supposed to produce safety, not competition. This episode also gets real about what emotional safety actually...

We’re living in a world where it’s easier to "cancel" a connection than it is to work through a conflict. But often, we get too weary from a year of "shedding" to see the harvest that’s actually right in front of us. Whether you’re ending the year celebrating a string of wins or you’re sitting in a "winter" season where everything feels cold and stagnant, this conversation is the roadmap for what’...

In this episode, Pastor James sits down with Terrence, Derek, and Anthony for part two of a timely conversation that sparked debate online about men, relationships, and what “growth” really means. They respond to last week’s women’s panel and the viral “teacher/go higher” moment, clarifying what got misunderstood. This is about alignment, pace, purpose, and the difference between contentment and c...

In this special year-end episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney revisit the most viral, debated and controversial moments from Grace & Truth in 2025, and give their unfiltered reactions. From submission and self-awareness to growth, dating standards, and respecting a man’s voice, they unpack the real heart behind each moment and respond to the praise and the pushback. If you’ve ever watched a cli...

In this honest and eye-opening episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with a panel of wise, purpose-driven women to explore what women really want in relationships, and what they need in order to feel seen, safe, and secure. From the meaning of submission to the weight of provision, this conversation goes beyond surface-level dating talk and into the real standards and expectations that shape godly re...

In this vulnerable and wide-ranging episode, Pastor James opens up about his journey from a selfish lifestyle and federal prison to discovering his true calling. He shares the hard lesson learned from a past "transactional" marriage where he tried to cover up a mistake rather than repent, leading to a quick annulment. "Ask the Pastor" panel featuring Carin, Oge, and Talonna, where they discuss the...

What do men really need to feel safe in a relationship? In this episode from Grace & Truth Talks, the conversation gets real about growth, humility, leadership, and the often-overlooked ability to submit when your partner is stronger than you in certain areas. This is a powerful and necessary discussion for anyone pursuing healthy love and purposeful partnership. The guys break down one of the...

Everybody asks women what they want in a man, but this time, the fellas got the mic. In this raw and mature Grace & Truth episode, Pastor James sat down with three single men to have an honest conversation about what marriage-minded men actually look for in a wife, beyond looks, status or social media trends. They talk humility, emotional safety, growth and how ego, pride, and timing shape the...

On this episode of Grace & Truth, we are getting real about the difference between infatuation and mature, sacrificial love. We discuss why so many of us get stuck in relationships that move in circles rather than spiraling upward, and why "potential" is the most dangerous thing to fall in love with. Pastor James and Pastor Tiff share the blueprint for spotting "fruit" in a partner—looking pas...

For the single person or the grieving heart, the holidays can feel like a minefield of memories and expectations. In this segment, we discuss why you don't have to "perform" happiness this season. Courtney Truitt, a Certified Trauma-Informed Grief Coach, joins Pastor Tiff to share actionable advice on setting holiday boundaries—including why you should always drive your own car to events so you ca...

What if "falling out of love" isn't something that happens to you? What if it's a choice? In this profound and powerful "aha" moment, Pastors James and Tiffaney expose the real reason relationships grow cold. In this video, you will discover: The powerful reframe: "Falling out of love" is actually "falling into selfishness." How silence and internalization become the biggest enemy of your relation...

In relationships, it is easy to fall in love with who someone could be, rather than who they actually are right now. But how do you tell the difference between a partner who is building a future and one who is just wasting your time? In this touching and transformative conversation, Pastor Tiffaney opens up about the early days of her relationship with Pastor James. She shares why she felt complet...

So many women say they want a Godly man, but when the wait feels long, the boundaries start to blur. In this powerful episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with Carin Pinto, founder of Philly Connect®, for a raw, honest conversation on femininity, boundaries, submission, and faith in dating. They discuss what it means to stay soft in a hard world, how to lead as a woman without losing your femininity...

When a relationship is on the brink, the confusion can be as painful as the heartbreak. What does "separation" really mean? Is it a "pause for purification," a chance to heal and rebuild? Or is it just a "pathway for permanent division," a slow walk to a painful end? In this incredibly raw and necessary episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney go beyond the surface-level advice to navigate the painful...

Have you ever felt trapped by a past mistake, wondering if you can ever find love again? For many, the shame of divorce feels like a life sentence. Scripture can even be used to make you feel "stuck," with verses that call remarriage adultery. But what if we've been reading the book without knowing the Author? In this powerful, healing, and must-see episode, Pastors James and Tiffany tackle this p...

Do you ever feel like you're trying everything in your relationship, but it still feels weak? Or maybe you're in a good season, but you're worried about what happens when a real storm hits? In this powerful and transparent conversation, Pastors James and Tiffany share the "secret" they discovered that has strengthened their 10-year marriage, a marriage everyone said was "crazy" for starting at the...

Stuck replaying the betrayal? This Grace & Truth episode is a roadmap from betrayal to restoration, moving from victimhood to growth. We unpack: why the gospel brings dead places to life, forgiveness without replaying the hurt, how to set real boundaries (yes, phones), when separation helps and how to define it, and 1 Corinthians 7:5 on intimacy during separation. Don't forget to like, comment...

You keep praying for “the one”, but are you ready for them? God won’t always drop a name from heaven, He trains your discernment. This Grace & Truth episode breaks down the spiritual disciplines that shape your character, your choices and your future. In this episode: Why God trains you in characteristics & rhythms (not just answers) The four disciplines: obedience, humility, self-control,...

Are the things you’ve always believed about relationships actually true… or just myths? This week, Pastor James & Tiffaney Edwards are breaking down the misconceptions that can hold you back from experiencing real, healthy connections and what's keeping you tied to a lie. Subscribe to Grace & Truth Talks for weekly episodes that inspire and empower your relationship journey. New episode dr...

Intimacy is more than sex, it’s spirit, soul, and body. Pastors James and Tiffaney unpack what true intimacy looks like and why it starts with God. They break down the difference between physical attraction and spiritual connection, how trauma and past experiences can distort intimacy, and what it really means to be authentic, transparent, and vulnerable in relationships. From prayer in the bedroo...

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, the story continues. When the roles reverse and both sides have to face the truth, what does healing really look like? From guilt and shame to forgiveness, tools and transparency, this episode walks through what happens when two people choose to rebuild a broken marriage together. In this episode: Why the hardest person to forgive is yourself How pride can...

In this episode of Grace & Truth, join Pastor James and Tiffaney as they dive deep into the secrets for preparing for the right partner, dating with intention, and building a healthy, thriving marriage. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers practical wisdom and biblical insights for every stage of your relationship journey. In this episode: The difference between grace...

Infidelity is one of the deepest wounds a marriage can face, but what matters most is what happens after. In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffaney sit down with David & Kristin for an honest, redemptive conversation about betrayal, forgiveness, and rebuilding from the inside out. In Part 1, David opens up about the pressures, blind spots, and emotional im...

Join hosts James & Tiffaney Edwards as they dive deep into one of the most important questions in dating and relationships: Are you choosing someone who’s truly fit for marriage, or just fun to date? In this episode, you’ll discover practical insights, real-life stories, and biblical wisdom to help you navigate the dating world with clarity and purpose. Whether you’re single, dating, or prepar...

In this episode of Grace and Truth, join James and Tiffaney as they dive deep into the secrets for preparing for the right partner, dating with intention, and building a healthy, thriving marriage. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers practical wisdom and biblical insights for every stage of your relationship journey. Watch on YouTube or listen on ALL podcast platforms to...