Zo Williams: Voice of Reason

Is your significant other merely tolerating you as opposed to fully accepting you? Do you have to accept everything your partner does? Should you accept your partner as they are? Do people have an obligation to seek opportunities for self improvement in a relationship? Is it also important to be accepting of the other person in the relationship? Are you obligated to do anything in a relationship?...

Can you manifest your highest good without conscious intent? TRUE OR FALSE? Many of us don’t know how to pray because we don’t know/ understand what we’re saying? Agree or disagree? Through our thoughts words and deeds we become living breathing, walking prayers/manifestation machines? Can prayer/meditation that is free from anxiety get us out of fight or flight mode?

Do intimate relationships need purpose/direction & connection in order to be successful? Can a relationship survive without a purpose or direction? How do you fix an empty relationship?

How do I stop competing with my partner? Is competition healthy in relationships? Why is my spouse always competing with me? How does teamwork help relationships? How do you deal with an envious partner? How do you build teamwork relationships? How can you tell if your partner is jealous/envious of you? How does a jealous partner act? What does it mean when your partner envies you? IS YOUR PARTNER...

What positive qualities ( besides money and resources) do you bring into your close relationships? What is a blind spot in psychology? What are you afraid to know about yourself? What Is Self-Awareness and Why Should You Care? What is the one truth I least want to accept about myself? Regarding you were intimate relationship with your significant other What are you most likely wrong about? What ta...

What might micro-cheating mean about your relationship? Why Is Micro-Cheating Something To Be Aware Of? “Micro-cheating negatively impacts relationships because, even though the acts seem inconsequential by themselves, they can lead to a gradual erosion of trust, Agree or Disagree? Micro-Cheating Sounds Innocent. And It Is. Until It Isn't.

What is an example of outercourse? What’s the overall purpose of OuterCourse? What is the advantage of outercourse? How can I be intimate when abstinent? Can Outercourse be used as a type of foreplay? Is outercourse the same thing as abstinence? Can periods of abstinence make the Sex Better?

How does the societal expectation for women to be submissive and obedient reinforce the patriarchy? In what ways does gaslighting serve as a tool to dismiss women's experiences and opinions? Can both men and women gaslight each other, or are men the primary offenders? How does the concept of "crazy" or "emotional" play into the gaslighting of women within patriarchal structures? How does the portr...

Agree or disagree? We often think we need to hide our rough edges, as if they guarantee rejection, but the opposite is usually true: Our flaws connect us. They make us relatable and approachable. They give us common ground. True or False? We’re all “wired for struggle,” as Brené Brown wrote, and most, a lot like Augusten Burroughs, “entirely made of flaws, stitched together with good intentions.”...

Should you Date a person’s potential? Is dating a person's potential a recipe for disaster? Is the fear of “NOT” reaching your healthy, loving and empathic relationship potential virtually dead? What are some real relationship goals? It is believed that 80% of all people never reached their personal goals, could the number be even higher for intimate relationship goals? Why don’t we go after healt...

Is being a loner a red flag? What do you do if you're in love with a loner? Can loners ever hope to maintain a relationship? Can loners be inconsiderate in relationships?

How do you politely correct spouse? Can constantly correcting your spouse be seen as disrespectful? What?/when is the right time in place to check/correct your partner? How do you ask someone to correct their behavior? Why do some spouses become angry when they are corrected? Should a work in progress ( WIP) try to correct another work in progress ( WIP)? In what way should your partner be allowed...

What does death symbolize in spirituality? What am I willing to die for? What am I most proud of? In what ways can death represent rebirth? Am I afraid of death? How do you overcome the death of a loved one? What situation(s) would cause me to welcome death? What is the ideal way to die? How To Deal With Family Conflict During Bereavement?

Why do “good” relationships seem to stall? Why do so-called good relationships often suffer from bouts of a lack of mutual empathy? What are some of the challenges “good” relationships are asked to overcome? What are some of the reasons a “good” relationship can become stale, lifeless, or even meaningless? Why do good relationships fail?

Did your mother’s unhealed wounds teach you to become a wounded fixer, enabler, and rescuer of broken souls? How does a mother wound affect a woman? How does the mother wound affect relationships? How does an emotionally absent mother affect her daughter? How does an emotionally absent mother affect her son?

Why is it so hard to set boundaries? How do I make others aware of the changes? True or False? Personal boundaries are the rules and limits you set within relationships. They tell you what’s okay, and what’s not okay, in a relationship. How do you maintain your boundaries? Should our intimate relationship boundaries, be rigid/inflexible, flexible/scalable, loose/virtually nonexistent?

What is the toxic father wound? How can our daddy issues distort/corrupt our relationship expectations? VOR:

What are 3 examples of empathic listening? What is listening with empathy in relationships? Is there such a thing as too much real talk in a relationship? What are the 4 empathetic listening skills? What happens when couples can’t talk for real? What happens to a relationship when real talk is avoided? What are some key aspects of empathetic listening?

What are masculine tendencies in a woman? Are women becoming more masculine? HOW CAN WOMEN RELEASE EXCESS MASCULINE ENERGY? CAN A WOMAN HAVE TOO MUCH MASCULINE ENERGY? How can a woman become more masculine? Can women display toxic masculinity? WHY A WOMAN EXPERIENCE TOO MUCH MASCULINE ENERGY?

What are the signs of falling out of love? How long does falling out of love last? Can lost feelings come back? Can you fall out of love with your soulmate? Is it possible to still deeply Love your partner, even though their behavior has fractured the rose colored glasses you previously viewed them through? How much influence does your pair of rose-colored glasses affect the intensity of love you...

Someone I love didn’t lie to me. Someone I love told me the truth, they just didn’t tell me all of it. Not until now, that is. Are you surviving in your relationship on half-truths alone? What does withholding look like in a relationship? Would you respond the same way whether you were being lied to or not told the whole truth, even if the consequences to you were the same? Is withholding informat...

What does being rigid in a relationship mean? How high & inflexible expectations ruin relationships? True or False? Just like a rigid muscle can cause pain and restrict our range of movements, so can psychological rigidity - fixed thoughts and patterns of behavior can have a negative impact on our relationships.

How do you add play to a relationship? What does romantic play look like? ***One of the most common forms of play seems to be the secret language that develops between couples, from nicknames to private jokes.

How do I access my inner power? What are the Benefits of tapping into your inner strength? How do I restore my spiritual strength? What does spiritual strength mean? What are some spiritual strengths? What is inner spiritual strength? How do you develop spiritual strength? What are inner strength qualities? When it comes to your ability to thrive, persevere, overcome or triumph over troubled times...

True or False? Neglecting to meet one’s own needs is the most common reason one’s needs do not get met. Agree or Disagree? One way this happens is when we expect our partners to do for us what we are not willing to do for ourselves- we want them to prioritize our wellbeing even though we don’t prioritize our own. True or False? The opposite of LOVE is Indifference? What are some examples of indiff...