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Send us Fan Mail  In this powerful solo episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of self-trust — and why so many of us think we trust ourselves, when in truth, we’re quietly living in doubt, procrastination, and overwhelm. I share my personal journey of recognising how often I stepped out of my power, tried to prove my worth, or placed others on pedestals — and what it really takes to come back...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and soul-stirring episode, James is joined by healer, creator, and guide Cara Elizabeth to explore what it truly means to live in your power. From the role of trust and surrender, to working with archetypes like the dragon and animal medicine, this conversation dives deep into healing trauma, embodying truth, and creating from the inside out. Cara shares her perso...

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply honest and wide-ranging episode, I’m joined by sex coach and sexological bodyworker Jem Ayres for a powerful conversation about reclaiming pleasure, presence, and connection in everyday life. We explore how prioritising pleasure — not just in sex, but in the smallest daily rituals — can transform how we show up in our relationships, work, and wellbeing. Jem shares h...

Send us Fan Mail  In this raw and deeply honest episode, I'm joined by relationship mentors Jack and Erica to explore the true nature of long-lasting, meaningful relationships.  Together, we dived into the inherent mess that real connection brings—the unspoken expectations, emotional triggers, and recurring patterns that often go unresolved. Rather than avoiding discomfort, they share how con...

Send us Fan Mail In this soul-stirring solo episode, James opens up about five powerful lessons transforming his life—and how they can shift yours too. He shares his journey of reclaiming personal power, embracing patience, and recognising worth as something already within. You’ll also hear about his upcoming one-day retreat, Awaken Your Inner Dragon , a transformative experience to embody truth,...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with biomechanical specialist and master personal trainer Ashley to dive deep into the truth about fitness, nutrition, and the mindset behind lasting transformation. Together, they explore why systems often matter more than goals, debunk common health myths around calories, steps, and metabolic types, and u...

Send us Fan Mail We dive deep into a topic that affects every single one of us: purpose. What does it truly mean to live with purpose — and how do we even begin to discover it? My guest today is Steven J. Whitten, a veteran of the automotive industry turned speaker, mental health advocate, and founder of MenAble . We talk openly about the difference between goals and purpose, why self-worth and id...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and thought-provoking episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with Merlin Matthews to explore the deep-rooted conditioning men receive from childhood—and how it continues to shape their emotional lives, relationships, and sense of identity. Together, they unpack the outdated scripts of masculinity: don’t cry, don’t be weak, be the lone wolf. With...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like you’re not good enough, no matter how hard you try? That little voice inside your head that whispers “you’re going to fail” — that’s self-doubt. And if left unchecked, it can quietly sabotage your dreams, relationships, and confidence. In this episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , I dive deep into the roots of self-doubt, why we all experience it, and the...

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply powerful episode, Nathan Simmons takes us on a raw and revealing journey into the nature of trauma, perception, and inner transformation. Exploring the quote “What’s normal to the spider is chaos to the fly,” Nathan unpacks how our experiences shape our understanding of the world—and why no two people truly share the same reality. Through compelling personal stories...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , host James welcomes breathwork teacher and healer Anthony Abbagnano to explore how men can reclaim their wholeness without reliving painful trauma. Together, they discuss why true transformation often lies in rescuing the forgotten parts of ourselves—the inner child left behind in moments of hurt—and how tending to those parts crea...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with money mindset mentor Taylor Eaton to explore how wealth and success are built from the inside out . They unpack why so many of us put money on a pedestal, how that fuels anxiety and scarcity, and why lasting abundance begins with self-worth , self-trust , and your relationship with yourself. Taylor shares pract...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James explores what it’s like to carry the “weight of the world” on your shoulders—literally and emotionally. Drawing from his own experience of tight shoulders, neck and upper back, he unpacks the silent pressure of ancestral and family expectations: growing up on a multi-generational farm, feeling the duty to take over, and feari...

Send us Fan Mail In this inspiring and deeply moving episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with speaker, behavioural profiler, and collaboration expert Michelle Mills-Porter to explore the transformative power of working together. Michelle shares the life-altering experience of surviving the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami in Sri Lanka — an event that not only reshaped her personal val...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode, host James sits down with transformational mentor Gayatri Beegan to explore the deep roots of male shame, confusion, and disconnection—especially around sexuality and identity. Together, they uncover how the lack of meaningful initiation in modern Western culture leaves many men feeling powerless, emotionally disconnected, and confused about their purpose...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful conversation, relationship coach Jack Longbottom joins James to explore the real meaning of boundaries, the courage it takes to own your part in a relationship, and why “the work” is simply the part of you that keeps trying. Jack opens up about his upbringing in a family affected by addiction, the suppression of his sensitivity as a child, and the life-changing ex...

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply honest conversation, James and guest Jack explore the truth about conflict in relationships — why it’s not a sign of weakness, but a natural and even necessary part of building something lasting. Together, they unpack the myths around “perfect” partnerships, share personal stories of being conflict-avoidant “nice guys,” and reveal how real growth comes from leaning...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and wide-ranging conversation, we sit down with JJ — a trailblazing former Royal Air Force servicewoman, bodyguard, and reality TV contestant — to talk about the lessons life has taught her on the front lines and beyond. From serving in Berlin when the Wall fell to working in Afghanistan as a close protection officer, JJ shares gripping stories that highlight the...

Send us Fan Mail What if the key to elite performance, emotional healing, and personal transformation wasn’t pushing harder — but learning to rewire your mind? In this episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James is joined by cycling legend, coach, and NLP practitioner David Le Grys . With over 40 British titles, two world championships, and a lifetime of experience navigating physical and emot...

Send us Fan Mail What does it take to bounce back from broken bones, broken hearts, and broken beliefs — and still chase gold? In this raw, honest, and often hilarious episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with David Le Grys — world champion cyclist, coach, and all-around force of nature — to unpack the mindset behind resilience, the power of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP),...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and deeply moving episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with psychotherapist and shamanic practitioner Mark Hashimi to explore how true healing happens when we go beneath the surface—and how ancient wisdom and modern therapy can work hand-in-hand to help us rewrite the unconscious scripts we’ve carried since childhood. Mark shares his own journ...

Send us Fan Mail Healing After Heartbreak — Taking Ownership & Feeling My Emotions In this solo episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , I open up about one of the most painful experiences of my life— dealing with a breakup that completely knocked me off my feet. I share what it felt like to lose everything I thought was secure, and how that moment became the catalyst for a deeper commitment...

Send us Fan Mail In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , James sits down with poet and wellbeing mentor David Anderson , also known as Pep the Poet , for a conversation that weaves together fear, humor, healing , and the power of playfulness . David shares his signature “Five F’s” of fear response — Fight, Flight, Freeze, Flock, and… the cheeky one — and introduce...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I sit down with David Anderson—also known as Pep the Poet —to explore the many faces of fear and how it quietly shapes our lives. David shares his personal journey through anxiety, alcoholism, self-doubt, and imposter syndrome, revealing how a simple phrase— “fear tells lies” —transformed his outlook and became a guiding principle for his wo...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and emotionally rich episode of Man: A Quest to Find Meaning , I sit down with therapist Selwyn Duke for an open, vulnerable conversation about what happens when life breaks us open—and how those moments become the catalyst for deep healing. We explore how depression, breakups, addiction, and anxiety often act as wake-up calls, forcing us to ask the questions we’v...