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This week Susan and Melissa go over some of the popular gift guides to give last minute ideas for gift giving during the holiday season

Do you want to spend a ridiculous amount of money on something ugly, dump or overpriced? Then this is your gift guide and if that isn't enough there are over 22 different vibrators to choose from. This is our annual laugh at the gift guide episode for those of you who have followed us over the last 3 years.

After a few minutes of catching up and discussing current events, Melissa and Susan will share with you some silly dad jokes as they thought given the current state of the world we could all use a little humor.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss a NY Times article that explains a LOT about climate change and discuss the topic in depth

Today Susan and Melissa discuss many of the lists on line for 2023 that recommend top brands by category, price point etc.. Listen and hear the latest

This week (with a few technical difficulties) Susan & Melissa discuss some of the new words in the Websters dictionary as well as a sampling of the past/present words of the year

Several listeners were kind enough to send in their pet peeves and this week Susan and Melissa share them and discuss

This week Susan and Melissa read some Dear Abby questions from back in the day and answer them with a modern day twist

This week Melissa asks Susan a variety of questions both fun and serious.

In this episode Melissa and Susan discuss the symptoms of menopause and also one major, undiscussed topic..... painful intercourse . A very common problem which is rarely discussed.

This week Susan poses questions to Melissa on Book Banning, Gun Violence among other topics both light and heavy

This episode Susan and Melissa discuss Damar Hamlin, their views on New Years resolutions and a few other topics along the way

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the Book "The Choice, Embrace the Possible" which discusses Dr. Eger's experience at Auschwitz and here subsequent journey and healing

This week Susan and Melissa discuss Goops very "interesting" selections for holiday gifts.  In addition they also go over both Oprah's holiday gift guide as well as the RealSImple gift guide.  Both of these offer great suggestions as well as unique ideas for gifts for friends and family.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss the Apple TV show Five Days at Memorial.  It's a docudrama based on a hospital in New Orleans during hurricane Katrina.  In addition they also talk about another Apple TV show called Bad Sisters, a dark comedy set in Ireland.

This week Susan and Melissa discuss (without trying to give it away) the book The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, which touches on spousal abuse, sexual orientation, betrayal, lies, power etc..  

This week we discuss what the "new fall fashions" are being touted as well as some quick yummy recipes

In this episode after catching up on Susan's less than ideal move experience, the ladies discuss the book American Made, What happens to people when work disappears written by Farah Stockman.

Today Melissa and Susan discuss some of the very important and depressing issues facing our country currently.

The ladies answer a variety of random questions AND If you are tiring of these then please email us topic suggestions at youhadmeatmartini@gmail.com or DM us on our youhadmeatmartini instagram

While road tripping from Vegas to Palm Springs, Susan and Melissa discuss their observations regarding the recent mask mandate lift and also share some road trip stories

In this episode Melissa and Susan discuss the benefits of being a pet owner and share readers touching and funny pet stories

Warning this episode may be triggering as this week Susan and Melissa go over warning signs that you or someone you know may be in an abusive relationship. They also share their own stories of friends and family members who have experienced this and how it came about or is unfolding. This is a very sensitive topic so if you find it is triggering you, turn it off and call someone to talk about why...

In this episode Melissa and Susan are joined by Riley Carroll and Kelsey Sipple who help to explain the TikTok phenomenon and the off-shoot community of WitchTok

In this episode Susan and Melissa discuss the removal of masks from schools, states that have outlawed mandates, the new variant along with all things covid.  They discuss both their feelings about the current situation and research on issues such as long covid etc...