Aamir and Amir

You Don’t Love Me Podcast

Society EN ↓ 129 episodes

You Don’t Love Me Podcast with Amir and Aamir. Life from the perspective of a gay British South Asian couple living in America. We discuss all things from growing as people, our learnings from life, all the way to our stupid and funny stories! There are some rude and crude jokes on the way too so...be warned! Leave a review, subscribe and enjoy.! You will find us on apple podcasts, spotify, google podcasts and many more places! (reviews welcome)! You can also watch episodes on our youtube channel: @youdontlovemeboys Do not forget to follow us on socials and see what we are up to: Youtube- @you...

Author

Aamir and Amir

Category

Society

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Latest episode

Jun 14, 2026

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Episodes

Episode 76: Journey with Therapy 12.12.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we have a fun catch up then delve into some serious conversation about why Amir started therapy, his journey unpacking his toxic and abusive upbringing and what he's gained so far from therapy. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastch...

Episode 75: Our Mental Health 21.11.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we speak about the importance of looking after our mental health, the lack of mental health support growing up in South Asian communities and Aamir gets emotional speaking on something very personal to him. We always try to be as open and honest as possible so please do listen and hopefully...

Episode 74: To Travel Again 07.11.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we talk about our love for exploring the world, touch upon climate change and Aamir talks a little about turning 30! Enjoy us being a mess and listen as Amir gets progressively more poorly :') Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho...

Episode 73: Halloween Special! 24.10.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we are super poorly but talk about some of our rational and irrational fears! We're also interrupted a few times by a super spooky guest! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 72: Time for Diversity 08.10.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we end up ranting and gossiping a hell of a lot about what diversity is, what it looks like out there as well as some of our own experiences of 'diversity and inclusion'. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 71: The Shows That Shaped Us 26.09.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In our brand new episode we talk about our experiences at Queer Talk Live, shows on tv that shaped us growing up and things we watch now that impact our lives! It's a super silly and super fun episode, enjoy! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho...

Episode 70: Self Love 12.09.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this weeks brand new podcast episode we speak on all things self love and self care. We talk about our own self care rituals, the importance of loving yourself as well as realising that it's not all just about moisturising! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices...

Episode 69: Toxic Families and Overcoming Trauma 31.08.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this week's brand- new episode we continue the conversation from the previous episode, but this time we talk about how to overcome the trauma left by toxic families. We talk about therapy, survival growing up and trying to catch up with exploring our identity. We also delve into coping mechanisms we have...

Episode 68: Toxic Families and Their Impact 15.08.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this weeks brand new episode we delve into some of our childhood trauma. We talk about everything from physical abuse from both parents and siblings as well as the lengths of manipulation a family can put you through. We speak very openly about how the brain can lock away trauma until you are ready to de...

Episode 67: Beauty Standards 25.07.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this weeks episode we discuss what beauty means to us, talk about beauty standards within society and pop off at a few things that annoy us! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 66: Feeling Culty! 11.07.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this weeks episode we catch you up on some exciting things we’ve been doing, Amir introduces you all to his cult obsession and we try to figure out why people may join cults! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 65: When we were single! 27.06.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we talk about when we were single, some of our worst dates and relationships and some of the funny and strange Grindr hook ups we’ve had. Iconic, hilarious, near death hook ups involving married men, rich men and policemen! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad ch...

Episode 64: Corporate Pride 13.06.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we speak about Pride Month and corporations taking advantage of the queer community and trying to exploit them for their trauma. We also speak on the importance of paying the queer community and remind ourselves what pride is about. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about y...

Episode 61: Newlyweds Quiz with Fay! 25.04.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In celebration of our second wedding anniversary we decided to take Fay’s advice and do a Newlyweds Quiz! Have a listen and see how well we know each other. Did we survive or did we chew each other’s heads off?   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices...

Episode 59: A Year in Lockdown 21.03.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we reflect on a year in lockdown. We look back at WhatsApp messages from March 2020 when it all began, discuss how we’ve coped with the lockdown and we give ourselves advice on how to live when the world goes back to normal.   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad...

Episode 57: Representation Matters 21.02.2021

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we speak on the lack of South Asian representation in the mainstream. We question as to why our community is so behind, the importance of representation and how not only our allies but how our own community can support one another.   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about...

Episode 53: FOR THE GAYS! 06.12.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we reflect on all the pop girlies saving us from an awful year with their incredible music. Now get us on the dance floor so we can redo 2020 with all of these BOPS!   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 52: Unpacking with Nina Wadia! 29.11.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we had the honour of interviewing the legendary Nina Wadia. She talked to us about her upbringing and how she got into acting. Nina also spoke to us about ‘Goodness Gracious Me’ and ‘Eastenders’ as well as the incredible charity work she has committed to.   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YD...

Episode 51: Are We Presidential? 15.11.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode you get the privilege of finding out who is the most presidential of the two of us. Who has skeletons in their closet? Which of us would have sex while the Pope is in the room next door? Who is the bigger drama Queen? Listen to find out the answers to these burning questions!   Instagram- @youdontlo...

Episode 50: Educating the Nation! 08.11.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In the first half of this weeks episode, we talk about our own experience of school and Aamir discusses his views on the changes in education and what needs to happen in the nation for education to improve! In the second half of the episode, we are privileged to be joined by the Queen of @thehistorycorridor herself...

Episode 49: Halloween Spooktacular! 31.10.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this Halloween special we talk about the darkness within us all, the obsession people have with serial killers and we are rudely interrupted by Lady Bushra giving us some Halloween jokes!   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 48: All Things Drag! 25.10.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we talk about the first time we watched Drag Race, racism within the Drag Race fandom and how it is cool to hate Ru Paul.   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 46: We Need to Talk with Seeva! 06.09.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we talk to the incredible Seeva! He speaks about his debut album ‘We Need To Talk’, how he got into music and his inspirations behind who he is today. You can find Seeva on Instagram and twitter @Seevamusic and his debut album ‘We Need To Talk’ on all streaming platforms!   Instagram- @youdontloveme...

Episode 45: Moving To Manchester 23.08.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we talk about Canada’s Drag Race, our move from Bradford to Manchester and Lady Bushra makes a special guest appearance.   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 44: An Evening With Lady Bushra 19.07.2020

You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. In this episode we are stormed by Amir’s alter-ego ‘Lady Bushra’ who serves us comedy in the fashion of a Bradford bad girl! You will not want to miss out on what Bushra has to say and watch out because...she’s outside!   Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMBoys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podca...

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