You are So Gonna regret this!

There is profound value in failure. Many times we look at our failure as an indictment on us or a gauge for our capabilities, or self worth but this is not the way. We must look at our failure as an opportunity to fix our mistakes. We are not the sum total of one mistake, but the sum total of our experience and if we learn all the time we will increase that sum total all the time. We also fail whe...

We must all, regardless of whether we possess criminal intent, operate inside the boundaries of a moral code. This code governs every aspect of our lives. It does so even without us knowing that we have a code. We are determined to deny the existence of such. Particularly when we attempt to justify the lives of inconsistency we lead. How often we break our own moral codes determines how healthy we...

When you need to make critical decisions, do you procrastinate? What about when you you have to make decisions under pressure? This is a skill we should all have. being calm under pressure while leading is something sorely lacking in our society. Leadership in business and government is so hard to find and I would venture to say that it is largely absent. Yet there are practical ways you can deplo...

The world is designed to make you bow to the will of those who are more powerful. It is not a sinical view of the world but a fact. How do you determine your freedom? I have done this through reinventing myself. I do this every few years so that I may control my happiness and define my sense of service and morality.

Ah yes the time honoured tradition of taking the piss, talking kak, skietting kaa'te, gwara! We find that it happens everywhere and is part of that process of defining the social hierachy. We realise that it is necessary to experience this because it teaches such important social lessons. At the end of the day you are robbing yourself by not engaging in this beautiful life experience.

We waste so much time when we are young. We under-invest in our parents. We willfully sabotage relationships with our fathers. Rev speaks about his journey of discovery after his dad passed on. He talks about the road of self discovery and why he decided to test himself.

There are things that we are expected to learn, to know. Our parents teach many of these skills to us in the hopes that we will use them to become well rounded members of society. However the basket of skills differ from house hold to house hold as much as they are the same. We talk about the need to remain consistent in handing down these skills and why they are so very important.

Do you believe that service is a dying concept? Are we less inclined to do something nogt asked of us but expected of us from ourselves? Have be come less selfless and can we go back to a time when we honored our commitment to the oath we made to ourselves?

We make some really dumb statements about pornography and we shape the way the younger generations interact with porn. The arguments of unsafe working conditions, STI, and acceptable social behaviour all stops these conversations from happening in regularized forums. Rev and I talk about pornography and our relationship with it.