YASKING with Anthony and Arturo

Ready to transform your relationship with 'enough,' buttercups? In this enlightening episode, Anthony and Arturo explore the scarcity mindset and how it uniquely impacts our queer community. Through personal stories and practical wisdom, we dive into: How scarcity thinking develops, especially in queer spaces The impact of social media on our 'not enough' narratives Converting...

Ready to transform how you handle comparison, buttercups? In this eye-opening episode, Anthony and Arturo explore the dual nature of comparison and how to turn it from your biggest trigger into your greatest teacher. Through candid personal stories (including Anthony's early body image struggles and Arturo's experiences with social media), we unpack: Why comparison isn't inherently...

Ready to stop playing small, buttercups? In this game-changing episode, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the mindset shift that could transform everything: the difference between playing to win and playing not to lose. Through powerful personal stories (including Arturo's immigrant family perspective and Anthony's journey beyond fear), we explore: Why we choose safety over possibility H...

Ready to stop second-guessing yourself, buttercups? In this soul-stirring episode, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the transformative power of radical self-trust. From seeking outfit approval to making life-changing moves across the country, we explore why trusting your gut might be the superpower you've been ignoring. Through personal stories (including Arturo's intuitive leap to NYC...

Ready to release what's no longer serving you, buttercups? In this raw and real episode, Arturo and Anthony dive deep into the transformative power of letting go - and no, we're not talking about that Frozen song! From clinging to expired relationships to releasing outdated versions of ourselves, we explore why letting go might be the most powerful skill you never knew you needed. Throug...

Feeling jealous? You're not alone, buttercups! In this raw and real episode, Arturo and Anthony dive deep into transforming jealousy from your enemy to your teacher. From past relationship drama to professional envy, we're getting honest about how jealousy shows up in our lives and what it's really trying to tell us. Discover how to: Transform ALL CAPS jealousy into manageable lower...

Ready to face your fears head-on, YASKers? In this powerful episode, Arturo and Anthony dive deep into the heart-pounding world of fear and how to transform it into personal power. From workplace bullying to relationship anxieties, we're getting real about what scares us and why. Discover how to: Distinguish between real threats and self-created monsters Transform fear into a tool for growth...

Get ready to flip the script on selfishness, YASKers! In this eye-opening episode, Arturo and Anthony dive deep into the transformative power of putting yourself first. From battling people-pleasing tendencies to setting boundaries with loved ones, we're serving up some real talk on why self-care isn't just a buzzword—it's essential for your well-being. Discover how to: Differentiat...

Get ready to have your consciousness expanded, YASKers! In this raw and real episode, Arturo and Anthony dive deep into what it means to "wake up" in today's world. From battling unemployment blues to embracing the power of manifestation, we're serving up some serious truth tea. We explore the pitfalls of societal expectations, the importance of feeling your feelings (ugly crie...

In this powerful episode of YASking, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the universal experience of trauma and the journey of healing. They explore how childhood experiences shape our adult behaviors, the importance of acknowledging past pain, and practical strategies for overcoming trauma. Key points discussed: The universality of trauma and its impact on our lives How unresolved trauma can be pas...

Feeling like a fraud? You're not alone! In this episode, Anthony and Arturo tackle the beast of impostor syndrome head-on. From unemployed woes to queer identity struggles, they spill the tea on feeling fake and how to flip the script. Learn how to celebrate small wins, reframe negative thoughts, and embrace your inner badass. Whether you're a short king or a tall drink of water, it&apos...

In this empowering episode of YASKing, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the crucial topic of confidence. They explore what true confidence means, distinguishing it from arrogance, and share personal journeys of overcoming self-doubt. Key highlights include: The difference between confidence and arrogance The importance of a growth mindset in building genuine confidence Practical strategies for bo...

Join Anthony and Arturo in this insightful episode of YASKing as they tackle the often-overlooked topic of aging in the LGBTQ+ community. Drawing from personal experiences and recent scientific studies, they explore the physical, emotional, and social aspects of growing older as queer individuals. Key topics include: The impact of stress and lifestyle choices on aging, referencing a Stanford study...

In this spontaneous episode of YASKing, Anthony and Arturo dive into the art of planning - not just for daily tasks, but for crafting an incredible life. With their signature blend of personal anecdotes and practical wisdom, they explore: How to be the CEO of your own life and stay in the driver's seat The difference between what we want and what we need in our personal growth journey Practic...

In this eye-opening episode of YASKing, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the complex world of consent, particularly within LGBTQ+ relationships. They explore why setting and maintaining boundaries can be surprisingly challenging, even when we think we know better. Key topics include: The nuances of consent in queer dating and hookup culture How substances and power dynamics can blur the lines of...

Join Anthony and Arturo as they explore the life-changing impact of travel in this enlightening episode of YASKing. Fresh from his latest trip to Amsterdam, Arturo shares how the city has become his spiritual second home, while both hosts dive deep into the ways travel can reshape our perspectives and enrich our lives. In this episode, you'll discover: How stepping out of your comfort zone ca...

Join Anthony and Arturo for a candid and enlightening discussion about sex and sexuality in the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, our hosts dive deep into the complexities of queer intimacy, sharing personal experiences and insights on: The evolution of sexual preferences and practices over time Overcoming shame and stigma associated with gay sex The impact of porn and societal expectations on ou...

Join Anthony and Arturo as they dive deep into the complex world of body image within the LGBTQ+ community. In this candid and thought-provoking episode, our hosts share their personal journeys and insights on: The evolution of their relationships with their bodies Dealing with societal pressures and beauty standards The impact of aging on body image in the gay community Overcoming insecurities an...

Join Arturo and Anthony as they dive deep into the vital topic of mental health, with a focus on the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. In this candid and compassionate episode of YASKing, our hosts explore: The basics of mental health and its impact on every aspect of our lives Personal experiences with anxiety, childhood trauma, and the journey to self-awareness Practical tips for...

Join Anthony and Arturo as they explore the changing landscape of gay dating in this insightful episode of YASKing. From the era of gay bars to the age of dating apps, our hosts dive into their personal experiences and observations on how queer connections have transformed over time. Key topics include: The shift from physical spaces to digital platforms in gay dating Pros and cons of dating apps,...

Join Anthony and Arturo in this candid exploration of open relationships. As two gay men with different perspectives – Anthony in a long-term open relationship and Arturo preferring monogamy – they offer unique insights into this often misunderstood topic. In this episode, our hosts dive into: The definition and key aspects of open relationships Common misconceptions and societal attitudes Persona...

Join Anthony and Arturo in this empowering episode of YASKing as they delve into the transformative power of authenticity within the LGBTQ+ community. Our hosts share their personal journeys of self-discovery and acceptance, offering intimate insights into what it truly means to live authentically as queer individuals. In this heartfelt discussion, Anthony and Arturo explore: The challenges and re...

In this heartfelt episode of YASKING, Anthony and Arturo dive deep into the powerful concept of chosen family. They explore the profound impact of surrounding yourself with a soul tribe that truly sees, accepts, and supports you on your life journey. Our hosts unpack the meaning of chosen family and its particular significance within the LGBTQ+ community. They share personal experiences and insigh...