Words for the Journey

After we begin to heal and realize we don’t want to be a victim anymore, we need to learn new ways of doing things. How can we live healthy and successful lives? God gives us four helpful steps to do this in Psalm 37: Trust, commit, rest, and wait.

Trying to live the life we were created for, while painful wounds are living in us, doesn't work. That's why God brought Joseph's family back into his life, so he could be fully restored and ready to lead Egypt in strength and wisdom. Joseph is an example for all of us. (HJ#4 & #19)

Does a day go by when we don’t find ourselves saying, “But I don’t have time for that?” Find out why that is a lie. Managing our time wisely is a challenge, but we can succeed if we have an honest and truthful perspective about this gift God has given us.

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God often has a perspective that is different than ours, something we can solve by receiving truth and getting healing. Unhealed wounds and false beliefs can blind us, making it easy to head in destructive directions. Find out how you can abandon the Dirt Perspective and adopt the Peak Perspective

Our needs are God-given, but if we try to meet them in our own prideful way, we will suffer for sure. Psalm 107 gives us three powerful metaphors illustrating victim lifestyles on Pride Pathway, metaphors that will help us identify victim choices that hurt our life.

Our perspective has a great deal to do with our success or failure. Nehemiah relied on the Peak Perspective, God’s way of viewing matters, and so was part of a great accomplishment. We, too, can be part of God’s plan, if we will look at him, not our circumstances.

Grieving is one of the most important parts of the healing process, but also the part most often misunderstood and skipped. Grief is sneaky, sometimes showing up in unusual ways. Learn how to recognize and value your grief, what to avoid, and what to do when it shows up.

After we begin shedding the victim identity, we need something to put in its place. Micah 6:8 provides a great starting place, three standards that will guide us in any situation. Justice, mercy, and humility are not hard to understand, but very challenging to follow.

God turned Cyndy’s life upside down when she was 35 and led her into a nine-year healing journey. Her story is a hard one to hear, but God had the final word, restoring her life. He brought the victory that allowed her to begin and lead this ministry, one that has touched thousands of lives.

Since 2010, Cyndy has been speaking messages of hope and healing to incarcerated women around the nation. Today she shares the story of her first time to go into a maximum-security prison.

Changing a false identity or victim behavior begins by seeing God for who he truly is and seeing the inestimable value of ourselves. God gives us a real-life example of this miracle in the story a Hagar.  No one valued her until the day she met God while running away from her life.

No one wants to contend with Satan, but we don’t get a choice about that. We only get a choice about standing up to his lies, living in the truth, using our God-given weapons, and get healing for our wounds. Find out how you can gain victory in your life.

The road to self-acceptance requires some effort, as well as an understanding of the truth, but it is worth it. Self-acceptance makes it possible to live in peace with ourselves and experience the best life possible, the life we were created to live.

There are two types of members in the “Victim Club,” the passive victim and the aggressive victim. Find out which type you are, and how you can resign from the club by examining your false beliefs about yourself and about God. This is one club you don’t want to belong to.

Too often we have allowed our self-worth to be defined by the bad things that have happened to us, along with the poor choices we've made. And as such, have come up lacking value. Find out how you can shed the lies and begin enjoying the person God made you to be.

Everyone puts their trust in someone or something, but if it is not God, we will not experience the help and blessing of his power working on our behalf. False idols come in a thousand different forms, but one thing they all have in common, they steal us away from God’s best.

It is hard to watch someone we care about go through hard times. Trying to figure out what to say, and how to say it can be tricky. How can we be there in a helpful and positive way? Cyndy has a lot to say on what to do and not to do, pulling from her own experience with loss and grief.

It is hard to know how to manage life when we we’re suffering, as when a loved one dies, or our spouse leaves us. What do we do? How do we get through the day? Cyndy will walk you through a typical day with sadness, offering ideas and suggestions to get through it in a healthy and helpful way.

It is easy to fling around the term “healing,” but what exactly do we mean? Our podcast today will bring clarity while we learn to dissect our wounds. Find out the four places affected by our wounds and the corresponding remedies so you can find complete healing.

It’s no fun when our mind continually replays tormenting thoughts. However, we can take control. In this podcast we will discover how to get the bad stuff out of our head and replace it with healthy thinking. With God’s weapons, we can fight and win these mental battles.

Debt and money problems don’t have to be a cause for suffering in our life. God provides plenty of help in this area. Working Cyndy’s 5 best tips into your life is guaranteed to set you free from this bondage, freeing up you and your resources.

In order to pass from our old life of bondage and enter into our new life in the Promised Land, it is necessary we travel through the wilderness. We will learn how to avoid some of the mistakes the Israelites made, mistakes that made this season harder and longer.

Cyndy lost her step-daughter, Bryan’s daughter, to suicide when she was only 19 years old. While her loss has forever changed their lives, God has brought healing in the midst of the pain. Today they have peace. She shares Breanna’s story to bring hope and encouragement to others who have experienced this complicated and devastating loss.

A short message from Cyndy for the time between Christmas and the new year.