Why Are We Like This?

One Holiday down, two to go... the Season continues to ramp up and Robert and Nomi discuss what Thanksgiving and Christmas time has meant to them, how the Holidays can be difficult for many people, and what can be done to help mediate the unrealistic expectations and oft-disregarded boundaries during this time of year. Robert also mentions the amazing book that has been changing his life one day,...

Nomi & Robert chat about how perfectly picturesque Halloween was this year, the traditions (new and old) that got them in the mood this year. Then we take a deep dive into the Psycho film series; why we love it, why it's simultaneously so terrifying and beautiful, and why we think it continues to stand the test of time so many decades later. Download this and future episodes of our podcas...

Robert & Nomi talk about their recent decision to adjust their diet from Vegetarian to Omnivorous after 4 years! Maybe this doesn't sound very interesting on the surface, but there's more to it than you think! Though this decision was not made lightly. Take a listen to find out more about why the change, what potential moral and humane implications we struggled with in making these c...

In Episode 26 Nomi Moore's got a lot to say about the state of the Beauty industry, specifically elective cosmetic procedures; especially on the heels of Linda Evangelista's unfortunate cold-sculpting gone wrong. How much pressure does society  really  place on us? Are magazines and social media expected to take responsibility for our own perception and reality? And at what point do we s...

It's Episode 25, and guess who Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher are talking about once again? With the latest news that Erika Jayne's contract has been renewed with Bravo's "The Real Housewives of Brentwood-Adjacent, High-Income Los Angeles Suburbs" we're still struggling with the fact that people like this are being rewarded for their bad behavior, or at the very least p...

In Episode 24, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher discuss the finer nuances of the titular film franchise, specifically the original from 1992, and its 2021 follow-up.   It's one thing to watch these films thinking "here's a scary movie, so it better scare me". However, when stories like these speak so eloquently to social injustices, systemic racism, and true human horror in such a...

Welcome Back to Season Two! In Episode 23, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher are back to talk about those debaucherous Bravo Housewives and their latest shananegans.   With ladies like Jen Shah and Erika Jayne, at what point are reality TV stars going to be held accountable for their actions? When do we stop rewarding people for their bad behavior for the sake of "entertainment"? And who is h...

The 4th is July is behind us, which means it is officially Halloween Season! For our 22nd episode, we finish up our chat with our lovely friend: actress, business owner, and paranormal investigator  Kalinda Gray !  We chat about spooks, ouija boards, and overnight stays at the Queen Mary in Long Beach. Robert and Nomi also share a couple of their ghost stories, and we try to figure out how to send...

Temperature is risin'... barometer's gettin' low... which means Summer is here! On Episode 21, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher chat about Summer Vacation! Why we loved it, why we miss it, and what can we do to bring it back. Even if not for real-real; just for play-play. Ya'll, it's hot outside. Please stay cool and hydrated. Download this and future episodes of our podcast o...

In honor of our 20th Episode ( and our 1000th download! ) Nomi Moore is doing a Tarot reading for our friend: actress, business owner, and paranormal investigator  Kalinda Gray !  Apparently, there's something going on that's blocking her way, and Nomi is here to provide a little insight into the situation. Stay tuned in the coming weeks for more from our friend  Kalinda , when we talk m...

In Episode Nineteen we have a lovely conversation with our friend and Queer Artist  Brandon Griewank  of  Fresh By Brandon .  We chat about his struggle in operating a small business in this capitalist world, his beyond-incredible floral sculpture, and the inspiration behind his latest endeavor; creating gorgeous custom swimwear for ALL people no matter their shape, size, or gender with  FRESH! In...

Episode Eighteen is a spirited conversation with one of Robert's gal-pal from college, a Professional Fine Illustrator and Painter, Artist  Cosette Grider ! After a 15 year career in the fashion industry, Cosette decided to take the terrifying plunge to change her career path and cultivate a life for herself as a commissioned artist. She tells us what triggered such a sharp shift as we chat a...

Robert Fisher (our editor) is overloaded with work this week, and so instead of a full-length episode, we hope our faithful listeners enjoy this mini-episode! Get a peek behind the curtain of Nomi Moore's beautiful (and sometimes way-off-topic) mind as she and Robert discuss ideas for future episodes. Of course, this mini-episode was recorded during an actual episode that had nothing to do wi...

In Episode 16, Nomi is anything but sweet when the World hands her a wake-up call that has her saying "L'eggo my EGO". A harrowing encounter reminds Nomi that sometimes we have to get out of our own way in order to act in our best interests, and to avoid "breaking our own rules". Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and...

For episode fifteen, we have the pleasure of speaking with one of Robert's oldest friends, Film and TV Audio Editor  Jessica Jansen . A twenty-year veteran of her field, Jessica dispels some of the myths around her industry and sheds some light on the underhanded "boys club" that dominates her workplace. We also grill her with some rapid-fire questions, reminisce on the good old day...

Episode 14 has Nomi's with some tough, deep-thinking questions for Robert this time around. Listen as he tries to make sense of this life we've all been born into without being asked. In general, Robert really has no idea what he's doing and is trying to make the best of it! If you've got more questions for Robert and want to ask him yourself on a future episode, drop us a line...

For Episode 13 we thought it would be fun to answer some of your Listener Questions that you've been sending in! And you're all some nosy bitches. We're so happy that you've all been enjoying the podcast so far! Your kind words, reviews, and support have really meant a lot to both of us as we go through this weird new media adventure together! If you have any questions for us f...

Episode 12 is a doozy! Triggered by Fox News' Tucker Carlson's latest bull-shittery, Nomi has a lot to say about "Triggers", the use of the word, how its intention is diluted, and how Media (News or otherwise) has a standard and ethical responsibility to uphold that transcends political party preference. We'd love to hear your thoughts on this week's episode! Are you...

In this short and sweet Episode 11, Robert asks Nomi some hard-hitting questions. Not really, but they are great questions to ask on a first date when you're just starting to get to know someone! We're taking a bit of a mini-stay-cation for ourselves but wanted to make sure we still had an episode for our loyal listeners this week! Thanks again to all of you! If you've got more ques...

In Episode Ten, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher turn to the dark side and discuss their love of Horror Films! What makes them so compelling? Why do we like to be scared? And how is Nomi now responsible for Robert's nightmares? Nomi closes with a wonderful nugget of knowledge to ponder till our next episode. Drop us a line and let us know " What's YOUR favorite Scary Movie? ", and...

In Episode Nine, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher talk about one of their favorite shows,  RuPaul's Drag Race.  What has the show done to Drag Culture? How has Social Media affected the game over the years? And leading into the Season Finale this week we chat a bit about Season 13 and why it's been a breath of fresh air! Nomi also tells a joke that is just... awful.  Maybe  there's a pr...

In Episode Eight, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher talk about Politics. Yikes! I know. Why do people get so frustrated with these kinds of discussions? Why does your racist Grandmother ban it from the Thanksgiving Dinner table? More importantly, what you can do to help alleviate some of the anxiety around the issues and have real conversations with people who may not agree with your ideology? What can...

In Episode Seven, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher talk about the Joy of Driving; why it's one of Nomi's favorite things (and sometimes his least favorite thing) and Robert gets defensive over his non-defensive driving style. Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else find your favorite shows. You can search  MR & MRS  and...

In Episode Six, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher talk about some of Nomi's favorite shows on Bravo TV.   It's sucked Nomi back into its neverending wormhole of drama, debauchery, and decadence after a three-year hiatus! Did Nomi feel like she was missing out? Are there things she would change? Do Bravo TV, Andy Cohen, and "Reality" television have a responsibility to do better for...

"Life is pain. Anyone who tells you differently is selling something." -  William Goldman In Episode Five, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher chat about Death & Pain. We know... it sounds like a bummer episode. But hopefully talking about these things can help us and our listeners better process why it seems like so many of us are suffering, and what we can do to better support and uplift...