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Who Even Are We?

Kids EN ↓ 971 episodes

After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?

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Podshape

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Kids

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Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

I'm ticking off the Mum jobs 24.07.2025

Katie has realised that she's done hardly any parent teacher interviews because she keeps missing the deadline! Rach is the same, so they start ticking off the one off's they've taken part in over the school years! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Get out of this town! 23.07.2025

Rach's kids have been caught up with the hype of a new bakery in town which Rach has an irrational hate for! But was she able to say 'I told you so'??? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The lunchbox of doom 21.07.2025

Katie knew full well her girls had left their lunchboxes in their school bags for the whole 3 weeks of holidays! Instead of being a good Mum and reminding them, she chose to let them discover for themselves!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am Sunday vibing right now! 16.07.2025

Rach is being hassled by her kids to go to the Brisbane show (Ekka) so instead she decided they would do a smaller version. The prices were still INSANE! Also KPOP has entered the Thaiday household and it is NOT ok! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dad's cooked dinner? Whoop-de-doo! 14.07.2025

Katie's absolute favourite thing to do is spend time making food for the family only to watch it nibbled on and then tipped into the bin! NOT! Rach has a few suggestions, and they decide the best approach is to lower to their level! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm not paying for the right sized shoe!!! 03.07.2025

Welcome to a fun Friday round up before we take a week's break being Mum's on school holidays! Katie has a solution to the expensive trends the kids are wanting after seeing stuff on Tik Tok and Rach has taken bargain hunting to the next level when she refuses to buy the correct size shoes! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am UNFOLLOWING anyone in Europe 01.07.2025

Katie needs a holiday and is feeling the Mum guilt of not doing much with the kids in school holidays; meantime, Rach reveals her wild past! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I don't want to adopt chickens!!! 26.06.2025

Rach's friend kindly offers to babysit for her, but things take a turn when an innocent idea becomes pretty crazy and not at all what she wants to do! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is going to be a stressful roadtrip! 25.06.2025

Katie's come up with a solution to get her kids' driving hours up, but Rach isn't sure it's a great idea for her nervous system! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's the principle!!! 22.06.2025

Katie realises that whilst teaching her kids about money she's become super tight and finds herself arguing for too long over just $1...... It's the principle!!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are drunk Mum's! 19.06.2025

Katie tells a story from the races that Rach barely remembers but reminds them both of a bad parenting moment! And the attempt to make it better actually made it worse!!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Remember when we used to use a phone for a phone?! 15.06.2025

In this episode, Katie & Rach talk about technology and how their kids are all about voice notes and not actually using the phone part of the phone! It got them onto the hilarious stuff we used to do! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's chaos because of ME for a change! 12.06.2025

Rach has realised the house stops when she doesn't get up to get it all going...literally! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's Mum's gone wild at the races! 11.06.2025

Katie & Rach are heading to The Star Stradbroke Day on Saturday so they relive their previous bad Mum race day experiences ahead of the day!  We would love to see you on the day, DM us @amiabadmum on Instagram if you're heading to the track as we'd love to say hi! For 2-4-1 tickets, use the code PODSHAPE241 at brc.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good luck, she's exactly like you 08.06.2025

Rach has realised her 10-year-old has the exact same sense of humour as her, and it's come to bite her on the arse! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am a crazy cat lady 05.06.2025

Katie swore she would never say this out loud for fear of judgment! She made a decision that is CRAZY and Rach definitely did judge!!!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My weekends are NON EXISTANT! 03.06.2025

Rach has realised her weekends are not weekends anymore; she is an Uber driver for pretty much all of it! And why do the kids decide they're the days when they'll carry on the bad behaviour into the evening too?! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

That's it, I'm leaving! 02.06.2025

Katie had a tough decision to make to remove herself from a situation so as not to say something she'd regret! It was extreme, questionable, and, without context, pretty shocking! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I thought I would NEVER say this! 29.05.2025

Rach is counting down to school holidays, which is an unusual feeling for a Mum, but what she's facing for these school holidays is a game changer! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Can we get AI to parent our kids?! 25.05.2025

Rach has been using AI for parenting advice, and it's both interesting and amusing! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lets tighten up this ship! 22.05.2025

As Katie's girls get older, it's a tough one to balance treating them a bit older along with responsibility one minute and reminding them they're still kids the next. What she's decided to do is just get a bit stricter! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am ASLEEP 20.05.2025

Rach asks the question, "Am I a bad Mum for pretending to be asleep?" We have plenty of moments as Mums of being woken up by little people, but Rach's quota is DONE! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Erm Gen Z's aint got nothing on Millennial's! 19.05.2025

Katie gets shamed for being a millennial, but she had a great comeback when she was hit with a 'Gen Z term' her teenagers thought she'd know nothing about! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This could go REALLY badly! 15.05.2025

Rach took her girls to see a concert but after being told she was a bad parent, she lost it! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You owe me MILLIONS $$$ 13.05.2025

Katie has been issued a list of what she owes her 16-year-old and asked when she'll transfer it. So obviously what she did was to work out what's owed the other way around! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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