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Who Even Are We?

Kids EN ↓ 1003 episodes

After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?

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Author

Podshape

Category

Kids

Podcast website

www.instagram.com

Latest episode

Oct 27, 2026

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Episodes

We like dining alone! 05.05.2026

Why is it that as we get older we don't enjoy going as much or being in large groups? Once upon a time we loved to socialise and now we like to be at home! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Revisiting your 20 year old self 03.05.2026

In this episode we talk about our 20-year-old selves and how, although we wish we looked like we did back then, it's taken a long time to realise our self-worth. Katie admits she feels sad for her 20-year-old self and reveals something she never thought she would share. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It cost HOW MUCH?? 28.04.2026

Katie decided to take her kids on a day out in the city to ride Lime scooters, but it didn't quite go to plan! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We worry about EVERYTHING 26.04.2026

In this episode we chat about the things we worry about - which, as females and Mum's feels like EVERYTHING! There are techniques we use that we want to share to help our fellow worryers!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Getting rid of the Cortisol belly! 21.04.2026

In this episode Katie has researched Cortisol and has some interesting information to share around fasting and how we should be eating as women in our 40's. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting teenagers and the effect it has on our self esteem 19.04.2026

In this episode we chat about the work we need to do on our own self esteem to equip us with parenting teenagers because it's a wild ride that can do terrible things for our confidence! From being a team to feeling like the odd one out in the household and always the bad guy struggling to get through, we get really honest. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Pushing my health ideas on to people that don't care! 14.04.2026

In this episode we discuss 3 different acts of kindness and how Katie made hers more about herself! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Carrying the Mental Load 12.04.2026

As Mum's we tend to carry the mental load but is it because our brains are wired differently?? And why do we feel guilt over asking for help? In this episode we chat what we do v what we should be doing! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is Chat GPT going to replace our doctors? 07.04.2026

In this episode we chat about the jobs that could soon be taken by AI. Katie has 2 examples of using AI instead of going to the GP but Rach is NOT convinced! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Inside the Manosphere Controversy 31.03.2026

We've both watched the show and have our own takes on the controversial Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere show on Netflix! Why we think the men are nothing but salesmen and our concern for the girls. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Turning Grief into Connection with Psychic Medium Barbra Banner 29.03.2026

In this episode we are Joined from Los Angeles by Evidential / psychic / trance medium Barbra Banner to chat about connecting with spirits, the messages that come through and how to trust the signs. You can connect with Barbra at www.bannermedium.com   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Supplements, what should we take? 24.03.2026

Rach spends a lot of time researching what we do and don't need, and Katie wastes a lot of money on what she sees on Instagram that she thinks she needs. So what should we be taking that won't break the bank?? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Losing your identity 22.03.2026

In this episode we chat about jobs and Rach changing her career in her 40's. Also when you lose your job, who are you left with? We unpack identity loss, Katie’s “fallen star” moment after radio, and the harsh reality of fair-weather friends when the spotlight fades. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Broke & ashamed 17.03.2026

We’ve all had moments we don’t talk about, and in this episode Katie opens up about a time when she didn't even have the money to buy her kids school uniforms. The shame she carried and the showing up like everything was ok. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Money blocks and the anxiety we have 15.03.2026

In this episode we chat money, money, money! From comparison with others, our money blocks, anxiety, and the shame around it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jackie O: Our thoughts 10.03.2026

In this episode we address the story that's dominating Australian headlines - what's going on with Kyle & Jackie O??? After working in radio for 17 years Katie has some thoughts on what's actually going on.... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Fitness in your 40's 08.03.2026

We're a bit sick of the conflicting messages around what exactly we should be doing in terms of exercise. Cardio or no cardio? Do we have to run or can we just walk? As a personal trainer Rach has some suggestions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Make someone's day 03.03.2026

Rach has come up with an idea that she thinks will make someone's day. Pick a different person every day and lets start filling buckets! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Adoption & the abandonment trauma that goes with it 01.03.2026

In this episode Katie opens up about being adopted as a new born and all the heavy stuff that goes with it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The things we thought we'd never say 24.02.2026

When do we get to the stage where we start saying stuff that sounds like it's coming out of our parents mouths??! From 'money doesn't grow on trees' to 'it's too loud' we're there and we're owning it! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time to fill your bucket up - lets get selfish! 22.02.2026

Are we in a midlife crisis or a midlife awakening?? In this episode we are talking about how we do so much for other people, whether it be the kids, husbands, household or pets. Now we are giving you the permission and the tips on doing something for yourself. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rach's moment of shame 17.02.2026

In this bonus episode Rach tells us about something she's done that she finds disgusting and shares her moment of shame! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What's with the Low Libido? 15.02.2026

This week we’re chatting low libido and why it's a thing! We talk about what we tolerated “back in the day,” the pressure to perform, and why men can switch it on just like that, but if you dare to pack the dishwasher in the wrong way we're turned off for at least a week!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Burner phones ONLY in our house 10.02.2026

Rach is holding off on letting her girls have a phone and is standing strong with it despite Katie thinking it's not long until she will have to give in. When do we give in to the social pressure? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Alcohol: The Unhealthy Relationship we don't Talk About 08.02.2026

There's so much shame around alcohol particularly in women our age who are using it to relax, as a reward and habit after a busy day. In this episode we are VERY honest about our issues with it and the unhealthy relationship we have. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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