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Alfonso Osnaya & Joaquin Santana An Interview Part 1 We are bizzzack with another episode an very special interview.  With Alfonso and Joaquin two very big pornstars and it was fucking magical.  We talked about a lot of things like whats like to build a bond with a scene partner, deal with a bad bond with a scene partner, predatory production companies, and how to win awards in the industry. I...

Sorry about the late posting but I was sick.  We take our posting schedule seriously but there are times when we have to post late and this was one..my body said no...so I listened and here we are! We are back with another episode of our podcast and this one brings you a great interview with Craig Morrison an up and coming party promoter in SF. For anyone who wants to learn how to become bigger in...

West Walker An Interview Part 2 Sorry about the late post everyone but with Cameron in Asia this week we need a day or so to get this week's episode uploaded! We are back and tonight we are dropping the second half interview with Wes Walker...if you saw the first part then you know how Wes got to be Wes but in the second part we talk about what helped him to become a good party promoter and how he...

Getting into the Mind of a Bartender of a Gay Club A Panel SORRY GUYS ABOUT THE LATE POST, I EXPERIENCE SOME THROAT DIFFICULTIES BUT SHE'S BACK! We are back with another episode of our podcast and this time with a panel on Getting into the Mind of Bartender at a Gay Club!  I sit down with two of my friends and we discuss what it's like being a bartender at a gay club, do you feel like you have to...

West Walker An Interview Part 1 We are back and this time we are bringing you an interview with an up and coming party promoter who has made a name for himself on the scene in so many ways.  This man is seemingly everywhere and I thought it would be really cool to sit down with him and hear his story.  Stay tuned after the news recap to hear or see the interview Visual link:  https://youtu.be/Y5zM...

Getting into the mind of a DJ We are here and this time we are going deep in the mind of a DJ on our next panel...as per usual I sit down with some of my friends and discuss what it's like being a working DJ, asking questions like how do you read a crowd, and what other skills must you learn to be a successful DJ..so stay tuned after the news recap! Visual link:  https://youtu.be/8_G9xsCyObE In th...

Mahlae Balenciaga An Interview Part 2 0215 We are back and we have the second half interview with Mahlae Balenciaga to drop tonight!  It was such a good interview we talk about a lot of things like transitioning in corporate America, transitioning in general, and what it's like to an ova drag diva!  Stay tuned after the news recap to experience it..the link for YouTube is below or continue to list...

We are back with another interview and this one with the amazing Mahlae Balenciaga...this interview was soo good because we covered so many fucking topics it was everything.....stay tuned after the news recap for part 1 babies.... Visual link: https://youtu.be/XCU5ZUR_0mE In the news recap we discuss Israel sending bombs into another fucking country (shocking), the longest serving member of congre...

We are back with another panel and this time it's on Partying While Sober..I think that this panel is really important to get out there because sober stories matter! Haha but really I think there is room for it all in the scene especially those trying to make it work in the party scene while being sober, check it out after the news recap. Visual link: https://youtu.be/n46Sil2R2ts In the news recap...

We are back with another episode of this fabulous podcast and this time we are dropping the second half interview with thee Erik Thomas..if you saw the first one then you know how good it was..man this guy have some fucking amazing stories and the second half has even more..I could have interviewed this guy for like five more hours..so stay tuned after the news recap for this interview..as usual t...

We are back with another episode and this time we are dropping a panel on Being a Gogo in San Francisco where I sit down with 3 of my gogo gods of SF and we talk about what it is like in the scene. It was a really good conversation and it went through a lot of topics..you don't want to miss it..view it on YouTube after the news recap Visual link: https://youtu.be/QUp-CssDrQo In the news recap we d...

We are back and we are dropping our first part interview with the amazing security to the Castro stars Erik Thomas..if you've ever been to the Castro then most likely you've seen this man who has been doing security for it for years..I thought it would be really cool to interview him to hear his story and I was fucking right...his story is fucking amazing and I could barely touch on it in the hour...

We are back everyone and we are dropping our first visual panel! It was so much fun to do and we can't wait to drop it for you stay tuned after the news recap for our first ever visual panel! I sit down with 4 friends and we talk about all the best tips and tricks for things like sucking dick, eating ass, topping and bottoming..check it out after the news recap on YouTube! Visual link: How To: Tip...

And we are back everyone and we hope you enjoyed last week's panel on Growing up Gay in Another Country..we know we enjoyed hearing about Cuba especially and growing up gay in that interesting country.  If you haven't listened yet, go ahead and listen to it.  Tonight we are dropping our second half visual interview with Terrill Grimes...it's even better than the first part ..Stay tuned after the n...

And we are back everyone with another panel this one on Growing Up Gay In Another Country..it was really interesting to sit down and talk with friends about what it was like to grow up in another country especially Cuba and England...stay tuned after the news recap. Visual link: https://youtu.be/_e3gXxtsebc Terrill Grimes Interview Part 1 In the news recap we discuss the UK defining a man and a wo...

Join us for our newest panel on dealing with death.  Every time I think about this panel I reflect on just how cathartic it came out for me and for the other panelists.  We discuss the ways in which we (those who have recently experienced a death) liked to be approached when someone wanted to comfort us, we also talk about things we didn't like.  It really was an interesting conversation that the...

Join us for this our 4th panel episode on body vs dick size and the importance in the gay community.  My friends Eric, Mel, & Major get down and dirty on their body preferences, how they look, and how the gay community reinforces stereotypes.  Stay tuned after the news recap for another very funny and interesting panel. In this news recap we discuss a London man jailed for 'stealthing', how th...

And we are back for another epsidoe and this one is another visual interview with the amazing Terrill Grimes. This first section is hilarious..Terrill is definitely a character and it was very interesting getting to know someone who helped start the drag brunch craze in the Castro! Check it out after the news recap to see the interview with the SF Icon! Visual link: https://youtu.be/_e3gXxtsebc In...

SORRY FOR LATE POSTING ALL...HAD TECHNICAL ISSUES WITH UPLOAD! And we are back with another panel this one on What's it like to travel as a gay in other countries and how it differs from SF..it was a really fun conversation talking with my friends about their experiences traveling in countries like Brazil, Mexico, France, and Columbia. Visual link:https://youtu.be/fKVPtx2P6Qs?si=knMf444j9dy-KKkI I...

And we are back with another panel episode babies! This one on Tools of the Gay Trade...how do we get them and which ones are best!? I sit down with David Disco and Phil and we give you the only guidebook for your tools haha check it out..ever wanted to know where to get the best poppers or lube...stay tuned after the news recap! Visual link:https://youtu.be/fKVPtx2P6Qs?si=knMf444j9dy-KKkI In the...

And we are back with our second half interview with the fucking amazing Natalie Ray..it was an experience! Haha it was definitely fun to get down and real on what's like being a drag queen in SF..It's not easy and it's not always fun especially if you want to make it a career or something that you can bank on. A very real and personal interview. I can't wait for yall to see it..stay tuned after th...

So here we are with our first panel of Season 2. It's on How do we deal with Trump over the next 4 years. If you are like me you are scared, worried, and confused about the future and what the impact of Trump will be. I wanted to look into ways that I/We could maintain our mental stability, figure out ways to fight back, and connect during these scary times. I must say that even preparing for this...

Natalie Ray An Interview Part 1 S0201 SORRY FOR LATE DOWNLOAD BETWEEN ROMAN COMING BACK A DAY LATE FROM VACATION AND TECHNICAL ISSUES WITH UPLOADING TO YOUTUBE WE HAD TO UPLOAD LATE! Here is the link for YouTube visuals: https://youtu.be/cJHj9eJunNM So here we are back with our Season 2 opener with an interview with fucking the Natalie Ray! It was so much fun talking and getting to know Natalie.  ...

Omg guys have you missed us!! It's been like 4 weeks going on 5 and I know we have missed you! We promised a Rewind showing 2 of our favorite panels and here they are! If you didn't get a chance to hear or you just wanna hear them again here are the panels on Gay Dating in SF & Open Relationships! These were two of fav episodes and they both got such positive feedback! Cameron and I will be ba...

So we are here at our season finale! We are going to take 5 weeks off of new content but we will be bringing you a greatest hits show next week when we post our top two panels of the year.  For this season finale though we are happy to drop the second half visual interview with Baby Shaques Munro!  It was such a fun time, and I hope you enjoy the second half as much as the first. In the news recap...