When A Guy Has

Jolene is joined by Henry to talk about their short film "Bros Before," available 01/31/2023 on the Otherness Archive!! Watch here: https://www.othernessarchive.com/ Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/When...

Jolene is joined by Jimmy and Lyn, the editors of the upcoming volume Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest! This was a fun conversation about cruising that builds on the Cruising for Dykes Episode we released a few weeks ago.  Order Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest today! https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/product/make-the-golf-course-a-public-sex-forest Subscribe to the Patreo...

Jolene is joined by Molly! For a conversation that's really long and rambly and weird, but fun! Topics include: lesbianism, pre and post-transition, working service jobs, the funniest way to remake Silence of the Lambs, and more!  Follow Molly on twitter: https://twitter.com/delphicbitch Subscribe to the Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The intro and outro music is by Lynn Jul...

Jolene is joined by Kathy to discuss her essay in the upcoming book, Make The Golf Course A Public Sex Forest (pre-order here: https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/). The topic: Why don't dykes cruise, and how could they? The conversation is a lot of fun, far ranging, and ultimately ambiguous. Tune in!  Unmentioned in the show, but! Kathy is starting an advice newsletter! Coming soon, but se...

Join Jolene and Gabe for a discussion about: phalloplasty, metoidioplasty, a uterus in a jar, fake syphillis, and Pittsburgh's titty sphinx.  See the uterus in a jar here: https://imgur.com/Wze19K Donate to Mira's fund here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-mira-bellwether-survive-stage-4-lung-cancer?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customer And read Fu...

Jolene is joined by Lucien for some deep olde internet lore! Learn about trapchan, its culture, Lucien's journey through it and into other gender-y and trans-y spaces on the internet through to the modern day. Also included: early reddit, meeting your gf through league of legends, and more! Check out Lucien on twitter at: https://twitter.com/TinyAwoo and their website at: https://lucianclark.com/&...

Jolene is joined by the one and only Carta Monir! Tune in to hear about being a woman and a faggot, the Tom of Finland house, the Baha'i faith, going to Michfest As An Ally, gay-straight alliances, and more.  You can check out all of the varied things Carta does here: https://allmylinks.com/XXXcartaXXX  The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ht...

Jolene is joined by Goose to talk about forced masculinization kink! It does what it says on the tin. This is another dive into the wonderful world of fanfiction. Jolene learns about the existence of the "sold to [INSERT BANDNAME HERE]" trope. We talk about how weird it is to force someone to be a man, how we do actually see some versions of this in popular culture, and more.  Check out Goose...

Jolene is joined by Maz (with background support from Sai (the guest on "Out as Horny at Brigham Young)) to discuss all the times they blocked their families' phone numbers. It's a really fun episode if you're interested in small town Mormonism, genderfluidity, transitioning forever, and how to get your conservative family to approach you on your own terms.  The intro and outro music is by Ly...

Jolene is joined by Alice Stoehr to discuss her writing, her transition, forced feminization, transsexual-deception narratives, and more! Check out her writing at: https://astoehr.itch.io/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://when...

Jolene is joined by Max Graves, to discuss his life and transition, his comic What Happens Next, gender nonconformity, tumblrbrain, when your mom gives you a Deleuze book for Christmas, and more.  Follow Max on twitter: https://twitter.com/maximumgraves Read What Happens Next here: https://whathappensnext.webcomic.ws/comics/1/#content-start The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can l...

Jolene chats with Luca (xe/xyr) about SERMs, fags and dykes, failing at gender, the gender dysphoria bible, the button test, and more.  The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)  The R...

Jolene is joined by Taylor, to talk about feminization fantasies that bubble around childhood, TS Roadmap, the way that sex is mythologized when you're a child, getting wild compliments, getting mistaken for a theyfab, and more. 

Happy Halloween!!! Jolene is joined by real-life vampyre Scarlett to talk about real-life vampyres! It's everything you'd expect and more. Don't listen if you're squeamish about blood.  You can find Scarlett online at: https://twitter.com/vampyre_malice.  Follow the show: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Jolene is joined by Charlie Markbreiter to discuss his upcoming book, Gossip Girl Fanfic Novella (pre-order here: https://www.kenningeditions.com/shop/gossip-girl-fanfic-novella/). Topics of conversation include fanfic, gender segregated schooling and it's creation of "the community boyfriend," the University of Chicago, Lauren Berlant, and more. 

Today Jolene is joined by [redacted] to discuss her life and transition back and forth across the US-Mexico border! Lots of fun lots of fun, learn about body temperature regulation and hormones, whether yellow is an effeminate color or not, and more! 

Jolene is joined by Sai for a long meandering conversation about Mormonism, gender in Utah, clowns, horniness, derfing, and more. 

I'm not sure how to describe this episode and do it justice. Audrey (different Audrey than "I almost knocked over my perfume samples") generously shares her life with Jolene. The point of this is an intervention in popular understandings of "socialization," and then a question: what constitutes having done a gender transition? Listen for an exploration of autism, gender expressed through "horizont...

Jolene is joined by her friend Medway to talk about her sex life, and specifically, chasers! What's the deal with chasers? How do you have good sex as a trans woman when you're attracted to men? What IS a chaser? Are they all eggs in waiting? This and more are answered within. 

Our longest episode yet! Jolene is joined by Audrey (@foldyrhands) to talk about her life. Featuring: childhood OCD, Crohn's disease, eating disorders,  Audrey Hepburn in Roman Holiday, transmasc socialization in a tranfem life, aspirational HSTS schtick, and more! 

Jolene talks to Seth! Part 3/4ish of the femboy block, we talk about it from the other "direction of transition." Also featured are Seth's youth in Vietnam, the dyke trenches, and more. 

Jolene, recovering from her vulvaplasty, is joined by Chelsea, recovering from her vaginaplasty. They talk about that experience, and then Chelsea's life some. 

Jolene is joined by Zane to talk about BOTH autogynephilia and autoandrophilia. 

Jolene is joined by Efraim for our first ever part 2! They discuss pretty rock n roll boys, Greer Lankton, Fun Home, and more! 

Jolene is joined by Nina to talk about her experience with psychedelics and research chemicals, and how these informed her transition.