What They Never Told Us

Send a text Its our favorite time of the season... The Sexpisode!! Part 3 takes us through the journey and evolution of the role sex plays in our relationship.  We talk about how our expectations of sex meet, or don't meet, our reality; what it means to commit your sexuality to your spouse; and as always so much more! Follow Us on our Socials Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynev...

Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&A sessions, and the...

Send a text In this week's episode, we delve into a top that was introduced by one of our listeners during a LIVE session.  We explore the different phases of a relationship and discuss whether or not its possible for the honeymoon phase to last forever. Follow Us on our Socials Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv    ...

Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&A sessions, and the...

Send a text From unexpected illnesses, equipment damage, and even one unexpected break in the middle of the episode... we're back! In this week's episode, we find out that we just have a difference of opinion when it comes to our individual philosophies on dating, taking breaks in your relationship, and when to just call it quits!   You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by follo...

Send a text It's time to get personal...! In this episode, we let it all hang out, LITERALLY! We discuss how your body image can affect your relationship.  We dive into our personal experiences with weight management, eating disorders, bariatric surgery and more. You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before...

Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&A sessions, and the...

Send a text This week we're doing something a little different!!! Brandi sits out this episode so Russell, IV can kick-it with the fellas!  They discuss everything from what attributes they find attractive, do they believe in the concept of "the one", how do we as men deal with/process our emotions, and so much more. You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the li...

Send a text In this episode we discuss how submission plays out in our relationship.  We also discuss the key to making submission work in a marriage, dealing with an independent spouse, and overcoming barriers through compromise. You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be off...

Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&A sessions, and the opportunity...

Send a text In this episode, we talk about the single life!! All that it is and, well, all that it ain't.  From dating apps, ghosting, breakups, sex and everything in between. You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&A sessions,...

Send a text We're kicking Season 3 off with some new content! Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB LIVE! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive con...

Send a text And we're back!!!!! Season 3 is there! In this episode, we discuss our decision to get married after divorce, what marriage has been like thus far, and how we are making intentional steps  to not ever get divorced again! You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we...

Send a text We've made it to week 6 and Season 3 is right on the horizon! In this week's weekly check-in we discuss if lying is ever justifiable?  Join us in the discussion and follow us on all of our socials: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www....

Send a text This week's check-in took a drastic turn when Russell discovers what Brandi has been up to when he's not at home!! Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www.ins...

Send a text We're back with another weekly check-in! And this time, we are discussing jealousy (insert dramatic music)!!  In this episode, we explore whether or not jealousy can be helpful in your relationship.  As always, we cannot wait to hear your thoughts!   Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynever...

Send a text Back like we never left with another weekly check-in. Today we discuss "Is it OK to be friends with your ex?" A familiar conversation to the podcast, but this time we want to hear from you! Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavis...

Send a text We're back and session 2 is dedicated to toxic traits!   Let's be honest, we all have toxic traits that try to rear their ugly head in our relationships.  Listen as we discuss our toxic traits and then find us on our socials and share what your toxic trait is.  The goal here is to reveal so we can heal! Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whatthe...

Send a text Welcome to the Weekly Check-In! Y'all know we couldn't stay away for too long, so we're coming back with something we're calling the "Weekly Check-In".  In session 1 we discuss dating multiple people at the same time! Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv  ...

Send a text For the season 2 finale, Russell IV and Brandi recorded a LIVE session on Facebook with "the fam".  Taking questions right on the spot, this "episode" was one of the best yet!! And you know, we had to go deep!!! When one of the fam asks, "what were the biggest challenges you faced in marriage counseling"?  The hosts open up and discuss a topic that's...

Send a text This is it, the final episode of the season!  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss finding their independence inside of their relationship; exploring their personal interest and goals, while maintaining their relationship; and how to maintain balance. Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/rus...

Send a text Your kids + My kids = Our Kids, if only it was that simple!  Blending families, parenting styles, co-parenting and much more are the topic of this week's episode.  Russell IV and Brandi give a peek into their experiences, thus far, blending their two families.  The two discuss their successes, their failures, and how they plan to navigate managing their new family dynamics in the...

Send a text #RelationshipGoals We've seen the hashtag on social media for the last several years but what does that really mean? In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk about being  #relationshipgoals.  You may be surprised to hear that neither one enjoy the term in reference to their relationship!  The host will discuss why they don't wanna  be #relationshipgoals for others; the pre...

Send a text Have you even given your partner an ultimatum? Or maybe you've been the one forced to make a choice... In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss whether or not giving your partner an ultimatum can yield positive results for your relationship.  The hosts also discuss whether or not there is a "right time" to get married; what to do if your partner isn't ready to...

Send a text In this episode, the hosts discuss cheating... and someone has a confession!  Russell IV and Brandi take turns discussing their experiences with cheating, the importance of defining what cheating is with your partner, and whether or not the old saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is true, Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertol...