What The Nanny Heard

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie follow on from last week’s episode about goodbyes, focusing on the often-overlooked beginning: how nannies can confidently negotiate and navigate the early days of a new job. Starting with a new family is rarely straightforward. Every household is different, every child is individual, and transitions can be challenging. Children may struggle with change, boundaries wi...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the moment a nanny realises it’s time to move on and everything that comes with that decision. They explore what Nannies leave behind — emotionally and practically — and whether this transition feels more sad or exciting. The conversation covers leaving gifts (yes or no?), staying in touch after a role ends, birthdays and birthday presents, and the complex mix...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie revisit the hugely important topic of emotional wellbeing, exploring the often unseen emotional labour that Nannies carry every day.  They discuss the importance of knowing and enforcing boundaries, particularly when overtime feels financially tempting but ultimately leads to burnout if rest is neglected.  The conversation looks at what self-care realistical...

This week on What The Nanny Heard , Charlotte, Charlie and Millie dive into the often-blurred lines of the Nanny/employer dynamic, exploring how Nannies can maintain a warm, friendly relationship without losing professional boundaries.  They unpack what can happen when things become too familiar and how that impacts important employment-based conversations, including pay, responsibilities and...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie explore the purpose of trial days for Nannies — whether they’re truly necessary, what they reveal about compatibility, and how long they should realistically last, including when an overnight might be appropriate.  They dig into the tricky subject of payment, from travel expenses to trial-day rates, and how Nannies can raise the topic confidently without feeling...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the realities of caring for multiples—twins, triplets and beyond—and explore what Nannies need to consider before taking on this unique challenge.  They discuss why caring for more than one child at the same developmental stage differs from working with a singleton, touching on the extra logistics, emotional load and constant balancing of competing needs....

This week, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie speak with Chloe from Louenna’s Nannies to uncover what really happens behind the scenes at a nanny agency. With all recruiters coming from childcare backgrounds, Louenna’s Nannies brings a unique understanding to matching nannies with families, and Chloe explains how this experience shapes their onboarding and placement process. Chloe shares practical advi...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the importance of annual reviews and appraisals in every Nanny role. They're not just about asking for something like a pay rise. They provide a valuable opportunity for an open and honest discussion about your current role, what’s going well, and how your position is likely to evolve over the next year. It’s a dedicated moment to reflect on how your responsib...

This week, Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie chat with the wonderful Maria, whose journey from nanny to House Manager is nothing short of inspiring. Arriving in England with zero English, Maria worked her way up with resilience, confidence, and an unshakeable belief in her worth. From au pairing in Italy at 17, to a life-changing move from North London to Kensington, Maria has never shied away from f...

This week, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie explore how parenting styles have evolved over the decades — and where Nannies sit within that shift. The trio dive into the contrast between  traditional  and  modern  approaches to raising children, and how their own Nannying styles fit into today’s landscape. They unpack the discipline methods they  do  and  don’t &nbsp...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie tackle the tricky subject of managing conflict in nanny roles. Even in the happiest positions, disagreements can arise — and that’s perfectly normal. Conflict doesn’t necessarily mean it’s time to end the partnership; often, it’s simply time for an honest, calm conversation before any resentment builds. The discussion covers: How to stay professional when things don’...

In this week’s episode, Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss how Nannies can set themselves apart in a competitive industry—whether it’s during an interview, at a networking event, or in everyday practice. The ladies share practical advice on presenting yourself professionally, making strong first impressions, and perfecting your CV. They also explore the importance of your online presence (beca...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie sit down with Mark from Nannytax to lift the lid on the financial side of Nanny life — from pay slips to protection. Mark shares valuable insight into how Nannytax supports both Nannies and their employers. He openly addresses the all-too-common issue of Nannies being mistreated and offers clear, practical advice on how Nannies can protect themselves professionally....

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie are celebrating a HUGE milestone... a year of What The Nanny Heard. Over the past year the podcast has reached listeners in over 65 countries and passed 10,000 downloads. What started as a dream to make Nannies feel  seen and heard  has grown into a global community that embraces and celebrates the profession. In this special anniversary episode, the ladies...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the topic of AI and how it affects Nannying. They discuss whether it is something Nannies need to be worried about. It is common practice for parents today turn to Google, AI apps, and smart tech for advice and support, but what does that mean for the role of a professional nanny? Is there a chance Nannies will be replaced by robots?!! What does the use of AI...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie dive into the big topic of moving abroad for work as a Nanny. Together, they explore what to consider before taking the leap, what can go wonderfully right, and the challenges that might arise along the way. They highlight the importance of due diligence: making sure Nannies have the correct paperwork in place before starting a role overseas. The ladies also share wh...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Milie discuss the importance of boundaries for Nannies within their employment role, and why they matter for both the Nanny and the employer. Boundaries help create a healthy, respectful working relationship and protect the wellbeing of everyone involved. They explore what happens if a Nanny hasn’t set a specific boundary during the interview or trial period, reassuring lis...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie sit down with Larissa from The ChildCare Guide to discuss all things childcare choices. Larissa shares how she supports parents through the often overwhelming process of choosing the right childcare. She breaks down the different types of providers, what families can expect from each, and how to make sure they’re asking the right questions to find the p...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie sit down with the brilliant Nanny Sharz. Nanny Sharz is an Instagram powerhouse and a highly professional Nanny dedicated to her work. She goes above and beyond advocating for Nannies — from contracts and pay, to career progression and emotional well-being. She works tirelessly to educate, inform, and raise the profile of the Nannying profession as a whole. In this ep...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie speak to Beth and Marion from Rockit’s Play Centre about inclusivity, SEN, and how Nannies can best support the children in their care. Rockit’s is an award-winning play centre founded by Beth, a mum whose son is Autistic. With Marion’s unwavering support, Beth created a safe, inclusive space for children with additional needs — and a welcoming community for parents,...

This week Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss whether online spaces are supportive or toxic. They examine how online forums and groups can be a lifeline for Nannies, offering advice, support, and a sense of community. As well as providing a space to share experiences, ask questions, and feel seen—especially valuable in a profession where Nannies often work solo. Then what happens when conversati...

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie tackle a big one this week… pregnancy! One of us has a huge announcement (yes, you read that right!) and they’re diving into all the feelings, questions, and challenges that come with expecting a baby while working as a Nanny. The ladies discuss numerous topics, including: How (and when) to share pregnancy news with employers The guilt many nannies feel—are we right t...

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie explore the world of Nanny attire — from interview-ready outfits to everyday childcare wear. They chat about what’s appropriate (and what’s not), and whether uniforms have a place in modern Nannying. The conversation also looks at how the typical Nanny family has evolved over the years — and how that shift has influenced dress codes. They tackle practical questions t...

In this episode, Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie sit down with Louise — a seasoned career nanny whose path unexpectedly led her into the world of high-profile families. What started as a chance placement turned into a fulfilling, decades-long career working in some of the most exclusive households. Louise shares the  highs and lows  of life as a high-profile nanny, how these roles differ...

As September approaches Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie dive into the topic of school and nursery transitions. They explore what a smooth transition looks like for children starting school or nursery, and when to begin those all-important conversations about upcoming changes in daily routines. What does true school readiness involve? What key skills and values should all Nannies be nurturing and wh...