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In this part 2 of “Addictive Thinking,” Brian, Matt, and Drew dive further into how we can work with our addictive thinking patterns. Specifically, we discuss the difference between fighting, fueling, and feeling these thoughts. We also introduce the psychotherapy model of understanding our mind as an “internal family system” and how this empowers us in our pursuit of growth and healthier ways of...

Am I addicted to my negative thinking? In today’s episode, the guys share their own addictive thought patterns, new ways of responding to them, and why they’ve resonated so much with the language of addiction and the approach of Alcoholics Anonymous in this pursuit of personal growth. Learn more at www.wnafpod.com

In follow up to the popular “Midlife Sadness” episode from season 1, today’s episode dives into finding the “Midlife Magic.” Brian, Matt and Drew honestly explore whether “magic” exists in the world and how to dream again after many disappointments.  Matt, the self proclaimed “magic man,” makes his case for why he believes that deep desires, hope and optimism are connected to how we engage ou...

Today’s episode kicks off Season 2 and we couldn’t be more excited! Today we discuss how to own and enjoy your current season of life by gaining a greater awareness of life’s seven predictable stages and the unique blessings and burdens of each stage. This is a really relevant conversation here at the start of 2023 as we naturally consider new goals, resolutions, or changes we’d like to make in ou...

Brian, Matt and Drew share lots of laughs in this lighthearted conversation about their holiday season and recent New Year’s celebration. Among other funny stories, listen as Drew describes the time he was told he had “insufficient funds” in front of his mom, wife and daughter. Hope you enjoy this bonus episode, and we look forward to brand new episodes when Season 2 kicks off on January 17th! Lea...

We’ve come to the end of Season 1. In today’s episode, Brian, Matt, and Drew reflect on this first season and share the specific ways they’ve changed since deciding to expand the conversations they were already having daily through Marco Polo messages into a recorded podcast.  And don’t worry, there’s a juicy announcement about the coming of Season 2. Share your big takeaway from Season 1 wit...

Unhealthy comparing and competition is one of the few forces that can unravel friendships faster than almost anything. We all struggle with it at times, but what can we really do about it?  In this episode Brian, Matt and Drew get personal and honest about how they can feel competitive in their relationships with each other and how they are navigating through those challenges. Learn more at w...

In today’s episode, Brian, Matt, and Drew welcome Matt’s smart, talented and creative wife Margaret to further explore vulnerability, midlife sadness, creativity and other topics on the podcast so far. Margaret’s point of view and honest reflections as a woman, wife, and mother bring a refreshing new depth, color, and balance to the conversation. Learn more at www.wnafpod.com

Today’s episode wrestles with the tension and struggle to accept our lives just as they are. How do we make peace with our past while also having the courage to make desired changes in the future? Join Brian, Matt and Drew as they explore just how difficult yet healing it can be to live with true, honest acceptance of our lives. Learn more at www.wnafpod.com

Has the way you relate to work, money, and meaning evolved over the years? Need a more helpful way to think about your own impact in the world as life gets busier and financial pressures increase?  Join Brian, Drew, and Matt in this thoughtful conversation around the tension of money, meaning, and designing a life that keeps our creative expressions alive. Learn more at www.wnafpod.com

In today’s episode, Matt, Drew, and Brian discuss the vulnerability of being outside of our comfort zones, especially in seasons of transition. Despite the discomfort and the unknown, it is often in these vulnerable moments and seasons that we feel most fully alive.  Whether you’re currently in a transition or not, this conversation sheds light on how we can continue to opt into our lives, especia...

In today’s episode, Matt, Drew, and Brian take a deep dive into all the ways that life turned out to be way harder than they imagined, as well as the emotional ups and downs of coming to grips with new, unforeseen realities.  Whether you consider yourself to be in “midlife” or not, these feelings and struggles find all of us at some point in our journeys. Grab a box of tissues, this is the “Midlif...

Why is it so difficult to be vulnerable? To share the real and honest things going on inside of us? Even with the people we love and trust the most, vulnerability can be challenging, especially as we get older.  In this opening episode, Brian, Matt & Drew (aka Burchik, Reynolds, Drew) open up about their own struggles to be vulnerable with each other, despite sharing over twenty years of close...