What Iz He Thinking

Advice and suggestions related to marriage are easier to accept from and are best explained by an individual who has been married for some years and are currently in the middle of their happily ever after.  They say two heads are better than one, well if that is true then that means a group of experienced individuals sharing lived experiences and wisdom are better than just a pair. In th...

Marriage advice and thoughts on dating to settle down are sometimes best explained and analyzed by an individual that has  "won" the dating game and retired from the market, aka have gotten married and are living happily ever after.  The only thing better than wisdom from one experienced person is wisdom from a group of experienced individuals. In this podcast episode, I interview a...

Relationship advice and Marital practices are sometimes best explained and analyzed by an individual that has  "won" the dating game, retired from the market, and is in a happy marriage themselves.  Likewise, sometimes it takes a woman to best convey relationship tips, warnings, and advice to a woman.  In this podcast episode, I conclude the interview with a married female friend of...

Dating advice and dating practices are sometimes best explained and analyzed by an individual that has  "won" the dating game and retired from the market.  Likewise, sometimes it takes a woman to best convey dating tips, warnings, and advice to a woman.  In this podcast episode, I interview a married female friend of mine and discuss femininity, gender roles, dating, dating issues,...

U.S. Marriage rates are currently at a historic low.  The average age that both men and women get married is also older than it ever has been before.  There are many theories and reasons that try to explain this phenomenon, but the fact remains that people are not getting married like they used to.  In this podcast, I explain why men of today in civilized western cultures either avo...

Generally speaking, Men and Women approach dating differently.  Women tend to have a list of requirements/preferences that they want their prospective mate to have before they give them a real chance (as I discussed in the previous episode), while men tend to operate inversely to this, more so docking a potential mate for having or doing things he dislikes.  In this podcast, I meticulous...

Both men and women have a mental list of traits and characteristics that they most desire in their ideal romantic match.  There is a large group of women, however, that seem to think that just because a guy does not meet all of the items on their list, that they aren't a viable candidate for romance (according to many men).  In essence, "it would be nice" preferences and "he must have" r...

Most women of today want the Hallmark Channel effortless love story that they have been exposed to since they were little girls watching Disney movies.  Most women want a traditional love story in a 21st-century world, but they do not actually know the behind the scenes elements of how people of yesteryear met and got together.  Many women of today have no problem being a modern go gette...

For most people, first dates are both nerve-racking and exciting at the same time.  One way to be less nervous about going out with someone for the first time is knowing exactly what they are looking for,  and what you should do (or not do) to leave a good first impression.  This podcast shares information on men's general dating approach, it details the top things that Men look for...

Infidelity is on the rise in modern day relationships, but the main culprits for this surge are not who you might think.  The current dating culture in 2020 has made monogamy more difficult than it was in the past.   If you want to know what some of the literature says about current day cheating, if you want to know the top reasons why men cheat and/or if you want to know what to do...

Infidelity seems to be at an all-time high in our culture and is the number one fear most people have in their relationships.  The current dating culture in 2020 and the relaxed standards when it comes to sex has made monogamy more difficult than it was in the past.  Conventional wisdom says that most men are dogs and usually men are the perpetrators when it comes to cheating, but is tha...

Online dating has exploded in popularity and acceptability in the last 10 years.  With the improvement in technology and the changes in our society, people meeting people to date "the old fashioned way" is more difficult than ever.  In this podcast, pointers are given to make your dating profile as attractive and intriguing as possible, in order to maximize your options and opportunities...

Many women think that in order to attract the type of man they want they should make themselves exactly into the type of person THEY want to be with. This is not the best strategy to have.  21st Century western society has convinced both genders to act more similar to each other and this has done a number on dating and relationships.  In this podcast episode, we discuss the fact that men...

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Back in the 90s, some individuals used to say "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" as a tongue in cheek reason explaining why men and women think and perceive the world drastically differently. In this episode of the podcast, specific questions from women regarding men are answered. Topics discussed include communication, clingy controlling insecure guys, and how a woman's love life is aff...

Both men and women would agree that the dating climate of today seems to be much worse than we believed it to be before we were old enough to join it.  In this episode of the podcast, I will dive into the biggest overall issue in the dating world (for everyone) and I will also detail what I feel is the biggest issue men have with 21st-century dating and relationships.  I discuss the para...

General consensus from single women of today would suggest that the men who are available in the dating market are of low quality. In this episode, I dissect Tomi Lahren's early August 2020 IG live rant about men's shortcomings and her advice on how they should date.  I explain why some men have the shortcomings that she calls out in her video, like not planning or being consistent.  I a...

All first dates and even new relationships start off with a certain level of attraction. In this episode, I clarify some details from the previous podcast (Top 10 Things a Man looks for in a Woman), I define attraction, describe objective and subjective physical beauty / looks / appearance, I give suggestions on how you can be the best version of yourself in this area, I define the different level...

This episode lists the Top 10 Things a Man Looks for in a Woman he wants to date or IS already dating.  This podcast describes the things a man uses to determine if he is going to pursue a woman at all, if he is going to pursue her for a casual situation only or if he is going to direct his efforts toward trying to foster a long term serious relationship with a particular woman. Want to know what...

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