WE'RE NOT GOING BACK

The question is not Who Are We To.... The questions is... Who Are We NOT To? Out there in the world someone is waiting for YOU, and for ME, to get off our butts and come help them with something they're going through in life. Come and let's lead. Come and let's be an example. There are SEVERAL women in my life who've shown up (some in real life and some I've yet to meet).  They showed up even...

What does the word 'stagnant' bring to mind when you hear it or think of it? Too often we let ourselves get into a stagnant phase that lasts way too long and hurts our lives now, and affects the trajectory of our future, and very possible that of our posterity. If we're not vigilant as to our state of being, growing, and evolving is at all times, and keep tabs on our brain as what it's dictating u...

Are you the best version of you possible?  If not, let's change that starting right now! I personally don't think we ever stop evolving... Just like an iPhone or an Android phone evolves to newer better versions, so can we.  We just have to have a desire to do so.  It may not always be easy, but it will always be worth it! Please enjoy my rant on the subject, and I hope yo...

If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “Is this all there is?” then come along with me, on a journey to change our current circumstances. We’re the only ones who can change what is, into what will be. And as we embark on this journey of becoming our best selves, perhaps we can be an example to those around us, of what’s possible. Let’s dare to change the trajectory of our future, by changing wh...

The day I learned that happiness did not come from outside of me changed my life forever...  Don't ask me how old I was! Why didn't someone tell me this when I was young, and hoping "someone" would come a long and make me whole... or "complete me"? Thank goodness I was wrong, because I could've been waiting for a very long time!  And although it's work, lots of work to grasp this concept...

When you tell your story, to others or to yourself, are you a victim or a fighter? It matters so much that we take a good look at what we've overcome to get to where we are. Playing the victim role over and over again, does not serve us.  So if at all possible, depending on your circumstances, viewing ourselves as strong and resilient for having gone through hard things, can be so much more e...

Who will you become in the achieving of a goal? As we set goals, the "how" is usually something that we'll figure out in the process, but who we become in the process, can start now . As we embark on a new journey, the 'becoming' part doesn't have wait until get there... it can, and should begin now, no matter the degree.  Because as we step into our new reality, the becoming starts taking pl...

In this episode we explore the differences between when we need something vs. when we just want more, when we just have a desire for extra! Too often we may think that just having enough, or what we "need" is good enough, and may even criticize those who exhibit an outward desire for excess or luxury. But having more is not the just for the sake of having something excess, it is also a desire to w...

It's incredible how much we both want to fit in, and at the same time admire uniqueness in others!  It's our human nature to not be seen as odd or weird, while at the same time wanting to maintain our own personality... It's really hard to do!!  Why?  Well, maybe because deep down we want to do both, but are afraid to be different and being criticized for it. In this episode we talk...

In this episode you'll get to know your host Addie Scharff Helbling a little more, and get a glimpse of what her goals for this podcast are Her idea is to not edit episodes, in order to give you, the listener, a taste of what it's like to start something new, without having to be perfect at it! On this podcast, especially the first few episodes, you'll get a beginner's version of how to start some...

In this episode Addie talks about stepping outside our comfort zone in order to become the best version of ourselves we possibly can. Even when our brain tells us it's too scary to risk being criticized, which is its job, if we want to grow and become a better version of our current self, we have to override this fear and jump in. So maybe next time you're trying to take chances and your brain tel...

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