We Used To Be Cool

On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with rock star mom and author Madeline Murphy to discuss her new devotional “The Fruit of the Spirit” written just for moms. Madeline shares about the joys and struggles we all face as moms and the importance of prioritizing our relationships— first with the Lord and also with our kids.  Buy her new book here: https://a.co/d/7OmtKGc Find us on Instagram @we...

On episode 26, Xan and Hannah catch up on everything since they left the “studio” in April. They share about entertaining three kids all summer long and the things that made them laugh (and cry) over the last 4 months.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On the season 3 premiere, Hannah shares about Fletcher’s unexpected hospital stay and Tilly’s birth. We cover the transition from 2 to 3 and what the Lord has been teaching Hannah throughout the last few months.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On the season two finale, Xan and Hannah both share about their pregnancies and their struggles during this season. They also share some tips and tricks for summertime with toddlers and what they are loving right now! See you next season!  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

Episode 23 is one for the Dads. Xan and Hannah sit down with their husbands, Ethan and Jud, to chat about all things parenthood. They answer the tough questions, share what’s worked for them, and laugh a lot.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 22, Xan and Hannah sit down with their favorite guests yet— their mom and dad! They talk about them on almost every episode, but finally you get to hear it straight from the source. Tune in to hear all about how they were raised and lessons Dodd and Whitnee have learned in 35 years of continual parenting. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your prefe...

On episode 21, Hannah and Xan chat about where they’ve been and what they’ve learned over the last couple of weeks. They discuss the importance of positive parenting and managing our own emotions to model that for our kids.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 20, Hannah and Xan breakdown registry dos and don’ts, and other advice for new and expecting moms. They chat about surviving the time change, being type B moms, and why being aesthetically pleasing isn’t a thing anymore.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 19, Xan and Hannah sit down with online business coach, Alexis Greco. Alexis is passionate about coming alongside women and helping them find a rhythm between running their home and running their business. As a homeschool mom of 4 and a business owner, she has so many practical tips that every mom can apply today. We learned so much and hope you will too. Find Alexis on Instagram: @alex...

On episode 18, Hannah and Xan sit down to talk about what the Lord has been teaching them over the last few weeks. They discuss their own struggles and strongholds, and the importance of replacing the lies we tell ourselves with the truth.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 17, Hannah and Xan sit down with super mom of 5, Jane Brock, to discuss practical tips for raising kids. She gives discipline strategies, education advice and shares the importance of being encouraging, loving moms above all else.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 16, Hannah and Xan sit down with twin mom Jennifer Pitman as she bravely shares about her traumatic birth experience, the tragic loss of her daughter in the NICU and how the experiences have shaped her as a person and as a mom.  TW: infant loss  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 15, Xan and Hannah sit down with one of our favorite moms, Becky Cook to talk about the value in showing up in our friendships as our authentic selves. Becky shares about the book she is writing, the flexibility motherhood requires, and the importance of enjoying each season because none of them last forever.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your...

On episode 14, Xan and Hannah sit down with fellow boy mom and podcast host, Catherine Ward, to discuss remaining calm in the chaos of raising kids. She shares how important it is to control our own emotions and enjoy the day-to-day. She also shares about her brand new podcast "To Be Loved" and the eternal value our stories hold. Follow Catherine @catherinestricklandward_ Listen to her podcast: Ap...

On the season 2 premiere, Hannah and Xan reflect on the holidays, discuss their personal and parenting goals for the new year and talk about things they are looking forward to in 2024.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On the season 1 finale, Xan and Hannah answer some listener questions, breakdown toddler discipline and reflect back on the first season of We Used to be Cool. Thanks for listening and Merry Christmas!  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

After 32 Christmas seasons together, Xan and Hannah have a lot to discuss. This week, they breakdown the pressure of the holidays, the enhanced mental load and they share some simple ideas to take away a little bit of the stress. The girls also think through and answer some thoughtful questions from several “friends of the pod”. Nativity Scenes Dec 8-9 at Freedom Baptist Church in Wilmington, NC:...

TW: miscarriage and pregnancy loss On episode 10, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom, wife, business owner and fellow podcast host Kathryn Benko to discuss shameless living, breaking free from body shame, and holding onto hope in the face of devastating loss.  Kathryn's Business & Podcast: Sole Fitness in Wilmington, NC: https://www.solefitness.org/ Heart + Sole: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/po...

On episode 9, Hannah and Xan sit down with Natalie West to discuss single-parenting, the necessity of depending on the Lord, and modeling ministry and service to our kids. We also dive into the challenging but beautiful calling that is foster care. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 8, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of 7, Serinda Moulton, to discuss parenting with the relationship in mind. Serinda shares about how to make each of our kids feel loved and important and reminds us that it’s God’s kindness that leads us to repentance.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 7, Hannah and Xan sit down with registered nurse, lactation consultant, and pregnancy health coach Christian Stallings to discuss developing healthy habits in ourselves and our kids. Christian dives into her relationship with the Lord and the joy in being refined through the journey that is motherhood.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferr...

On episode 6, Xan and Hannah sit down with everyone’s bff Marissa Hughes to talk about creating and maintaining friendships that can thrive in any season and the importance of showing up when it really counts.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode 5, Xan and Hannah sit down with twin mom and DIY queen Lora Kates to learn more about Spina Bifida, processing a diagnosis and supporting our kids as they navigate adversity. Lora shares about the importance of inclusion and raising our kids to be kind and compassionate.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & than...

On episode 4, Hannah and Xan sit down with supermom Emily Jennings to discuss the joy that can be found in the chaos, the power in praying for our kids, and walking beside them as they discover their individual value and callings.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Follow Emily - @emjen2000 Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

On episode three, Hannah and Xan sit down with Heather Colenda to talk about modeling our faith to our kids through organic prayer and praise.  Shoutout to helping our kids grow up knowing they are loved and whole because of who they are in Christ. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Song we have on repeat: https://open.spotify.com/track/2GGvmXF70zQ13NS86nOw7k?si=0e7ec119d68c4d1f Be sure to f...