We Still Like Each Other

Happy Halloween from Stephanie & Travis!  OMG “JaDA EmBaRaSsEd WiLi AgAin”, but did y’all actually listen to what she said? Travis and Stephanie did and y’all need to put away your pitch forks. Don’t believe everything you see online. ALWAYS be skeptical when the internet is attempting to bash women. This conversation leads to discussions about sex, communication, sexual affirmations, vulnerab...

This week Stephanie and Travis discuss being honest about your intentions when initiating a relationship (sexual or romantic). We’ve all heard “just be honest at the beginning so no one gets hurt”. Yet there are people who rather get what they want and dash. Ouch. What’s the difference between directly paying for a sexual transaction and paying for dates and gifts with hopes of getting sex in retu...

Stephanie and Travis realize what they thought was an exception, is actually the norm. Most couples do not share equal levels of sex drives and most couples report this difference leads to arguments. This week they dive into ways people have found to make their relationship work despite that difference. Some may seem a little problematic, but making relationships work can be tricky. Why is talking...

Due to the various conversations had with listeners, Stephanie and Travis touch base on their “social media official” comments from last week. So many fears surrounding public perception dictate our posting habits. However, Travis has a slice of humble pie realizing that each situation is different. During an intense “Oh So Y'all Can Relate” segment, they dive into reigniting old flames, sex...

This week Stephanie and Travis discuss the feelings of welcoming a new month, dating your friends ex, changing your mind about having kids, and making relationships social media official. Is there a “bro/girl code” to dating your friends ex? Or does it depend on the nature of the relationship? How long they dated? Did they have sex? Do you not want kids? Or is it that you just don’t want kids with...

Alongside their first in person guest, Irene C. , Stephanie and Travis discuss “the patriarchy”, and make an argument for just throwing the whole phrase “submissive women” in the trash. There were so many comments about Stephanie misinterpreting the phrase, but in reality, it seems as if people are just redefining it, when they can just not use the term at all. Language is important! This weeks “O...

This week Stephanie and Travis dive into listener submitted topics. Can your partner have friends of the opposite sex? Can your partner be friends with someone they had an intimate relationship with in the past? Can a relationship in which a woman makes more money work? Does it matter when the woman started to make more? What does it mean to be a submissive woman in a relationship? Does the defini...

This week Stephanie and Travis touch on the over consumption of clothing. Stephanie spent the week decluttering and thinking about how to shift her thinking and habits around fashion. They briefly reflect on what they remember from 9.11.01. Coincidentally they were both in gym class. (They were fated haha) This weeks Oh So Y’all Can Relate submission, weighs in on “should family come first? Before...

It’s been a long week at home for Stephanie and Travis. They had their first guest on the same night Hurricane Ida ripped through New York and New Jersey. Their talk with Cindy of Zero Based Budget led to a week of them reflecting on their financial goals. Rent was due, hey first of the month. This got us reaching out to our audience about how rent is split in their household. We discuss the 50/50...

Stephanie and Travis finally talk about their “conversation” a couple of weeks ago that had Stephanie on edge during episode 008. They share hard to swallow truths about their financial struggles and the reality of becoming a one income household. At a time they desperately need a financial reset, they invite financial expert Cindy Zuniga-Sanchez, founder of Zero Based Budget Coaching LLC to discu...

Travis and Stephanie address Stephanie’s tense and spicy mood last episode. They also make a MAJOR life update/announcement. Do you know that couple that stays together only because they have already spent numerous years together? Are you in that situation? Listen to what Stephanie has to say about that. Do you have a guilty pleasure of watching cringe TV? Well we sorta do and are giving Bachelor...

Is Sex Work “real” work? Is there a level of jealousy that plays into the hate people give sex workers? What exactly did OnlyFans announce? Who does it impact the most? What implications will this have on sex workers? Travis and Stephanie get into a heated debate about sex work, morality, social expectations and shaming. Why is working a 9-5 with people you hate, making less than you deserve more...

New episode on a Thursday, because why not? WE HAD TO dig deeper into how we manage our relationship and parenting. Our marriage takes priority, because our child benefits greatly when we are in tune. It’s a trickle down effect. Join us as we talk about parenting while maintaining healthy boundaries, establishing and maintaining respect, and not obsessing over being the best parents ever.

This week Stephanie and Travis take it back, way back to reflect on how their childhood and upbringing influenced their ideas on marriage, money, and sex. A real therapy session for real. Stephanie put that undergrad psych degree to work. On “Media Love” they pay homage to one of their favorite podcast Whoreible Decisions, and reflect on the relationship dynamic of their latest guest, a young marr...

This week Stephanie and Travis brought the heat: Sex and Relationships. When you aren’t communicating, you make false assumptions and shit can go bad quick! Stephanie and Travis battled with intimacy for a while. Now that they have overcome those challenges they are sharing their experience for those who can relate and learn from it. On “Oh So Y’all Can Relate” we dive into how important it is for...

This week Stephanie and Travis discuss internalized homophobia and sexism in the wake of DaBaby's remarks during Rolling Loud as well as mental health and Simone Biles. Of course a spicy "Oh So Ya'll Can Relate" segment, followed by Stephanie and Travis' past worst date experiences. We wanna know, do you like a little a extra Sazón?

Today we share what it’s like being in a heterosexual marriage with a bisexual person. Feels like we’re coming out. We also start 2 new segments “Oh So Y’all Can Relate?” Where we share anonymous submissions from our listeners regarding relatable relationship woes. And “Internet Love” which is a working title, in this segment we share relationship stories we find on the internet that are interesti...

We understood the assignment. We gave a little more tea about the night of the "devious plan". Stephanie tells "why" she forgave Travis. The second half discusses our second biggest struggle, MONEY. Why is money so taboo? Why do so many of us live above our means to impress people we don't even like? Well both of these unanswered questions left us BROKE and STRESSED.

"Oh ya'll just got married? No wonder. Give it a couple of years." ... "He's so thoughtful, ohhhh this is your first year married. No wonder, he will change."... "This is just the honeymoon stage"... Ugh the negativity around marriage is so annoying. Guess what, We Still Like Each Other. In this episode we reflect on our toughest year, Year 1, before the mar...