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I used to give a lot of unsolicited advice and then I'd get really frustrated when people didn't take it and I'd watch them suffer for it. Now I just let people get things wrong; it's freeing. Join me this week as I discuss the egg drop theory (as conceptualized by moi), the frustration of giving (unsolicited) advice that friends don't take, some of my most embarrassing moments...

In this episode, I give some life updates, show love for my community on here (hey, pod squad), and keep it real about consecration. Starting with a definition, I share what a consecrated life looks like (from my experience), the realities of being misunderstood, and ultimately landing on how all-knowing God is. We need to talk about living a consecrated life, for real. 📚References 🔎 1 Peter 2:...

In this episode (and season finale), I discuss the difference between vacations vs travelling to see family, how I make travelling easier for myself, and what I’m looking forward to on this vacation. What are your must-haves while travelling? How do you make sure your travels are stress-free? Apostle Matthew Stevenson III’s sermon THAT I CAUGHT LIVE in New York https://youtu.be/cFmugl8mUpI?si=chO-...

This podcast was made possible by viewers like you... and by "like you" I mean Y-O-U. Thanks to you, this podcast has global reach. So tell me a little bit about yourself... where are you listening from? How did you find this podcast? What are some of your favourite episodes? What conversations have these episodes sparked in your real life? What do you notice about the people around you?...

In this episode, I talk about why I quit my job, how my mindset on quitting changed, and what I hope they learn from me quitting. I also talk about how God gave me this job, the season when it was a blessing, and how I could tell the well was running dry (aka when it wasn’t a such blessing anymore). These lessons I learned can be applied across the board: at your job (whether you're a supervis...

We all need deliverance from something. Today, I learned the sobering truth about what happens spiritually when I was high, and why it's not worth it to me anymore. We need to talk about why and how I'm revoking all entry to the devil--and how you can, too. Follow along & test this word: Ephesians 5:8-13, 17-18 Matthew 12:25-29, 43-45 Jeremiah 17:9 John 10:4, 5 Galatians 5:1, 7-9, 13,...

We all have that friend who's always suggesting, "let's take pictures" at the hang-outs, proposing a photoshoot at every function, holding their camera up to take candids, and immediately asking you to send whatever photos you took to them either via AirDrop or the group chat. I'm that friend. Today we're talking about how I got into photography and why I print my photos....

Self control is a fruit of the Spirit, and every time I get asked an invasive question is an opportunity for me to exercise that virtue. I've now become a master at handling inappropriate, stupid, and disrespectful questions. Here are some of the ways I stay unbothered, and some tips on how you can handle these questions, too. We need to talk about remaining unbothered when folks ask invasive...

Guess who's back? In this episode, I catch up with y'all & chat about a topic many of us avoid... rest! Did you know there were 7 types of rest? This episode discusses what the types of rest are, what it feels like when you've rested that way, and some examples of how to experience that rest. Remember, if you don't give your body a break, your body will take one for you (and it's never at a co...

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A lot of us avoid talking about this and acknowledging this. Friendship breakups can be traumatic, self-care is self-preservation, and the approval you are waiting for can only come from yourself. Not only was this episode inspired by real life conversations, but The Friendzone Podcast's “The Grief Episode” was posted the week before this episode dropped; perfect timing. https://open.spotify.com/e...

HEY SEASON 2! This episode, we get into the principles of seasons, fasting from sugar, self-control, and conscious media consumption. We need to talk about sugar as a drug. . We affiliated! For gorgeous, high-quality durags, bonnets, satin-lined beanies, turbans (and more!) from an authentic Black-owned company, visit https://taelorboutique.com/?p=ryqTHhHOt and use code QUEENZ15 for 15% off your o...

Grab your tissues, this is the most difficult conversation yet. Blossom and I finally have the conversations we wish we heard more often regarding trials and tests of faith that hit HOME. This episode is specifically for someone to know: you are not alone. If you're going through a particularly isolating experience, open your heart to God; it's the safest place to be (Psalm 131, Proverbs 18:1...

In the final episode of the midterms, Blossom and I get real about losing friends while leveling up. We continue the conversation about how God is moving in our everyday, regular shmegular lives. I also provide a quick prophetic word for somebody in the intro--catch it if it's yours!  Listen to "Devoted Devotions" on Red Circle (https://redcircle.com/shows/devoted-devotions), Apple Music (htt...

 From jumping Adam in heaven to jumping the broom with OUR Adam, here's part 2 of my conversation with Blossom. We need to talk about questions we have about the Bible. This week's episode is sponsored by Passion Planner, my biggest secret to staying organized. Paste RWRD.IO/9I26BX9?C into your browser to get your discount and https://passionplanner.com/pages/planner-quiz to take the quiz. Te...

Welcome to the midterm season! Hope this ties you over til season 2. This week, my good sis Blossom stops by to discuss the intensity of teen tv shows (looking at you, Euphoria), the market for teenagers on OnlyFans, and answer the question, "can you be talented without showing your body?" During our conversation, we also exchange stories on moments we probably shouldn't have laughed but coul...

We share somehow comical stories of casual (internalized) racism, Black Karens, and why I will never again attend a PWI. We also talk about how to finesse the system and protect yourself in social and classroom settings. All the kids who were the *only one* in their class or small town, this is for you. To keep in touch with Sifa, visit her Instagram @sifakeys. It's her birthday today, September 3...

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My guest is anonymous and honestly, we're just having a good time! During our conversation, she and I crack jokes, talk about inferiority complexes vs humility, and discuss the double bind of excellence. It's not every day you get [to hear from someone who is as awesome as this person for this reason (brag about them)]! We need to talk about inferiority complexes & imposter syndrome. . In this...

This week I'm joined by another incredible cousin, Lilitha aka Lili. We discuss our views of masculinity, femininity, spiritual gifts, raising genderless children, and what to do about our dying planet. We also shared a similar dream! We need to talk about masculine & feminine energy. . In this episode, I mentioned my recent YouTube video on spirituality. If, during this episode, your discernm...

In episode K8, Kaity shares her personal experiences with acceptance, rejection, and confidence. Dating in your 20s in the digital era isn't easy, y'all. Kaity gets candid about how she perceives her dates, insecurities, what boosts her confidence, and how to get over someone you dated when things didn't work out.  When she said, "my body is the least exciting thing about me", I felt that!!!...

Get your chemistry notebooks out, cause Tee is ready to break it all down. During our conversation, she shares her self-discovery, how to keep 4C hair happy, and how to REALLY know what porosity your hair is (hint: it’s in the hair cuticles). It's not every day you get hair advice from a Bio major who put her city on to haircare as a teen! We need to talk about We need to talk about the science be...

FASHION ICON ALERT! DAMMY IS IN THE BUILDING. During our conversation, she shares her experience with fashion, investing in herself, the key to her confidence, and how to elevate your style. It's not every day you get to sit in the presence of a confident queen like Dammy! We need to talk about fashion and finding yourself. . To keep up with Dammy, show her love on Instagram @dammyale and tell her...

This week's guest, Mark Jones, aka MJ, shares insight on physical therapy, his relationship with God, and how food choices are connected to the meaning of life. There's a sprinkle of sports analogies, Latin, and the perfect spot to watch the sunrise in California It's not every day you get to hear from someone who learned how to walk twice (& who features on TMZ at times... but he doesn't want...

This week, I'm joined by an incredible guest, Windel. During our conversation, he shares his favourite foods, how to build your cooking repertoire after moving out, what to do when you’re bored of your own cooking, and his decision not to turn his hobby into a side-hustle. It's not every day you get cooking advice from a culinary school star student! What’s the name of that Moldovan cake? We need...