Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

Society EN ↓ 428 episodes

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

Author

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Category

Society

Podcast website

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Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

Insight Into The Male Mind When Newly Dating ft. Dan Perlman 10.07.2022

On today’s episode, I sit down with comedian, writer, and star of Flatbush Misdemeanors. Dan and I discuss how first dates are not a good representation of someone, why it’s important to see someone in their element, the level of stalking a guy does when newly seeing a girl, what makes a guy have an emotional block , telling someone they smell, why waiting to respond to someone is pointless, and s...

Stop Dating Like You’re Single ft. Corporate Natalie 03.07.2022

On today’s episode, I sit down with the one and only Corporate Natalie. Natalie and I discuss getting dumped because of your passion, dating in SF and how it’s different, why you should act like you have a boyfriend when dating, making new friends later on, how her boss feels about her tiktok, why the gym community came for her, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my...

How Women Are Ruining Their Relationships ft. Andre Paradis 26.06.2022

On today’s episode, I sit down with relationship coach Andre Paradis. Andre and I discuss feminine energy, how to lean into your feminine side, why equality is not sexy, what men need from women in order for the relationship to work, how to communicate your needs without nagging, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss adjusting from the sparks of early dating, advice for...

Stable Relationships Are Not Sexy ft. Therapy Jeff 23.06.2022

On today’s episode, I sit down with therapist Jeff Guenther aka Therapy Jeff. Jeff and I discuss why stability isn’t sexy, his take on the 90/10 rule, how to know if you should work through something in therapy vs. break up, how to suggest therapy to your friend or partner, tips to break out of a bickering cycle, why we stalk our exes on social media, knowing your partner is the one, and so much m...

What Makes Dating In Your 30’s Different ft. Lauren Abney and Stephanie Biegel 12.06.2022

On today’s episode, I sat down with Lauren Abney and Stephanie Biegel, hosts of Well Behaved Podcast. Lauren, Stephanie, and I discuss the differences between dating in your 20s and 30s, why it’s important to date someone who doesn’t “check off your boxes,” questioning if motherhood is right for you, how the right person may affect if you want kids or not, why Lauren’s marriage ended, why a coloni...

Should We Date One Person At A Time? ft. Kevin Nahai 29.05.2022

Today’s episode features speaker and coach Kevin Nahai. Kevin and I discuss dating intentionally, why he thinks you shouldn’t date more than one person at a time, his version of a 3 date rule, how to be deserving of a partner, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to successfully have a FWB and find one, what women settle for and what men settle for, and things you should ta...

Investing In The Right Person ft. Jason Tartick 22.05.2022

Today’s episode features Jason Tartick, host of Trading Secrets podcast. Jason and I discuss why he went on the Bachelorette, how he met his fiance Kaitlyn, overcoming his panic attacks and mental health struggles, why he proposed on a podcast episode, how to keep a relationship fun, the secrets to being a good investor, why you should branch out in your career, and more. The episode starts with a...

There Is No One Size Fits All In Dating ft. Hunter and Michaela McGrady 19.05.2022

Today’s episode features Hunter and Micaela McGrady, sisters and hosts of the Model Citizen podcast. Hunter, Michaela, and I discuss how they met their partners, how to feel confident dating while plus sized, learning self acceptance, how to know your "resting weight", why we need to talk to ourselves like a big sister would, not hiding how you look on dating apps, and more. The episode starts wit...

Trigger Warning: Signs Your Relationship May Be Abusive ft. Lauren Tetenbaum, LMSW 15.05.2022

Today’s episode features Lauren A. Tetenbaum, LMSW, JD, PMH-C. Lauren is an amazing therapist and advocate for women who also happens to have found herself in an abusive relationship when she was in college. Lauren and I discuss the signs to look out for, different types of abuse in a relationship, the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard trial, what constitutes abuse vs. is just not a match, if certain people...

How To Overcome Anxious Attachment ft. Chris Rackliffe 08.05.2022

Today’s episode features Chris Rackliffe, an anxious attachment coach. Chris and I discuss how people develop an anxious attachment style, ways to transform it into secure attachment, Taylor Swift’s attachment style throughout the years, if avoidant = narcissist, how to be confident in a relationship even if you are anxious, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss Anatomy of a Sca...

Why I Don’t Believe In Ending Friendships 01.05.2022

Today’s solo episode is all about FRIENDSHIP. Insecurity in friendships, not being close with one person in your group, strengthening friendships, feeling like you’re losing friends as you get older, how often to hang with your friends VS. your partner, friend jealousy, how much effort a friendship should take, and what I’ve learned in my friendships overall.    Sponsors: Functionofbeauty.com/ACME...

Is There Such Thing As Spending Too Much Time With Your Partner? ft. Olivia and Kyle from The Clear Cut 24.04.2022

In today’s episode, I sit down Olivia and Kyle, founders of The Clear Cut. We discuss what it’s like living together and working together, who made the first move, how they got into the jewelry business, ways to make an engagement ring unique, what ring they both don’t like, where they stand on having kids, what happens with jewelry during a divorce or broken off engagement, and so much more. This...

Why Conflict Is Crucial For Any Relationship ft. Jayson Gaddis 21.04.2022

In today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Jayson Gaddis, dating expert and author of Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relation- ships. We discuss how conflict saves your relationship, distinguishing between love bombing and something real, why men always come back, how to know when couples counseling is necessary for your relationship, dealing with a partner who sh...

The Rules: Wedding Edition 17.04.2022

In today’s full solo episode, I break down any and all wedding related etiquette. We will discuss how much to spend on your friend’s wedding, why the bride needs to start paying for her portion of the bachelorette, what you should pay for as a +1, why you should NEVER bring a friend, what not to wear as a wedding guest, how to meet someone when you’re single at a wedding, and so much more!   Spons...

Why It Was Time To Let Go ft. Katie Maloney 10.04.2022

In today’s episode, I sit down with Katie Maloney, Vanderpump Rules star and host of You’re Gonna Love Me podcast. Katie and I discuss what led to her divorce, when she knew it was over, if there were red flags she ignored, the final straw, why her and Tom are still living together, if they can stay friends, what she is looking for in a partner now, and more! This episode starts with a solo where...

Is It Harder To Break Up When You’re Almost 30? ft. Kamie Crawford 03.04.2022

In today’s episode, I sit down Kamie Crawford, co-host of MTV’s Catfish and host of Relationsh*t podcast. We discuss her break up, how she healed from ending her relationship of 5 years, all the girls we made friends with when going out, how Catfish actually works , what she's learned from being the host of Catfish, why we all try to be people we're not sometimes, examples of wifey duties, and mor...

Why We’re So Obsessed With Dating ft. Jordana Abraham 27.03.2022

In today’s episode, I sit down with Jordana Abraham, co-founder of Betches and co-host of U Up? Podcast. We discuss why she doesn’t believe in “the one”, drunk fighting with her SO, why 3 month relationships hurt so much, how important it is to be vulnerable when dating, her love story with her now husband, a reality of marriage that is better than her expectation, how to become less of an anxious...

A Complete And Total Guide To All Dating Rules 20.03.2022

In this month’s solo episode, I do a refresher on the rules for dating. I also discuss Pam and Tommy, share stories of people who had success following the rules, talk about why I went off birth control and how it has been, how I got started with all of this dating stuff, what my husband and I decided to do with finances for our marriage, if I had any help when I got sober, and so much more!   Spo...

An Episode For Our 90s Babies ft. Josh Peck 13.03.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down with actor Josh Peck. We discuss how his Drake and Josh days, how he lost 100 pounds, his sobriety and how it came about, meet- ing his now wife, being in an interfaith relationship, staying relevant as we get older, the cringes thing he’s ever been apart of, Amanda Bynes, the Vlog squad, Hilary Duff, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the...

Say This To Get The Highest Response On Dating Apps ft. Melissa Hobley 06.03.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down with the CMO of OkCupid, Melissa Hobley. We discuss why everyone needs that outgoing friend, the reason after a break up is the best time to date, going through an addiction in the family, what we don't know about dating apps, dating app insider tips, how political we should be getting on apps, what gets the highest response rate on dating apps, and what is the h...

How I Got Married In 5 Months 27.02.2022

In this week’s episode, we’re talking all about MY WEDDING!!! What!! I’m still so shook that I got married. I’m discussing the real reason we got married so quickly, the most stressful part of the night, the couples that met at our wedding, what I wish had hap- pened differently, my favorite moment, if there were tears, what went wrong that night, the thought process behind having 4 dresses, all t...

Maybe DO Date Your Best Friend ft. Arielle Vandenberg 20.02.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down with vine superstar and host of Love Island USA Arielle Vandenberg. We discuss how she started off as friends with her SO, what wedding planning has been like, her go-to for a bad mental health day, how she knew Matt was the one, dating a musician, her obsession with Bieber, what Arielle chooses to keep off social media, why she hasn’t told her engagement story,...

Why Your Dating App Profile Sucks ft. Leanna and Jared 13.02.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down Leanna Joan and Jared Rodrigues of Hello & Goodbye Podcast. We discuss Leanna’s divorce, why her and Jared aren’t a couple, the rules for platonic friendships, why selfies should never be on dating app profiles, how to not take yourself too seriously when on the apps, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I got married yesterday, the diffe...

Rules For Getting Back Together With An Ex ft. Leslie Grant 06.02.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Leslie Grant, host of Interstates and Heartbreak Podcast. We discuss rules for getting back together with an ex, situations in which a break can work, wanting to know what our SO's talk about with their therapists, the benefits of dating multiple people in one night, scarcity vs abundance mindset, why we stay in bad friendships, signs you're being love bombe...

How To Make Dating Less Exhausting ft. Rashad aka Corporayshid 30.01.2022

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Rashad aka Corporayshid on TikTok. We discuss his go-to first date routine, most common date clichés, the most bizarre DM’s he gets, the problem with meeting up with people off social media, how to make a wedding fun, why everyone wants to skip the small talk on dates, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my first (and last) lymphatic d...

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